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Decatur Guy

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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + Pensant in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from mtaabq in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from spidir in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Johnrom in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Nightowl in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + ApexNomad in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from DMonDude in Feeling ugly/unattractive when with a provider   
    I understand that feeling. Especially when I first started hiring. I felt like, "I'm so ugly it's come to this." I still get that way at times, but mostly I like the convenience. And what I lack in looks, I make up for in respect, likability, enthusiasm and reliability. I have a couple of guys who have quit advertising but still see me. And I know I get lower than the going rate. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from nchiker35 in Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?   
    I had a major thing for Jason Branch. I would have paid a "fame tax" for him! Blake Harper was sexy, too. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + ButchAtl in Red flags to lookout for   
    Red flags:

    Profiles with just a few pictures and just a few words in the descriptions.
    Providers asking for a deposit upfront.
    Profiles with pictures that I recognize from five or 10 years ago.
    Pro-active complaints about clients.
    Super vague descriptions.
    Name changers (I don't mind one name change, but when it becomes a habit). 
     
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Hen in Red flags to lookout for   
    Red flags:

    Profiles with just a few pictures and just a few words in the descriptions.
    Providers asking for a deposit upfront.
    Profiles with pictures that I recognize from five or 10 years ago.
    Pro-active complaints about clients.
    Super vague descriptions.
    Name changers (I don't mind one name change, but when it becomes a habit). 
     
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Aaron 90 in Ever hire for Piss Play?   
    I've never had a session where WS was the main focus, but I've definitely had times where we discussed it as something to do at some point during the visit. 

    I won't bring up WS unless it's listed in his profile already. I have a couple of regulars who really enjoy being WS givers, so it's now integrated into the planning. They hydrate ahead and I have plenty of water and/or beer on hand upon arrival. I can't do it unless the provider is well hydrated. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Red flags to lookout for   
    Red flags:

    Profiles with just a few pictures and just a few words in the descriptions.
    Providers asking for a deposit upfront.
    Profiles with pictures that I recognize from five or 10 years ago.
    Pro-active complaints about clients.
    Super vague descriptions.
    Name changers (I don't mind one name change, but when it becomes a habit). 
     
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Gilfson in Do you like to chat with a provider?   
    Yes, I like to chat afterward. If nothing else, I like to tell them what I liked about the encounter. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Sherman Maus in Los Angeles   
    Adding my voice to the chorus of fans of Sherman Maus. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Discounts for Regular Clients   
    From the perspective of a client: If some gives me a discount (let's say $300 instead of his usual $350), he goes to the top of my "call-first" list. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from traveling in Sherman Maus in Los Angeles   
    Adding my voice to the chorus of fans of Sherman Maus. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Peter Eater in Sherman Maus in Los Angeles   
    Adding my voice to the chorus of fans of Sherman Maus. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Do you pay before or after?   
    I make an exchange after but I show them envelop at the start. I mostly meet with regulars, so it's no issue. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from EastbayMike in 411 NateSF   
    Some of us like to hire guys in their 40s and beyond.
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from KrisParr in Priciest provider you’ve ever seen? Worth it?   
    I tend to stay within a pretty set range per hour: $200 to $300 pre-pandemic. $250 to $350 post-pandemic. I can't of anyone who I was so interested in that was willing to do $500 an hour, etc. 

    I find that the providers at the lower end of my range are often just as good or better than the ones at the higher end, and they are the ones who become regulars. I prefer to have around four (maybe five) providers to call upon regularly vs. always trying out new folks. 

    I once got DP'd by Andrew Justice and Sean Xavier. I think that was $500 for an hour, but that broke down to just $250 per guy. And it was worth it.
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from BrooklynIrish in Do you pay before or after?   
    I make an exchange after but I show them envelop at the start. I mostly meet with regulars, so it's no issue. 
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    Decatur Guy got a reaction from + Act25 in Priciest provider you’ve ever seen? Worth it?   
    I tend to stay within a pretty set range per hour: $200 to $300 pre-pandemic. $250 to $350 post-pandemic. I can't of anyone who I was so interested in that was willing to do $500 an hour, etc. 

    I find that the providers at the lower end of my range are often just as good or better than the ones at the higher end, and they are the ones who become regulars. I prefer to have around four (maybe five) providers to call upon regularly vs. always trying out new folks. 

    I once got DP'd by Andrew Justice and Sean Xavier. I think that was $500 for an hour, but that broke down to just $250 per guy. And it was worth it.
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