ApexNomad

I’d be more interested in knowing your personal top 10.

The best kind of music? The sound of my partner, completely lost in the moment, moaning, grunting, and enjoying every second. That’s the soundtrack I’m after.

Social media and the proliferation of porn. They have magnified the obsession with penis size to the extreme. The younger generation has grown up with constant comparisons online, and it’s made them more self-conscious than ever. It’s not just about privacy—I’d argue it’s rooted in insecurity. Back in the day, we didn’t face this kind of pressure.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/155107-matlock/ ^^ one of the few times Sam I’m ahead of the entertainment curve. I singled this show out when we were talking about Matlock. Great show! (Sidebar, I saw Daniel Sunjata in the original Take Me Out on Broadway - also had the pleasure of meeting with him - a very lovely man.)

Can you post the list/link?

Ray is also a wonderful top. Great guy!

Did you or he add anything to it? The text cut off was a perfect cliffhanger…

In reviewing the thread posted above, I see comments from the user “Guest” a lot - what does that mean?

First of all, confidence is everything. And that’s hard if you’ve just met the person. Being in the moment and authentic makes your words hit harder. Let it feel natural—if it sounds forced or out of character, then in my opinion, don’t do it; it could kill the mood. Start by focusing on the carnal—what you’re feeling, seeing, and wanting in the moment. Talk about HIM and what he’s doing: “I love the way your tongue feels on my cock.” “You look so fucking good down there.” “I’ve been wanting this all day.” Be direct about what you want to see and feel: “Look at me when you suck my dick.” And the moment he takes his eyes off you…“Keep looking at me—I want to see those beautiful eyes.” “I want your lips all over me—don’t stop.” Narrate the moment to amplify the heat: “You’re driving me insane.” “Fuck, I love how hungry you are for me.” “That mouth is so perfect. YOU are so perfect.” Pay attention to how he reacts. If he’s into it, double down. If he seems shy, keep it encouraging but firm—confidence is contagious. Your tone of voice matters just as much as the words—use a low, firm whisper to command his attention, or let your voice grow rougher and more urgent to match the intensity of the moment. Above all, match your tone to the energy: primal, dominant, or playful. Make him feel desired and seen. When you’re fully present, every word lands harder. I hope this helps. Good luck, Daddy!

Happy you’re on the mend. It’s really important to build trust with your clients, and one way to do that is by prioritizing their well-being. If you already know you’re not feeling your best, it’s always better to reschedule. Not only does it ensure you’re giving your clients the best version of yourself, but it also prevents the risk of exposing them to an illness.

I get that certain words can be a turnoff for some, especially if they feel too crude or don’t match the moment. It’s different for everyone. For me, it’s often less about the specific word and more about the context—like if he’s saying it because I’m the reason he’s feeling that way, or if there’s that intense eye contact when he’s saying it. The emotion or reason behind it can sometimes override the words themselves. But yeah, some terms feel sexier than others, depending on how they’re used.

Hi, Roger – RM actually has a filter option that allows you to search for providers based on size (e.g., 1-5 inches, 6 inches, etc.). I’m not sure of your preference (top, bottom, or verse), but you can filter by that as well. If you select both sizes, along with top, bottom, and verse in New York City, it yields 58 providers. You can always browse through those options to see which one might be the right fit for you. As an aside, I want to take a moment to applaud you. It’s so refreshing to see someone openly celebrate and appreciate men—gay men, no less—who are below average in that regard. Best of luck to you!

@MikeBiDude @Rod Hagen thanks for the recommendation - I’ll add this to my list. If you’re into thrillers, I highly recommend The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides. It’s a few years old, but I only read it recently. It’s a psychological thriller that masterfully combines suspense with a slow-burn mystery and delivers an explosive ending.

I very much enjoy when my tops cum.

Mothers know best. 😊

Mike is a very kind and genuine guy who has been a consistent presence in this business for years. He’s attentive, engaged, and fully committed to ensuring you have a great experience. Easy to communicate with, smart, and caring. No matter how you measure, he’s impressively well-endowed.

He has videos of himself in action on his ad. It’s possible he launched years ago under a different name and is using old footage. He also looks vaguely familiar.

Just a simple question, not an interrogation of character. Relax.

Not if you set boundaries and truly understand the terms of the relationship at all times.

Natural beauty is only for the young?

Don’t ever feel humiliated in expressing your desires and likes, especially in an anonymous forum. It may not be for everyone, and that’s okay. Sharing stories helps us to learn; they foster understanding, connection, and a sense of belonging.

I love Mandy Gonzalez! A huge fan. But… she really slows down the songs. Everything’s. As. If. It. Went. Much. Slower. Than. It. Should. Be. It’s like we never said goodbye… it just keeps going and going!