ApexNomad

I’m shocked you walked out of Sunset Blvd. The only musical I ever walked out of was the revival of The Threepenny Opera.

Maybe that’s the difference. I’m not hiring men so young or inexperienced that the concept of an overnight and what to charge is so foreign to them. Even if a provider is unsure, the simplest and most professional approach would have been to throw out a number and work with the client right there. This wasn’t a one-time inquiry from a stranger—it was a regular client expressing interest in spending more time and more money. That alone should have signaled to the provider that this was an opportunity to build on an existing relationship, not a situation to leave open-ended. Clients aren’t going to wait indefinitely while a provider figures out their business model. A confident, prepared professional—regardless of experience—knows how to have that conversation in the moment. Hesitation or deflection sends a message, and in this case, it told the client that the provider wasn’t ready to handle a straightforward request. That says a lot.

Could very well be. Or they simply don’t know the area too well and would prefer not to travel outside from where they are staying.

From a business standpoint, if you’re offering your time professionally, you should at least have an idea of what your services are worth—whether it’s an hour or a whole night. The provider essentially let a regular client walk away without an answer—someone willing to book more time and spend more money. That’s not how you run a business. It’s one thing to need a moment to consider pricing, but to leave it so open-ended that the client has to literally ask strangers online what’s appropriate? That’s just bad business. If you’re offering a service, you should know your rates or at least have a professional way to handle the conversation. Otherwise, you’re making it harder for clients to book you—and easier for them to move on to someone else.

He’s quite handsome in his photos, but I’d be more concerned that he lists his last test as 04/04/23. 2023!!! Does he know we’re in 2025? I don’t rely on a provider’s stated health status—you never know—but if you’re going to advertise it, at least keep it current. Looks sloppy.

It really depends on the person. Some tops swear by ultra-thin condoms, ribbed ones, or even a drop of lube inside for extra sensation. Others may not. But at the end of the day, technique, chemistry, and how into it both people are can make all the difference.

You’ve already booked this guy for one- and two-hour appointments. You have a rapport, so it shouldn’t come as a shock to the provider that the next step would be to ask about longer time together. The fact that he laughed and didn’t provide rates is just odd to me. Any provider offering his time professionally should have an idea of what he charges, especially for a client he’s seen before. Bottom line: Don’t go into business not knowing your worth. He’s essentially telling you, “I have to think about it, I’ll get back to you.” When? How long should I wait for you to decide how to run your business? There may not be a next time. I’ll find someone else. Know your worth. Know what you’re offering. Be prepared. It shows you’re serious.

This is already a bad sign.

I watched this last night and didn’t care for it, which is a shame because it was produced by Christine Vachon, whose past projects I’ve long admired and enjoyed. The first half is compelling, drawing me into Edward’s struggles and the societal challenges he faces. But as the film progresses, it veers into an odd mix of dark comedy and surrealism that feels disjointed rather than purposeful. The tonal shift is so abrupt that it undercuts the emotional investment built in the beginning, leaving me more puzzled than engaged. By the end, I found myself questioning not just the film’s intent but whether it even knew what it wanted to be.

Thanks for posting. This film wasn’t on my radar… but it is now. 😂

Stop the bullshit! That’s a false equivalency, and you know it. Drug dealing involves controlled substances that can be harmful or lethal. Sex work, on the other hand, is a consensual service between adults. If you can’t tell the difference, the problem isn’t terminology—it’s your lack of critical thinking. This isn’t about logic for you, it’s about demeaning people and moral judgment.

You’re not just criticizing terminology—you’re going out of your way to demean people who engage in sex work, equating them as if they’re criminals and acting as if their humanity is up for debate. Whether or not you personally approve of their work, basic respect isn’t “woke-ism”— it’s just human decency. If you can’t engage in a conversation without stripping people of dignity, maybe it’s time to ask yourself why this topic bothers you so much.

Everything comes with its risks. While it’s commendable that he prioritized your experience, the timing of the cancellation is concerning, especially given the significant commitments and expenses you had already incurred. In situations like this, clear communication and accountability are reasonable expectations, especially with a provider whom you’ve already frequented. If you believe this cancellation was avoidable, it may be worth considering whether this provider’s reliability aligns with your expectations for future arrangements. Ultimately, you deserve to work with someone who truly values your time and investment. The choice to respond is yours.

Jane Eyre deserved a longer run on Broadway, as it never truly found its audience, which is a shame. A beautiful and haunting score.

Joe’s communication when meeting first-timers does leave a lot to be desired, that’s true. That said, I don’t believe he’s dishonest. I’ve seen him several times and have always found him to be a nice and very sweet man. I don’t know the specifics of your arrangements or what was agreed upon, but as a first-timer, it seems reasonable and practical to pay for each night separately. If you have two overnights planned, you could pay after the first one and then again after the second. Paying all at once is entirely your call and depends on what you and he agreed to—I can’t make that decision for you.