ApexNomad

There’s no set timeline for love or sexual discovery—51 is as good a time as any to explore who you are and what you want. Your journey is uniquely yours, and it’s fine if it doesn’t fit neatly into a box or timeline. Truly. Please be gentle with yourself. The idea of a “biological clock” can feel oppressive. Your value isn’t determined by past experiences—or the lack thereof. Every step you take toward understanding yourself is progress, even if it feels small. Lastly, if you ever feel overwhelmed by these thoughts, perhaps talking to a therapist who specializes in relationships or sexuality might help. They can provide guidance and tools to manage overthinking and help you navigate these feelings with more clarity. Keep being open to the possibilities—sometimes, taking that initial small step can reveal that the unknown isn’t as overwhelming as it first appears. Wishing you all the best on your journey.

I just got home from a Super Bowl party, hosted by one of my best and dearest friends every year—straight as a nail. Every year, I’m make trays of Hawaiian roll sliders—turkey and provolone, ham and Swiss, Italian, and Big Mac sliders (trust me, they’re delicious). If the straight men aren’t at the gym, they’re at my friend’s house. 😂

Perfectly said.

It’s never too late to be who you are, no matter the age. ❤️

Uh, no.

Who wants dinner at 5pm? Me! Bc I’m old.

Email? That is a wild thought.

I am not sure what you mean. Our session was for 2 hours. I paid him his fee because I wanted to. I have the means and I simply didn’t care. We then went to the bar/restaurant, had drinks and a nice meal. We met up the next night - he didn’t take or want a penny. He was amazing!

When I saw the original Les Miz, that clocked in at 3 hours 15 min. I would have appreciated a 7pm start time back then. Producers would later trim the show under 3 hours and push the start time to 7:30, but that was purely for economic reasons - cost them millions over the years to pay the crew, stagehands, etc. in overtime.

Power.

At 60 degrees, I’d expect him in bed with me to warm up!

Joan Rivers is perfect!!

No eulogy for you. We’ll sprinkle your ashes then when time permits. Noted.

Closure is always nice to have. Could be fun too just to see him and vice versa. Be prepared though he may have also forgotten about this/you from 40 years ago.

I’d gladly take him off your hands… 😉

Yes! I remember that fondly. I adored her—an amazing and gracious actress. I recall when she won the Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited Series or Movie for The Thorn Birds. After graciously thanking the behind-the-scenes crew, as she always did, she dedicated the award to Ann-Margret, calling her a “wonderful entertainer” who delivered one of the finest, most beautiful performances she’d ever seen in Who Will Love My Children?. We don’t see the likes of her anymore.

Being able to truly listen to someone is also important—it shows openness and empathy, which are rare qualities these days. I think people often follow the group because it’s easier than standing alone. It takes real courage to resist that pull and think for yourself, especially when it means risking criticism or isolation.

Happy Birthday, Mike! And many more!! 🎂 🎉

Very true. It’s much harder to stand alone in your courage than to go along with the crowd.

Gorgeous body… where’s the funny in this? Am I missing the punchline?

Thank you, Mike. And happy birthday to you. I hope your day was filled with lots of love and happiness. All the best.

You are the master of the search box.

Do your providers ask for stats or pics before meeting? I’ve noticed that with my regulars, I pay much less than the rates often discussed in these threads. None of them changed their prices after our initial meeting, and they had no idea what I looked like beforehand. I’m older than every provider (wasn’t always like that). With new providers, I’m charged their going rate. For some, we’ve done video calls, but they gave me their pricing beforehand and didn’t upcharge me after seeing me. I’m almost twice the age of some of these guys.

As a provider, do you have a pricing scale based on age and weight?