ApexNomad

I would apply the whole bottle. And keep rubbing those globes. I could watch this all day.

I hope you enjoy!

All three - depends on sex/guy/moment.

Favorite hotel when I go on vacation are Aman hotels and resorts.

For a new bottom, the experience will largely depend on how compassionate and attentive the top is. There’s no way around that. I lost mine to a provider, and I was extremely nervous. But he truly created a safe space for me. He did everything to make me laugh and feel at ease, but he also knew when to take the lead without ever pushing. He guided my hands over his body, and his hands explored mine. I mimicked his movements, learning through touch. At one point, he sat on the edge of the bed, held my hand, and had me stand between his legs. It gave me this feeling like I was “taller” than him, in a way I can’t quite explain, but it made me feel in charge and free to explore him. And we kissed. I climbed onto his lap, straddling him. We kept making out until he ended up on his back. At some point, we shifted again, and I was on mine. It all just flowed naturally. When it was time for penetration, we went with missionary, and I think that was the best choice for a first time. The others mentioned are great choices too—I think for me and my nerves, missionary worked really well. And I think he knew that. It allowed for maximum eye contact and constant reassurance, making it easier to relax. He controlled the depth and pace, which helped minimize discomfort. Plus, being able to kiss and stay connected the whole time kept me focused on him instead of any nervousness or tension. He never took his eyes off me. He read my body language, and I read his. When he smiled—which he did a lot—I felt encouraged and smiled back. He kissed me so many times during each thrust that I completely lost myself in the moment. It was an experience that made me feel safe, wanted, and in control while still allowing me to be guided. And that was entirely because of him. I take no credit for that—he created that space for me. Do what feels right to you, but from my experience, missionary is a great way to start. It keeps you connected, helps with pacing if you’re unsure, and makes the experience feel intimate.

You changed his life! In that moment, you changed his life. Beautiful!! Bravo to you.

I saw Maybe Happy Ending and was pleasantly surprised. I enjoyed it very much!!

B is now in second place because B took A’s position. A gets bumped to third, but B is still behind whoever was in first place.

Everything you wrote is beautiful. Especially what you wrote here - this is so true! That is very difficult to do and it is something you should take enormous pride in. Bravo to you! 👏

A lot can change in 20 years. If you haven’t been somewhere for that long, the vibe and culture can feel completely different. And even if some things haven’t changed, you have—so your experience of the place will, too.

You really are a rare bird. It’s clear you take your profession seriously, not just as a service but as a meaningful, deeply personal exchange. The way you describe your ideal client says a lot about the kind of provider—and person—you are. It’s not just about the physical but about connection, energy, and making a real impact. That level of care and intention is rare and really admirable.

I find the black boxer briefs look amazing on him. It’s perfect. The Daddy/Son theme would never happen on a show like this, especially with this particular character. One can dream though.

Someone recently posted a favorable review of Boop! - that could certainly be an option. Have not heard of Just in Time. I’d probably lean toward Smash if I had to pick, although, I like the creatives behind Boop. Should be fun no matter what you choose. Enjoy!

The Nathan Lane/Faith Prince/Peter Gallagher revival was pure magic!

Or compassion and emotional intelligence.

Australia — on my bucket list. Always wanted to go, but never been. Almost went a few times. The long flight really holds me back. I almost went — don’t laugh — so I could see Sarah Brightman perform in Sunset Blvd last year. Not the only reason, but I was going to schedule a trip around that. Glad I didn’t - heard she was awful.

For those that value intimacy, a deeper level of intimacy always makes it better. But that is very hard to get in a transactional relationship, especially as a first timer. A trusted regular yes, it’s possible—but that takes time.

Breath control, relaxation, gag reflex training, positioning, and communication. Before you start taking his cock, tell your husband to start slow and adjust to your comfort level when he face fucks you. That’s 101! Lightly brushing the back of your tongue with a toothbrush or finger can help reduce your gag reflex over time. Lying on your back with your head hanging slightly off the edge of the bed can straighten your throat, making things easier. Practice your breathing exercises. Training yourself with breath-holding techniques (like box breathing) may improve your ability to manage without panicking.

Imagine having one of your best experiences and still feeling the need to nitpick.

I’m actually starting to enjoy it now—I find it hysterical. Agree with you about Gaitok. Part of the enjoyment is also the vacation porn.

Best of luck to you!

Listing yourself as “straight” isn’t a get-out-of-jail-free card for not performing. Clients DO expect you to perform. If you have prerequisites to make that happen, then you need to be upfront about them in your ad. Require a FaceTime call, set specific criteria in advance—whatever you need to feel confident. But don’t waste people’s time by having a client show up, open the door, and then say, “Yeah, I can’t fuck that, but you can worship my muscles.” That’s not professionalism, that’s bait-and-switch. And a shitty thing to do to a client on the spot.

There’s a difference between setting expectations and micromanaging execution. If I book a provider and say I want a boyfriend experience or a dominant top, that’s me setting expectations. In my opinion, it’s not my job to tell him how to get and maintain an erection. With what I’m paying, I would hope he knows how to cross the finish line. How would I even know if a provider needs Trimix or Viagra? And if I start insisting they take it, does that mean I’m responsible for providing or paying for it? That doesn’t make sense. If they need something to perform, that’s for them to figure out—not for me to manage or finance.

Oh no, not a child’s vocabulary! Next thing you know, they’ll be making up words like supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and society will crumble.