Boaxxx

1.) Jack off
2.) Blast off
3.) Take a cold shower
 
You’ll be over it in less than 10 minutes. 
 
 
 

The topic is "Thoughts on Deposits" which can be translated to "Opinions on Deposits". Can we just let folks state their preference and move on? Why does everything need to turn into a toxic back and forth. I've never been asked for a deposit nor do I think I would pay a deposit unless I was really certain that the meeting was going to take place. Just my answer/opinion to the question and I'm not going to argue with anyone if you feel that I am wrong.
Now have a blessed day 💗

The topic is "Thoughts on Deposits" which can be translated to "Opinions on Deposits". Can we just let folks state their preference and move on? Why does everything need to turn into a toxic back and forth. I've never been asked for a deposit nor do I think I would pay a deposit unless I was really certain that the meeting was going to take place. Just my answer/opinion to the question and I'm not going to argue with anyone if you feel that I am wrong.
Now have a blessed day 💗

I’ve heard providers describe how they charge certain clients more or less based on the Robin Hood principle. Or because someone was rude or particularly nice in booking.
I’ve not heard it expressed as tied to the client’s perceived looks. 
I did have a provider once say when i assumed we were both in the heat of the moment “you’re so hot, I should be paying * you * …” and of course I didn’t take him literally and thought it odd that would even be referenced as it’s almost taboo to do so at any time during a session - and I replied “oh, really …?” - and he broke character and reminded me (though I didn’t need it) “we’re just acting, honey, remember?” - did kill the mood a little but not the fee 😉

Okay let's get back to the basic question of follow or ignore.
I tend to follow the autoresponder instructions if I am really interested in the provider, understanding that he may not be checking the site regularly. I would even say that I like autoresponder because I get an instant response which provides helpful information in most cases. I also realize that providers aren't sitting in front of their laptop or staring at their phone waiting to reply instantly to messages on the app. At least when I text someone directly I know there is a better likelihood of him seeing the  message sooner than a message left on the app. 
Plus I'm a sub so I always follow orders/instructions.😈

I met up with Ky (He also goes by Ayrton) for an erotic massage last night in San Francisco by Union Square and holy shit, lol.  This guy is legit.  Pics are definitely real.  He apologized for "being fat" because he ate a lot on a recent trip and yet his body was still unreal.  Touching his smooth skin over those tight muscles was... yeah it was like feeling silk over granite haha.  He also has a killer smile that will disarm you.
I asked him about compensation for his time and he indicated he preferred to be paid up front and asked if I was ok with that.  His reasoning is sound, he doesn't want the end of your time together to be about a transaction, he wants to end in pure bliss, which sounded hot to me.  He also said if I see him again I can just Zelle him after if I was more comfortable with that, so it sounds like he's more flexible here than other posters have indicated as long as you prove you're a trustworthy client.
He definitely escorts as well and you need to be clear about what you're looking for and what you're not so that he can quote an appropriate rate for his time.  I didn't sample from the entire menu but it sounds... extensive.  For an erotic massage he asks $300 for 1 hour.  I didn't ask about the other options.  I will tell you he was absolutely worth it.
Personality wise he's actually very kind and easy going.  His verbal English is better than his written and he's a great conversationalist.  I could see going out to dinner and drinks would be a fun date night experience.  He says he can cook as well, so that might be fun.  He's back in school right now and just doing this on the side to make money for tuition.  He also has some personal training experience so if you want some tips you can ask him.  He even offered to meet me at the gym while he's here to work out together.
His massage was fantastic.   In particular he can apply real deep pressure if you need it but be soft and gentle elsewhere.  Yes, I'm a fan of erotic massages but I also want to get a real massage in the process and he can absolutely do both.
As I said earlier, if you're looking for more than your standard ending, you need to clarify that beforehand.  While he won't "upsell" you on extras, you WILL be tempted to ask for more.  It's hard to say goodbye to that smile and body.
I plan on seeing him again before he leaves SF on Monday morning.  He said he still has some gaps in his schedule this weekend when he's not in the Castro or playing tourist, so if you're looking for a new a fun experience, you should text him.
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Just curious, what did he charge you for the 90/30 minute appointment? Also, why was he asking for a tip 10 minutes in? Tips for extras?

yes. wasn't surprised though, had a hunch it might be like that going in

As a client I definitely do not want to give a deposit primarily based on the possible scam aspect therefore being out potentially 100 to $200. However, I can see why a provider would want some sort of deposit because a no-show definitely impacts your business and income stream. I would recommend not requiring a deposit and set expectations accordingly as well as create a little nest egg for when those clients suddenly become ghosts.

Almost too good to be true. 😲

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ApoloBig is a big guy, 6'1", and is in San Jose at the moment. He has no reviews so I was wondering if anyone has experience with him.

Almost too good to be true. 😲

50-55 would be about right
 
 

I did connect with him shortly after he started advertising.   It was a fun appointment and, if those pictures are his, they are old.   He is not that lean now.   But the package matched that pic and he knew how to use it.   While older, he provided a great time and I would repeat.   I simply did not review because I was unhappy that his profile pics were so dated.    Very nice, handsome, accommodating man.
 

If one hires a 19-year-old escort instead, would that be more tasteful for you?

I wouldn't send him away but on the inside I'd would be rolling my eyes. Just not my thing, not a fan of the polish. Man bun doesn't bother me but the colored nail polish definitely does.

This is STRICTLY your opinion. To some of us – dare I say, most of us – It IS VERY different. Nail polish is historically and normally used by women so it is a BIG TURN OFF to most of us.
You don't mind it? Cool. But, you cannot make an overarching statement like you did because for some, it is just not true. It is a matter of attraction and opinion.

I think you read my post too fast because you seem to have missed the point.  
It was the woman who was waiting with her husband where I was also waiting for a rental car who commented about the guy's fingernails.  
I said nothing to either of them.  Therefore, you might want to "try to be a little more open minded, I invite you." (to quote you). 
Please remember this is a forum/site for exchanging ideas.  It is not a site to try to start an argument as your post so clearly shows. 
There are many things I read that I do not like but I do not respond with insults to the author.

For guys breaking norms (and laws and in many cases marriage oaths) by hiring escorts many of you are — dare I say — awfully narrow minded and judgmental. 
 
@coriolis888that same woman speaking to her husband would have a few choice words to say to her husband about your activities, I imagine, if she only knew. Try and be a little more open minded, I invite you. 

Maybe it's an age thing, I'm 62, or just an aesthetic thing, but I cannot see a beautiful, masculine man with fingernail polish.  I know it's trending and I cannot wait for this fad to pass like all the others, i.e. man bun.  Question:  If your hottest escort fantasy walked in the door wearing colored nail polish, would that turn you off?  I would thank him and send him on his way.
 

Those lips. That tongue. 😘

You can rent your own dungeon in Logan Square, Chicago.  And they do have a sling!

Once I asked for the BFE and this escort responded something in the line of:
"BFE? Oh, so you want us to sit in your couch, "watching Netflix" but in reality just checking Grindr on our phones without talking to each other? I prefer to give you the (FBE) Fuck Boy Experience!"
OMG, I laughed so much! 🤣