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Last night was a complete blast as CuteBlondBoy and I were joined by FTM_AngelGabe for some fun and dinner. It was a night of “firsts” for each of us. I have to say that this young addition to my weekend with CuteBlondBoy was smart, witty, sensual, energetic and exceeded both our expectations. It won’t be my last visit with Gabe who is a recent addition to the New Orleans scene. i can’t think of a better introduction to the FTM experience than Gabe! Ftm_angelgabe - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New Orleans, LA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New Orleans, LA - Ftm_angelgabe: Horny intellectual (trans man)

Are we refocusing this thread on hair color again??

Message him on RM and the auto reply will give his number. I’ve suggested he change that and he probably will

Haha…I think forum rules prevent me from posting THAT picture 😅

I’d encourage you to consider one other factor - we all talk about cost of living, but we don’t talk much about cost of employment. The upper Atlantic and New England suffer from high taxation, high cost of living, but because soooo many people live there, relative wages may be lower. Pondef options in a low tax state like Knoxville or Chattanooga.

Shared with his permission. This morning in New Orleans!

I completely relate. I suspect with the apps, you kiss 9 frogs to find a prince. But for me, the prince would also be one who saw something cool in you AND might be a FWB. I’m new to the apps. I’ve had 100 or so app “inquiries” (from me or to me) which resulted in five encounters, of which 2 were princes…and I’m neither a spring chicken nor a silver fox (and there are members of this forum who’ve met me and can attest to that 😅) Don’t make it about your appearance. Make it about “the package” including experience, respect, nurture, fun loving etc. Be as fit and energetic as you can be but don’t apologize for what you can’t change. And see it as an excavation where you’re peeling back layers of mud to find a few diamonds

Indeed you do! What’s are you doing on…. 😉 Recently, I’m corresponding with a young man in South America that I’m meeting next month and he didn’t know that US ip addresses couldn’t see the comments. He was about as shocked as you are now learning of their existence

At my age, some things are best left untouched - at least by the surgeon’s scalpel!

For overnights I always arrange a video call in advance to assure we sync

This name has been suggested as an addition to weekend plans I have with another Atlanta twink later this month. . Anyone have info or experience to share? https://rentmen.eu/AshtenSky

He advertises himself as a “thug”. To me, that does connote a certain reservation as to what one should expect as he plays his role….don't know if that contributed to the resulting experience.

We are texting while he’s traveling home. Everything so far seems very straightforward and he seems sweet.

A pimp would be a hard stop for me. It makes me doubt whether or not the escort is working under compulsion and not as a consenting adult.

It’s always hard to reconcile conflicting experiences, but when it comes to disagreements that might be rooted in lack of clarity in communication vs tangible one on one experience as you’ve described, I’m inclined to give the guy a chance. I’ve reached out to him and will let you know how that goes.

BTW…did you notice one of the posted pictures is dated in 2017??

Intuitively, you’re right. And since I hire for overnights and weekends, I always do a call as well. But my experience with RM guys is consistently better than guys on MB In fact, if I see a guy who advertises on both, it kinda signals to me that they’re past their RM prime and trying to take the shot gun approach for exposure

I’ve just arranged to fly him to New Orleans for a weekend! just kidding 😉🤪😅🤣

This is true. There is one relevant shade of gray in this particular situation that, in my opinion, matters most - the OP seems genuinely traumatized for the experience. Sure, in any interaction between two people, the potential for misunderstanding, insult, and injury exists. In this case, for whatever reason, the provider took the knife of trauma, twisted it a couple times, and then came back the next day with a different weapon. While we must acknowledge fairly that the OP may have been contributory to the provider's reaction, it seems that the provider's reaction was beyond any measure of insult that might have been directed toward him. Aftre all, if he's a "pro," he's seen it all and should have risen above the fray of the moment. Otherwise, I'd have to question his constitution for this type of work.

I’m really sorry you had such a difficult experience. No one should walk away from an encounter feeling unsafe or unsettled. At the same time, threads like this often reveal that both sides made decisions under stress or uncertainty. That doesn’t minimize what happened to you — it just means that now, with some space and hindsight, you can take steps that give you more control and peace of mind going forward. Here are a few thoughts that might help next time: - Since anxiety is part of this for you, you may want to choose the location — whether it’s your home or a hotel where you feel comfortable and there aren’t distractions. - You’re buying time, not a guaranteed emotional outcome. When nerves kick in, sticking to what was agreed upon can help keep everything grounded. - For the next few encounters, consider seeing only well-reviewed, established providers until you feel steadier. It can make a huge difference in easing the anxiety you described. What happened to you clearly shook you. I hope your next experiences are much smoother and actually enjoyable — they absolutely can be with the right structure around them.

I changed from ExpressVPN to NordVPN. Very satisfied

What do you mean? Wouldn’t you always be a “day ahead” proactively managing the plan???

First, I acknowledge your point about the framing of the question. 😉 And, you’re absolutely right about the cleaner. But, I pay for a clean room. Imagine the Yelp Review if the room wasn’t clean! Again, that’s what I paid for and that’s what they are paid to do. Right?

Well, I’m sure they are appreciated, but tipping is not intended for the free agents. It’s intended for person who has to share part of the price “with the house.” If someone knocks my socks off but had a low price, then I’d probably give them more (as I noted above). But if someone charges an above market price, then I’m going to have already high expectations. I stayed at a Hampton Inn a few weeks ago. I used automated checkin, I arrived late and never say a human, I left in the morning. STILL, there was a placard on the desk with a QR code soliciting tips??

May I suggest contacting PinkIceland to see if they know one? The two greatest groups of tourist to Iceland are US and UK