ApexNomad

I am not sure what you mean. Our session was for 2 hours. I paid him his fee because I wanted to. I have the means and I simply didn’t care. We then went to the bar/restaurant, had drinks and a nice meal. We met up the next night - he didn’t take or want a penny. He was amazing!

When I saw the original Les Miz, that clocked in at 3 hours 15 min. I would have appreciated a 7pm start time back then. Producers would later trim the show under 3 hours and push the start time to 7:30, but that was purely for economic reasons - cost them millions over the years to pay the crew, stagehands, etc. in overtime.

Power.

At 60 degrees, I’d expect him in bed with me to warm up!

Joan Rivers is perfect!!

No eulogy for you. We’ll sprinkle your ashes then when time permits. Noted.

Closure is always nice to have. Could be fun too just to see him and vice versa. Be prepared though he may have also forgotten about this/you from 40 years ago.

I’d gladly take him off your hands… 😉

Yes! I remember that fondly. I adored her—an amazing and gracious actress. I recall when she won the Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited Series or Movie for The Thorn Birds. After graciously thanking the behind-the-scenes crew, as she always did, she dedicated the award to Ann-Margret, calling her a “wonderful entertainer” who delivered one of the finest, most beautiful performances she’d ever seen in Who Will Love My Children?. We don’t see the likes of her anymore.

Being able to truly listen to someone is also important—it shows openness and empathy, which are rare qualities these days. I think people often follow the group because it’s easier than standing alone. It takes real courage to resist that pull and think for yourself, especially when it means risking criticism or isolation.

Happy Birthday, Mike! And many more!! 🎂 🎉

Very true. It’s much harder to stand alone in your courage than to go along with the crowd.

Gorgeous body… where’s the funny in this? Am I missing the punchline?

Thank you, Mike. And happy birthday to you. I hope your day was filled with lots of love and happiness. All the best.

You are the master of the search box.

Do your providers ask for stats or pics before meeting? I’ve noticed that with my regulars, I pay much less than the rates often discussed in these threads. None of them changed their prices after our initial meeting, and they had no idea what I looked like beforehand. I’m older than every provider (wasn’t always like that). With new providers, I’m charged their going rate. For some, we’ve done video calls, but they gave me their pricing beforehand and didn’t upcharge me after seeing me. I’m almost twice the age of some of these guys.

As a provider, do you have a pricing scale based on age and weight?

This obsession over $1000 and a provider’s right to set his rate has consumed way too much of @PileDriver ‘s time. Two threads on the same topic? In a matter of 4 months? Very strange! Either he can’t afford it or just has a personal gripe and refuses to pay on principle. Either way, the choice still remains simple—pay it or don’t. Move on!

I don’t set the prices. If you don’t agree with them, don’t pay. It’s really that simple. Or is my response still too generic?

Pricing in any market often reflects a combination of factors—supply and demand, perceived exclusivity, and even how someone chooses to brand themselves. Some escorts have built such a strong reputation and developed such a loyal client base that they can set whatever price they want for new hires. In a city full of options, clients might be willing to pay more for someone they view as a “premium” even if the difference isn’t immediately obvious.

I wish I had my head on as straight at your age and been as open and communicative as you are. Good for you! The fact that you’re approaching this with such thoughtfulness speaks volumes about the strength of your relationship and the care you bring to it. Keep leaning into that love and curiosity, and I have no doubt you’ll continue to find ways to bridge that gap. Wishing you both much joy and happiness!

$500 is very common especially in NYC. Some require 2 hour min so the session is now $1000.

It sounds like you’ve built a beautiful, loving foundation with your husband, and that’s something truly worth celebrating. But I understand how a sexual disconnect can feel isolating, even in an otherwise perfect relationship. Love is about more than sex, but sex is still an important part of intimacy and it sounds like you’re seeking a deeper connection in that space. One thing I’ve learned with time is that desire and intimacy don’t always come naturally, even in great relationships; they often need to be cultivated, just like any other part of a partnership. You seem to have already made an effort to communicate your needs, which is huge. But here’s a gentle challenge: instead of just focusing on the mismatch, explore what new sexual experiences you both might discover together. Maybe try introducing a “date night” where sex is the playful focus, without pressure to get it perfect. Sometimes when we approach things from curiosity rather than expectation, magic can happen. If you’re open to it, seeing a counselor as another member mentioned, one who specializes in relationships, sex and intimacy, can help spark deeper conversations and solutions. And while I don’t know how old either of you are, different seasons of life sometimes bring different sexual dynamics, which a skilled professional can help navigate. There’s also the option of exploring ethical non-monogamy, if both of you are willing to have that conversation. Some couples find that an open relationship, built on trust and clear boundaries, can actually strengthen their connection. But that’s deeply personal and only works if both partners are fully on board. Whatever path you take, keep holding space for the love and laughter you share—it’s rare and beautiful. And don’t be afraid to keep advocating for your pleasure, gently but unapologetically. I’m rooting for you both.

An adult movie theater, where undercover police officers were also present. The incident would have gone completely unnoticed if it weren’t for Reubens’ fame as Pee-wee Herman, which led to intense media attention and public scrutiny. The publicity surrounding the arrest was more about his high-profile persona than the nature of the incident itself.

Show is moving to peacock.