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Unless he's direct, which he hasn't been thus far, don't be that guy.
You run a real risk being the neighborhood pariah.
This isn't a Hallmark channel movie.  Be cautious, be smart.

How old is your kid?  
U never shit where you eat.

Time also makes memories less reliable and turns uncertain memories into had fact in the mind.

Time also makes memories less reliable and turns uncertain memories into had fact in the mind.

gee, lots of assumptions and judgment here.......maybe we should ease up a bit and be a bit more mature??.......among a few providers, this forum has a rep for being vicious and catty.......

Exactly.  Thanks.  It's so common for guys to look at a post without looking at the posts around it for context.

You do not get thanked or praised enough for keeping working links in front of us. 

I have done a couple of massages with him and one escort session (all were great). But since he has a Rentmen ad active you shouldn’t expect  to get the escort experience during an erotic massage.  His escort rate was fair and competitive for NYC guys when I saw him (probably about a year ago).

Nor mine. 

Reggie (character name) on Riverdale. 

Or, sane and financially comfortable and knows not to pay such a high rate for an hour of fun.  

my experience with him doesn't resemble yours    

Haven't seen you on the Forum in many months, @honcho, but I see it's your birthday today, so, just in case you ever drop by, here's hoping you've been well, and that you have a happy birthday and a good year ahead. 

There may be more to the story.  For instance, the client may have misrepresented himself beforehand or been more than merely overweight.  At what point is it kindest to ask "are you "morbidly obese”?  Not answering the door may have been a small kindness.  In any event, this suggests client's be upfront about the stuff we've heard have been disqualifiers.  (Age, medical condition, skin condition, obesity, etc).

There may be more to the story.  For instance, the client may have misrepresented himself beforehand or been more than merely overweight.  At what point is it kindest to ask "are you "morbidly obese”?  Not answering the door may have been a small kindness.  In any event, this suggests client's be upfront about the stuff we've heard have been disqualifiers.  (Age, medical condition, skin condition, obesity, etc).

There may be more to the story.  For instance, the client may have misrepresented himself beforehand or been more than merely overweight.  At what point is it kindest to ask "are you "morbidly obese”?  Not answering the door may have been a small kindness.  In any event, this suggests client's be upfront about the stuff we've heard have been disqualifiers.  (Age, medical condition, skin condition, obesity, etc).

There may be more to the story.  For instance, the client may have misrepresented himself beforehand or been more than merely overweight.  At what point is it kindest to ask "are you "morbidly obese”?  Not answering the door may have been a small kindness.  In any event, this suggests client's be upfront about the stuff we've heard have been disqualifiers.  (Age, medical condition, skin condition, obesity, etc).

I met with him. Every word is true. I would not repeat if he paid ME. 

i have been with Jay.  my guess is that the person who commented on Jay has another axe to grind regarding him.    

Mr "know it all" & anti - pnp'r / "Jeffster" = Before you spread horrifically incorrect and damaging rumors about big bad Joey "all caught up in the pnp world" , think before posting conjecture and consider how badly you could be damaging this guys future with your unscientific "guess".  
 
which by the way, is not TRUE; he's NOT involved in the pnp scene [that would be me remember 🥳]

I never said he wasn't stupid for opening himself up to being exposed.    I do believe in a certain amount of discretion and respect should be used by both the client and provider.   

I am so sorry about your parent and best friend.  A parent's death can hit people very hard.  Add to that the death of your best friend, which is rough no matter the circumstances.  As if that weren't enough, losing him (her?) to suicide, I can't even imagine.
I can understand the desire to revive a connection with a great escort, especially one who touched you in ways beyond the physical/sexual.  But unless he made it clear to you that he was still planning to see a few select clients, I wouldn't reach out to him, just as I wouldn't reach out to an escort whose ad says "not available," even if I were a regular, even if I had a great chemistry with the guy, only if the escort specifically told me to go ahead and call him despite the "not available" tag.  Gotta respect an escort's space.
That said, I hope you can find a way to get through the grief.  You can google the subject & figure out what works best for you.  One suggestion I can't imagine any of the search results include would be to have some fun looking for a new escort "find."  Plenty of fish in the sea, as is so often said on this forum.  Hopefully you have the time & budget plus live in or near a city with plenty of selection.  Lots of escorts pride themselves on their ability to connect with clients beyond the physical/sexual.  Il faut créer des liens, as a very wise little prince once said.  Connections with your family and friends will help, of course, but a great new escort could too.  Just my opinion.

Because the dozen or so posts above, two within the last month saying he's ripped etc., aren't enough?
Kevin Slater

Says the guy who just joined a few minutes ago.

Oh no! Get well soon.