Nightowl

Agree 💯 percent.  Greed is a big part of LV’s problem but fear of traveling here is another.

I have a Lelo Hugo prostate massager, which has a hands-free option with multiple pulsating options that can be varied with a hand-held controller.  I love it.  The only problem I have is that it sometimes slips out at inopportune times.

Probably a fancy name for the stuff they give you to prepare for a colonoscopy.

I have a Lelo Hugo prostate massager, which has a hands-free option with multiple pulsating options that can be varied with a hand-held controller.  I love it.  The only problem I have is that it sometimes slips out at inopportune times.

Glad you’re back.  Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!

Agree 💯 percent.  Greed is a big part of LV’s problem but fear of traveling here is another.

I have a Lelo Hugo prostate massager, which has a hands-free option with multiple pulsating options that can be varied with a hand-held controller.  I love it.  The only problem I have is that it sometimes slips out at inopportune times.

I was reluctant to pay for personal training in the past simply because of price.  Hey, you can learn a lot from watching YouTube videos for free.  But since the posh gym I joined in Madrid had surprisingly affordable personal training sessions, I signed up for a 10-pack and am happy I did.
Yes, he helped me a lot with creating a workout program, helping me with technique, explaining what you should/shouldn’t do and why, etc.  More than anything, he keeps me “honest” — I’m sticking to my workouts better and working a lot harder than I would solo.
If it’s within your budget, I would definitely recommend hiring a trainer.  If not, YouTube can be quite helpful, assuming you can find a good channel or two.

I’d recommend working out with a personal trainer a couple of times each week and ask him/her to build a companion program that you can do in your home gym on your off days.

Thank you but it was because I had phimosis.

Brave man!

Once you accept them as a FBFriend, then RL friends, family and coworkers might see your interactions. And wouldn't you be surprised if some mutuals popped up? 

I can't agree more with all those who express hatred/disgust/annoyance towards phone (voice) calls.  It's intrusive to say the least.  Phone/Voice call is like showing up at someone's home, ringing the doorbell without prior notice.  It demands the receiver's immediately attention.  In a way, the caller violently forces the receiver to drop everything he's doing and re-prioritize his daily tasks.  It's not any different from cutting in line in a grocery store.  Of course, there are exceptions to the rule (e.g. a true emergency such as 911).  Otherwise, as others have pointed out already, isn't it more polite to send a text to make a phone/voice call appointment in advance?  

I went to two, but they were in the before times. Interest was episodic, some years planning started but faltered then the idea vanished. It had the benefit of coinciding with MAL so those attending could take advantage its open events, but the disadvantages of being in the north-east in January, and it being easy to leave committing until the last minute (and not doing so) and other things easily prompting a late decision not to go.

I’m vers but if I’m bottoming and the guy is hammering against my prostate, I just want it over, so premature ejaculation is welcome. That kind of hammering does nothing for me.  A skilled top who fills me up without causing me pain, however, can take as long as he likes.

A pimp would be a hard stop for me.  It makes me doubt whether or not the escort is working under compulsion and not as a consenting adult.  

This year I had one of the most sensual massages I’ve ever experienced, and the masseur wasn’t even naked. He was so caring, his energy perfectly in tune, and the way he touched me felt more like gentle caressing at times. I could feel genuine care and devotion in every movement.
He worked wearing only his underwear, and his touch covered every part of my body. With each breath, he softly blew warm air over my skin. Every single muscle was attended to, with special attention to the glutes and inner thighs. He even touched around my balls and dick intimate, but still within the flow of the session.
I was leaking precum, but there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience. It was powerful just as it was. He’s clearly trained in multiple modalities and blends techniques beautifully.
After a few visits, he did end up nude once, by chance, but I respected his boundaries. And, I’ve got to say… the man was packing. I’m not even sure if he’s straight or gay. 
Now I understand that a truly sensual massage is about connection, the energy, the flow, and the way the masseur genuinely cares for you and your body. It’s a world apart from the routine rub-and-tugs that have become so common these days.
I just wanted to share this experience, but I’d like to keep the masseur’s identity private.

I’m thinking it’s more about their partner, and so are they! 
Also, people are very quick to say the government is incompetent in most things yet seem absolutely confident that the government has the organisation, coordination and will to listen in to some random guys call with an escort! The government isn’t interested. At least ours isn’t because sex work is legal here. I’m sure they have other more important things to worry about. 
 

And I thought adult circumcision sounded bad. No don't do this.

Careful, you’re going to cut that thing off.

any real vids? Not a fan of produced. Thanks!

The downside of having a foreskin is that there are always partners (potential or realized) who are mildly to adamantly repelled. It's a difference-from-the-boomer-norm that I didn't ask for, but I never once looked into alterations. 

I have a feeling there's a lot to the story we don't fully know. And much on the other side we could be told. 

Would I electively be circumcised as an adult? No.
Are there legitimate medical reasons for circumcision in an adult? Yes.
Would I be circumcised as an adult for a legitimate medical reason? Yes. 
Am I glad that I was circumcised as an infant? Yes