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Live in the truth.
 
Feel sufficiently comfortable with your decision-making to make new choices regularly. Embrace change; do not fear it.
 
Opting to maintain the status quo is rarely the right choice.
 
Consider carefully how many people you allow to have a vote on your life's direction. (Note: in my case, it's zero.)
 
Step outside your comfort zone regularly. Consider activities that challenge your values rather than affirm them.
 
Read. Ask people what they're reading. And why.
 
Play offense. It's a hell of a lot more fun than playing defense.
 
Say "yes" as often as you can. Be generous with your time, your talent, your treasure.
 
Work to meet people of a different generation than your own. Cultivate these relationships.
 
Consider what you'd like your legacy on this planet to be. Pursue this.

Live in the truth.
 
Feel sufficiently comfortable with your decision-making to make new choices regularly. Embrace change; do not fear it.
 
Opting to maintain the status quo is rarely the right choice.
 
Consider carefully how many people you allow to have a vote on your life's direction. (Note: in my case, it's zero.)
 
Step outside your comfort zone regularly. Consider activities that challenge your values rather than affirm them.
 
Read. Ask people what they're reading. And why.
 
Play offense. It's a hell of a lot more fun than playing defense.
 
Say "yes" as often as you can. Be generous with your time, your talent, your treasure.
 
Work to meet people of a different generation than your own. Cultivate these relationships.
 
Consider what you'd like your legacy on this planet to be. Pursue this.

Live in the truth.
 
Feel sufficiently comfortable with your decision-making to make new choices regularly. Embrace change; do not fear it.
 
Opting to maintain the status quo is rarely the right choice.
 
Consider carefully how many people you allow to have a vote on your life's direction. (Note: in my case, it's zero.)
 
Step outside your comfort zone regularly. Consider activities that challenge your values rather than affirm them.
 
Read. Ask people what they're reading. And why.
 
Play offense. It's a hell of a lot more fun than playing defense.
 
Say "yes" as often as you can. Be generous with your time, your talent, your treasure.
 
Work to meet people of a different generation than your own. Cultivate these relationships.
 
Consider what you'd like your legacy on this planet to be. Pursue this.

Live in the truth.
 
Feel sufficiently comfortable with your decision-making to make new choices regularly. Embrace change; do not fear it.
 
Opting to maintain the status quo is rarely the right choice.
 
Consider carefully how many people you allow to have a vote on your life's direction. (Note: in my case, it's zero.)
 
Step outside your comfort zone regularly. Consider activities that challenge your values rather than affirm them.
 
Read. Ask people what they're reading. And why.
 
Play offense. It's a hell of a lot more fun than playing defense.
 
Say "yes" as often as you can. Be generous with your time, your talent, your treasure.
 
Work to meet people of a different generation than your own. Cultivate these relationships.
 
Consider what you'd like your legacy on this planet to be. Pursue this.

Live in the truth.
 
Feel sufficiently comfortable with your decision-making to make new choices regularly. Embrace change; do not fear it.
 
Opting to maintain the status quo is rarely the right choice.
 
Consider carefully how many people you allow to have a vote on your life's direction. (Note: in my case, it's zero.)
 
Step outside your comfort zone regularly. Consider activities that challenge your values rather than affirm them.
 
Read. Ask people what they're reading. And why.
 
Play offense. It's a hell of a lot more fun than playing defense.
 
Say "yes" as often as you can. Be generous with your time, your talent, your treasure.
 
Work to meet people of a different generation than your own. Cultivate these relationships.
 
Consider what you'd like your legacy on this planet to be. Pursue this.

Great body . For me, too young and too tatted. However he definitely has done a tremendous job on his physique and he has quite the handsome face.

I set a wake-up alarm. Walk at least 5 miles each day. Read. Connect via phone (and not Zoom) with at least one friend each day. Keep my home clean and tidy. The NY Times crossword puzzle (yes, in ink.). Volunteer at least once/week to assemble food boxes at my local food pantry. Cook, helped by my weekly Hello Fresh box (which helps me with portion control, calorie count, and sodium intake). Excepting Hello Fresh, these were all my pre-COVID to-dos. Regimen great and small works for me.

