Nightowl

Rich and good looking together is a rare combination.  I hope your acquaintance has a backup plan.

Rich and good looking together is a rare combination.  I hope your acquaintance has a backup plan.

I would think that rich and good looking clients for male gay escorts are a pretty rare specimen. I would like to see the evidence that proves otherwise.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Rich and good looking together is a rare combination.  I hope your acquaintance has a backup plan.

And Rich, good looking, and having/wanting/willing to pay is even a more exclusive animal. 
I'm just happy when their ad shows their true colors so I don't waste my time.
 

Actually, not so much. Rich, good looking, gay and drawn to the trade is probably a rare combination. 

I actually don’t worry about height too much.  To me it’s only noticeable if we’re standing, perhaps kissing, and when we’re blowing one another.  

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

I knew I kept mine for a reason.  

Give me a guy with a hairy chest any day.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Yeah it's interesting. You definitely don't have to be rich to do this hobby, but like you alluded to it really depends on what your other financial obligations are in addition to your income. I work full time, have apartment rent, car payment, and student loan debt. But i am in fact fortunate i have a fairly well paying job that also abuses the hell out of me, but pays over time for it luckily. So i have some extra money to do this hobby sometimes, but i do have a limit i can't go past. I'm envious of others who can hire much more frequently then i can too.
Long as I'm working and not between projects, i can hire a handful of times a month for an hour or two each, depending on how much extra hours i work. Any time I'm not working or not doing as many hours, this hobby is the first thing i cut back on or pause doing. I know though there are clients here hiring for multiple over nights, weekends, or traveling and taking providers with them for days/weeks at a time. And that's unfathomable to me at my level lol. From both perspectives of having that much money as a client, and from the perspective of being hot enough that someone would spend that much money on you. Attractive people truly live in a different reality than the rest of us.

So true, so very true.  I have many much younger coworkers and friends who earn way less than me who are willing to shell out >$10K to chase after pop concerts (e.g. Taylor Swift, K-pop craze), paying for hotels and flights just to see someone they can't even touch.
And then I have friends who spend a fortune on Rolex, designer fashion, jewelry, handbags, etc. just to show the world they can afford it.
And then there are those who invest in expensive hobbies (golf, sailing, race cars, aviation, horse riding, etc.).  The list goes on and on.
To me, spending a few hundred dollars once in a while to have an ecstatic + euphoric one-on-one experience is 100X more worthwhile than all of the above.
It's a matter of priorities and perceived values.
As a wise person once told me, "The money you earn is not really yours until the moment you spend it," I allow myself to enjoy controlled, carefully calculated indulgences.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Truer words … well-said. Thank you!!

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Exactly.  There’s very little that I do in my life that is for me alone and indulging in this hobby is one of them.  I feel great after a session and always look forward to the next one.  I’m not wealthy but my budget always takes into consideration the physical needs that being with another man satisfies.

Truthfully, I can’t afford to dabble but I do so anyway for my mental and physical health. After a particularly good scene I’m on a high for the next day or two and the release re-charges and re-energizes me. And there’s the added benefit of enjoying the company of naked men whom I consider to be beautiful. That is its own reward. I’m not an attractive man, but with careful vetting I have been able to find men who will work to make me feel like a human being and a sexual being. So I cut back on discretionary spending, save my money, and invest in 2 hours with a man who will make me feel like a stud. 

Looks like the fabric in the jockstrap couldn’t handle the pressure being applied against it.

I hear ya.  I like the idea of bottoming and enjoy it when it’s slow and careful but when it’s the pile-driver technique that causes me to wince with every thrust, I can do without.  Loved your story though. We should all have an introduction to gay sex as erotic as that. 

I actually don’t worry about height too much.  To me it’s only noticeable if we’re standing, perhaps kissing, and when we’re blowing one another.