DamizzonNYC

I have a handful of clients who are into this.  You end the session pretty messy.  But it's hot and worth it!

A lot of this is just learning your body.  Process all of these tips, and do some trial-and-error preps when you don't actually have plans.  i.e. Experiment with it when there's no pressure. 
With the time to do it, I go very deep with the hose, high volume, many hours in advance.  Then give it some real time to drain out.  Jumping up and down helps.  Jumping up and down on your left foot leaning hard left helps.  If you do a deep clean or two well in advance, you can do progressively lesser volume as you get closer and closer to ready.  Definitely give yourself time between completion of prep and leaving to go to your appointment. 

A lot of this is just learning your body.  Process all of these tips, and do some trial-and-error preps when you don't actually have plans.  i.e. Experiment with it when there's no pressure. 
With the time to do it, I go very deep with the hose, high volume, many hours in advance.  Then give it some real time to drain out.  Jumping up and down helps.  Jumping up and down on your left foot leaning hard left helps.  If you do a deep clean or two well in advance, you can do progressively lesser volume as you get closer and closer to ready.  Definitely give yourself time between completion of prep and leaving to go to your appointment. 

A lot of this is just learning your body.  Process all of these tips, and do some trial-and-error preps when you don't actually have plans.  i.e. Experiment with it when there's no pressure. 
With the time to do it, I go very deep with the hose, high volume, many hours in advance.  Then give it some real time to drain out.  Jumping up and down helps.  Jumping up and down on your left foot leaning hard left helps.  If you do a deep clean or two well in advance, you can do progressively lesser volume as you get closer and closer to ready.  Definitely give yourself time between completion of prep and leaving to go to your appointment. 

I guess you're right, if you're subbing for pay, you're still a human with some kind of boundary. 
As a fetish sub, I definitely operate in the spirit of "anything you want me to be," but - as with any kind of fetish play - the reality is that it still requires some actual conversation before a first meeting.  Like any sub, my recon profile includes a boundary or two.

Gunnison Beach in Sandy Hook NJ is still my go-to. 
 
Creeper photo of me there turned up on Twitter this summer.  Lol.  I was delighted to see it.  

I'm literally shocked that any escort would randomly text despite clear texting limitations.  Privacy is paramount for an escort's clients.  Both parties have the right to express clear boundaries.  And both parties' boundaries should be respected. 

I love that this topic exists...  Because - in my New York City experience - scheduling and logistics kill 90% of all sex encounters.  And like it or not, escorting fits under that umbrella.
There are days - particularly weekends - where I'm available on a moment's notice.  (Or travel time's notice?)  But that's the exception, not the rule.  Sadly, I do this part time. I have a day job.  I have weekly regulars built into my life.  It takes a little planning to find the right time to meet a new client.
Also, let's be honest about ... "needs a shower."  Some of us are primarily bottoms.  We're not offering the reality of boyfriend sex; we're offering the fantasy of perfection in that department.  It usually requires a heads up. 

Gunnison Beach in Sandy Hook NJ is still my go-to. 
 
Creeper photo of me there turned up on Twitter this summer.  Lol.  I was delighted to see it.  

I have an out-of-state escorting client who gets off on flying providers in for the day.  Early morning flight in.  Mid morning hotel session.  Wait a couple hours.  He returns for an afternoon session.  You fly home.  He's been super loyal in keeping me in rotation, but he's *always* asking me to send new guys.  It's a terrific arrangement, because he always sends me a finder's fee for the referral.
But my question here is: what's a sensible ask in terms of finder's fees?
Honestly I was suspicious that he was all talk about that aspect of it.  But when i followed up, "Hey how did you like my friend?" he was only to happy to send me the funds.  Which led me to ask: did I undersell??

Gunnison Beach in Sandy Hook NJ is still my go-to. 
 
Creeper photo of me there turned up on Twitter this summer.  Lol.  I was delighted to see it.  

Gunnison Beach in Sandy Hook NJ is still my go-to. 
 
Creeper photo of me there turned up on Twitter this summer.  Lol.  I was delighted to see it.  

This is the kind of stuff I hear that makes me think I'm a bad businessman.   LOL

This is the kind of stuff I hear that makes me think I'm a bad businessman.   LOL

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

Hahaha, I almost responded exactly the same thing.  Thank god for those *other* providers, lol. 
I'm honestly sort of lost without kissing.   I find it's my #1 connection to the client, that and eye contact.  For me it's the primary guide whether or not you're doing what the client likes.  Some of us actually do get off on pleasing, and there's no better way to know if your client is pleased or not. 

After watching Dahmer, the only precaution I take now is to stop watching Ryan Murphy shows.

Love hearing about these stories.  My piss enthusiast clients are always my favorite.  Because they tend to be direct and straightforward about what they want.

Sounds like a great list.    Thanks for your recommendations!