DamizzonNYC Posted November 5, 2023 Share Posted November 5, 2023 Just musing on a topic here, curious if anyone else has observed the same phenomenon escorting in the fetish world... The Dom who hires is becoming more and more of a unicorn. True or false? Some of my most successful early escort outings have been as a submissive in a fetish scene. Now it seems like the only people in the fetish world who are hiring are subs who want to be used and abused. Maybe it's just my own sub tendencies begging for some attention. (If forced to identify, I'd have to say vers-bottom/sub-switch.) But it does actually seem to be a change in the fetish sex work landscape. Am I imagining this? Anyone have thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muscmtl Posted November 5, 2023 Share Posted November 5, 2023 8 hours ago, ModelScort said: The Dom who hires is becoming more and more of a unicorn I'm a not limit total dom, hiring is impossible since "not limit subs" are unicorns on rentmen; less than 5% of escorts are bottom only. Every guy that interests me won't btm, or bb, or kiss, or rim... There's always something. So if I ever read a description like "Here to please and serve. Will do everything you want, be anything you want me to be" we're in business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DamizzonNYC Posted November 6, 2023 Author Share Posted November 6, 2023 15 hours ago, muscmtl said: I'm a not limit total dom, hiring is impossible since "not limit subs" are unicorns on rentmen; less than 5% of escorts are bottom only. Every guy that interests me won't btm, or bb, or kiss, or rim... There's always something. So if I ever read a description like "Here to please and serve. Will do everything you want, be anything you want me to be" we're in business. I guess you're right, if you're subbing for pay, you're still a human with some kind of boundary. As a fetish sub, I definitely operate in the spirit of "anything you want me to be," but - as with any kind of fetish play - the reality is that it still requires some actual conversation before a first meeting. Like any sub, my recon profile includes a boundary or two. + Axiom2001 and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Discreetguy2020 Posted November 22, 2023 Share Posted November 22, 2023 I’m a top and get into dom. There are a few “musts” For me and trying to align all with a sub isn’t easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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