Mark_fl

With the exception of the accusation of being a junkie (although even that as you wrote it) these are all opinions. I'm sure all providers realize that they have characteristics that will not appeal to everyone. You can add "too muscular", "too thin" "too tall" and anything else to the list. Are any of these comments necessary? Of course not. People can and should just move along if they don't like something (although I don't see anything wrong with a comment such as "he's georgious, but really hate tattoos). If a provider gets bent out of shape by this sort of opinions, he's probably in the wrong line of business. Its an obvious part of putting yourself out there for sale. And you know if you weren't attractive in general, you wouldn't be hired in the first place. So you're likely pretty hot.

What's also been nice is that you can more easily determine which providers respect the clients and which are condescending. 80% of the providers who post here are great. Sadly those who are anonymous are anonymous for a reason. If we knew who they were, we would stay far away.

This can work both ways. If you are looking for a real connection, knowing a person from the forum can enhance that. If your looking for an anonymous or dominant encounter, it can have an adverse effect.

Maybe this is more for the bi clients or male providers to chime in on, but personally, although I'm equally attracted to men and women, I wouldn't hire a female sex worker. Reasons being that I feel much more likely they are being forced into it, and also more likely there is a man managing or taking a cut. I could be way off base, but I just don't feel like if there was a similar site to RM for woman, I'd never really be taking to the woman pictured. Has anyone run across a similar issue with male escorts? Is there something we should be on the lookout for to see if someone is doing this against their will? Would it pay to ask, or would that be offensive? Interested to hear thoughts and opinions.

Frankly, I think few participate because there is more to lose than to gain. The ones who post here seem mostly intelligent and articulate. If you aren't, you can get eaten alive, and will come across as petty and defensive. Personally, I want to hear the providers 'side' of the story. It seems to me that on this forum, when a provider does so, the majority of clients seem to side with them. But again, if you aren't too bright, it will end badly for you.

I'm just going to give the poster the benefit of the doubt and assume this was just a delayed April fool's day joke.

I think a sensual massage in this case goes further than therapeutic, but not sex. Probably undraped and will massage erogenous zones in a seductive way. Based on the price, Probably includes HE, but I'd ask him the difference before hiring.

I think that's a generalization. I contacted a provider in NJ where I planned on being a couple of weeks later and wanted to have something set up. His communication was good, and he did ask me to video chat through WhatsApp almost immediately. I figured if I wanted him to hold a date for me two weeks out, he had the right to know I was real and had no problem doing it. We had a pretty good meet up as well.

Let us know. Im tempted myself.

I think your logic is sound. But maybe the approach. What is you offered the incall rate and offered to pay for the Uber? This way he's getting his full rate and you only have to pay for one trip. I get that it sounds like negotiating, but it seems like the upcharge for outcall is travel time and expense. Why pay for that twice? Maybe I'm just cheap too, but I'm an accountant, and the math works.

This "out" thing is puzzling to me. My sexuality is something I've never discussed in public, as is the case 90+% of the people I meet. Does that mean almost everyone is closeted regardless of orientation? I have always been a private person, and this was the case for the first 50 years of my life (when I was 100% straight). I don't think anyone needs to be in or out of anything. Share what you want with whom you want, and don't feel guilty or repressed about it. If you're happy, be happy, and don't let anyone convince you that you need to broadcast anything to anyone in order to be better or happier.

That's great! I never knew I had a name before. I feel so welcomed 😌!

Bump from an hour ago? am I missing something?

Sign me up for this! Im not interested in anal at all. But what I've found (not that it's surprising for masseurs) is that if they do oral, it's pretty reluctantly, so I think I'm going to try and tactfully see if it's part of their service. As a matter of fact, one offered it on my first visit, maybe to get me to return, and it clearly wasn't something he was going to do when I came back. When I texted him before considering a third visit, and very tastefully asked if it was something he was comfortable doing, and telling him either way I enjoyed his massage and wished him the best. He didn't even respond.

Just had my first with Tony. I can't imagine it will be my last. He's a beautiful man who looks just like his photos. I went for the VIP package. It was more of a rubdown than professional massage, but it was very nice. He did use some vibrating massages for a few minutes, and when he started again I told him I preferred touch. He immediately put it away. He made you feel welcome immediately and he was very friendly and appreciative.

Thankfully it hasn't been quite 3 long years.

Worst masseur experience was the second visit after a good experience. Seems the things he did to get me back weren't things he did always or willingly. Disappointing.

https://rentmasseur.com/Tonyxxxx

And now he is no longer available o. The RM platform. Does that mean he was booted? Doesn't seem good.

His RM profile expired. I messaged him on rentmasseur, and it took him a week to read it and then didn't respond, so maybe he's taking a break.

Why don't you call me some time, when you have no class?

I reached out with several questions, and after a couple of days he replied and let me know he didn't host. Seems very short with replies. Sorry not much to add.

This was actually the last provider I referenced. Definitely into it and very nice.

I would think that if coming out in your later years, or even just having your first male/male experiences in later years, starting with a professional is the obvious way to go. Its one thing for teens, or even 20s to have no sexual experience. That would be relatively normal. But for someone's first experience at 50 or 60? That's a lot of pressure. Telling someone you've never gotten another guy off, or don't know what to do could be pretty uncomfortable or embarrassing and put a lot of pressure on both of you. I don't think I would ever explore a real relationship with a guy if I hadn't dipped my...um...toe in the water with a RM first.

I assume that while some prefer to save it, is it really possible to cum if you aren't enjoying it at some level?