ApexNomad

That’s a peeka-BOO!!

Interesting theory, but it’s not the full picture. Symmetry may play a role in universal attractiveness, but cultural ideals absolutely influence what is desirable at any given time. If beauty were purely biological, standards wouldn’t shift so drastically—even within the gay community. Think Tom of Finland’s hyper-masculine fantasy men of the 70s, the lean and androgynous twink aesthetic of the early 2000s, or today’s gym-sculpted internet influencers. Media amplifies and reinforces these trends, creating a feedback loop of aspiration. Biology sets the baseline, but culture shapes the narrative.

No need for a conspiracy theory—it’s called systemic bias. Media reflects societal preferences, which are shaped by historical power structures, and they reinforce each other. But sure, imagine the boardroom scene if it helps you grasp the concept.

Of course not, but the heart has a mind of its own. Sometimes emotions defy logic, no matter how much we try to stay grounded. If someone is new to this, it’s even harder to control. Boundaries are vital in these transactions.

You do you my friend. Normal is subjective—it all comes down to what you value and how it fits into your life. If it brings you happiness or meets a need, who’s to say it isn’t worth it?

Going into negative numbers - I love how you think!