I set a wake-up alarm. Walk at least 5 miles each day. Read. Connect via phone (and not Zoom) with at least one friend each day. Keep my home clean and tidy. The NY Times crossword puzzle (yes, in ink.). Volunteer at least once/week to assemble food boxes at my local food pantry. Cook, helped by my weekly Hello Fresh box (which helps me with portion control, calorie count, and sodium intake). Excepting Hello Fresh, these were all my pre-COVID to-dos. Regimen great and small works for me.

I set a wake-up alarm. Walk at least 5 miles each day. Read. Connect via phone (and not Zoom) with at least one friend each day. Keep my home clean and tidy. The NY Times crossword puzzle (yes, in ink.). Volunteer at least once/week to assemble food boxes at my local food pantry. Cook, helped by my weekly Hello Fresh box (which helps me with portion control, calorie count, and sodium intake). Excepting Hello Fresh, these were all my pre-COVID to-dos. Regimen great and small works for me.

i see this sort of behavior happen over and over with this generation. we actually discussed this in another thread about this issue.
 
i had a very similar situation happen to me with an escort a few years ago. i was seeing him regularly for about 6 months at that time. so not a newbie. i found out his birthday was coming up so i made dinner reservations as a birthday present. he 100% agreed to the dinner at one of our sessions and he was really happy to go. day before, i text him the time and the address of the restaurant. no reply. day of, again no answer. so as a back up, i asked a friend of mine if he wanted to go to dinner that evening (no one puts baby in the corner!). he agreed so off we went. i didnt text the escort again and 2 days later he text me as if nothing happened. i asked him what the hell happened. he said "oh sorry i totally forgot." what.... with two texts reminding him? the next time i saw him i flat out cornered him about this and he agreed that he was lying about forgetting but never could give me a legitimate reason for the ghosting. i told him point blank that i would never ask nor involve him outside of coming over to my place again. and i never did.
 
funny thing was, he was actually a lot of fun to be with once he was over at my place. hence why i continued seeing him. but from that point forward i just made sure i didnt put myself in a situation that would become a bad experience or aggravation to me. if he cancelled at the last minute (that happened a lot) and i was at home watching t.v... no biggie. after enough times of cancels though (i finally had enough when he cancelled 4 times in a row and HE initiated each and every appointment) i told him i would be looking for a new regular and you guessed it.. he told me that he could read between the lines and I was making a big deal over nothing (gas lighting anyone?). like what....my time is worthless and only he mattered? so that was that. remember guys... there will always be someone younger, buffer, hotter, hornier and flat out needing the money more than the one before him. and you can take that to the bank!
 
i think it goes right back to what i have said and have learned from my mistakes... this is a business dealing. be friendly... yes. try to be friends with an escort...forgeddaboutit! you are not getting involved with your best friend from high school. once one goes outside of these boundaries then it can and usually does get weird. even something as simple as a dinner!

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

Tequila.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

No doubt he influences a lot of fapping.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

My dentist knows that my professional career was in the investment business. Some time ago I was in his chair for a teeth cleaning when he started to ask me questions about equities.
 
I asked him if this cleaning was going to be free. That stopped the questions.
 
Why invite the provider to dinner to discuss real estate? If he wants your time, shouldn't he be the one doing the asking? (and the paying?) Value your time as he does his.

I met Eli 6 or so years ago. He was a lot of fun then. Most of his pics are unchanged since then. In fact, I took pic #37 of him in my bed (in either 2013 or 2014). Pics #17 and #19 are, I think, newer and therefore likely a better approximation of his look now. I recommend asking him for FaceTime and/or current pics.

Thank you so much.
 
No problem (instead of "you're welcome”)
 
Awesome
 
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I spend plenty of time in Mississippi for work. Close enough.

I've kicked to the curb several guys (both escorts and regular fuckbuddies) who PNP. In my experience, the signs include:
1) Inability to focus.
2) Habitual tardiness.
3) Very warm body temperature.
4) Can't get hard. (This may explain why many party boys are bottoms.)
5) Insatiable sex drive. ("Can we play all night?")
6) Inability to tell the truth.
7) Reliance on PNP to have sex, under the mistaken view that it's "more hot" that way.
 
I'm sure that there are other signs. This is what I've encountered.