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I don't confine it to only providers and their clients.  My perception is that mutual respect and neutral civility have all but disappeared from society in general. 

Nope! But If they watch my porn videos they can be satisfied 24/7. 

I had a day this week when I saw 4 clients. That’s unusual. Some weeks I don’t see 4 in the whole week. On average it’s 4 a week. I do other things alongside sex work. It’s too unpredictable and challenging to do sex work exclusively. 

I'm not bothered by being contacted and if I'm not interested I simply tell them that I am not available.  Most providers understand with no follow-up. A few may contact me one or two addition times and then take me off their callback list.

I'm not bothered by being contacted and if I'm not interested I simply tell them that I am not available.  Most providers understand with no follow-up. A few may contact me one or two addition times and then take me off their callback list.

You need to adjust your settings so they don't get an alert you are visiting their profile. Go to my settings, then under account settings, click privacy. Then make sure the "Do not track me" option is enabled.

I never do sessions where I don’t know the other guy. I need to be comfortable with who I’m working with. If I was a client booking multiple providers my advice would be to book your favourite guy and then ask him for suggestions of additional guys. He’ll go to those guys he knows are good. You can then choose which of these you like and the chances of getting someone who will derail the session will be zero. Get your main guy to do all the arrangements over fees etc and you just settle up with him. 

I think you need to wash your sheets 😬

I think you need to wash your sheets 😬

I think you need to wash your sheets 😬

I think you need to wash your sheets 😬

I think you need to wash your sheets 😬

YES

I'm thinking it probably depends on how far in advance you are reaching out to them.
I also travel a bit for work, and often check out what is on offer in the city I am heading to. I think a weeks notice is good - I message by text 'hey saw your profile, I will be in town next week, a bit about me - I am (insert height/weight/age/sexual position). do you have any time between Wednesday-Friday that works for you, and can you let me know your rates?" 
I have a lot of success with this formula. I think if you reach out with 'hello how are you?" then they reply and find out you are not looking until next month, they move on to people who are require more immediate attention.  It's best to put it all out there upfront. If I don't get a reply for a day or two, I can move on to my next preference. 

Rarely do I tip unless the service is above and beyond. If they charge $200 and expect to receive $250 ($200 + $50 tip) then they should just charge $250. They control their own prices. 

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It's not an instant deal breaker until I know what the offense was. If it is any type of theft I would think twice. If it was a violent act against someone then that's a definite buh -bye.

It looks like he’s in Vegas now. Not sure since when but I may seem him next week. These photos also match the account on RMen by the same name. I’m hoping the pictures are accurate.

New to San Jose or possibly just passing through. Anyone have any interaction with him? Are these his real pics?
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New to San Jose or possibly just passing through. Anyone have any interaction with him? Are these his real pics?
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You don’t have to insult me, I was being honest about my experience. Go ahead and hire him then, doesn’t change anything for me. Take care.  

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! 

This is good to hear as he comes to San Jose quite regularly.
Call it a self esteem issue or something else but I always wonder if the provider is enjoying himself. I'm far from a big bear but rather a senior pocket gay, only 5'2", 135 and quite average looking. Fortunately I never experienced any negative engagements but it's always in the back of my mind. Being a senior is one reason why I choose older providers, preferably 40+, as I feel like there may be a better connection and they understand what it is like to get older. I tend to steer away from younger guys, even though there are so many hot ones, because I think they would not be interested and it would show in there performance.
I probably just need to work this out with a good therapist. That said I have a couple of regulars that I think like me as a client.🤞

I would advise to contact SWOP and they can give you real world on the ground help.  (Sex Workers Outreach Program) 
 
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