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Apparently he is here for "viewing only" and not to contribute 😜

There aren't all that many men on here who have nothing but gushing raves that are consistent. The first one I attempted to see who fell in that category had a genuine medical episode and was forced to cancel, unable to re-schedule due to his hospital stay. I'm rather certain that I would've likely had just as good a time as everyone else had, but now he is retired, so I will not ever know. He most recently went by "Nacio", but was "ERICforHIRE" in the time frame of my try.
The second guy who has deserved gushing praise is "Zan" aka "ZRush". He's in his late 20s, and has been doing massage since his early twenties. Having personally had only one meet-up with a twenty-something guy ever prior to Zan, and had one of the worst experiences of my life, I vowed to never hire anyone with that much of an age gap, but broke my rule with Zan, and was so glad I did. He's highly busy with clients and travels constantly, which is why his donation keeps going up with time, but is so quietly connecting and down-to-Earth, which is an insanely rare quality to find in a younger muscular man. 
Yesterday I saw a guy who was actually a third choice. Many of you were highly helpful in aborting my second one. I was a bit early (20 minutes, traveling there from far away), but he was in a business meeting I wasn't aware I was interrupting with my text. He lived in a gated community, and I just wanted to be able to get in to wait until our time was to start. His meeting ran late by a touch, so he was apologetic and told me he'd add 15 minutes of time due to the inconvenience (he was only 3 minutes late). I had the best 75 minute massage (and lots, lots more) from any Las Vegas area based masseur, ever. 
In my circumstance, the massage started on the bed next to the massage table, but never made it to the massage table. I was VERY okay with that. This in my vast array of massages in my lifetime was the first time a guy's boyfriend was in the apartment at the same time. Considering we did it all, it understandably was running in the back of my head "how is your boyfriend okay with us doing all of this stuff with him home, or at least not joining in?".
He was rather candid about his experience doing massages, and therefore I was candid about what I thought he seemed to focus too much on when my massage was done. It wasn't perfect by any means, but as gratifying as could be. I'm after this cloud nine appointment cementing this belief - Be the first person of the day of the man you choose to see. The energy level difference seeing guys at the end of a day compared to the beginning is understandably night and day. 

https://rentmasseur.com/CarameloBello

This guy must've been my size in his mother's second trimester. That's not a cock, that's an area code. 
https://rentmen.eu/Mister_eleven

If you've done adult content, that isn't necessarily an automatic that you'll be successful. I've seen former porn stars languishing with just a very small handful of viewers, and I feel kind of bad for them. 
It is a complete crapshoot with being successful, and there really is no rhyme or reason why certain people excel while others try it and bail. My favorite couple were mixed race bodybuilders out of Florida. One was cut, the other was uncut. They were verse, and had upbeat attitudes. Unless you're self-employed, it is difficult to work any kind of job with other people if you do web cam. Even the stuffiest of the stuffy occupations have employees with ribald free time. 

Not an expert, but as a consumer, I'd suggest to think about what makes people interested. A great physique does help, but I've left or stoipped watching guys with great physiques that are boring as hell. The physique is only one aspect of engaging the audience. Audiences nowadays have the attention span of a gold fish, so catching their attention mihg require more than just looking good.
I'm not sure I agree with it all being "about the cock" only. Yes, it's as good and important, but the same thing that happens with the physique, a great cock that does nothing can get boring. Then there are the ass-liking people, some of which are quite thrilled by that more than penis.
Just my thoughts, not law.

There aren't all that many men on here who have nothing but gushing raves that are consistent. The first one I attempted to see who fell in that category had a genuine medical episode and was forced to cancel, unable to re-schedule due to his hospital stay. I'm rather certain that I would've likely had just as good a time as everyone else had, but now he is retired, so I will not ever know. He most recently went by "Nacio", but was "ERICforHIRE" in the time frame of my try.
The second guy who has deserved gushing praise is "Zan" aka "ZRush". He's in his late 20s, and has been doing massage since his early twenties. Having personally had only one meet-up with a twenty-something guy ever prior to Zan, and had one of the worst experiences of my life, I vowed to never hire anyone with that much of an age gap, but broke my rule with Zan, and was so glad I did. He's highly busy with clients and travels constantly, which is why his donation keeps going up with time, but is so quietly connecting and down-to-Earth, which is an insanely rare quality to find in a younger muscular man. 
Yesterday I saw a guy who was actually a third choice. Many of you were highly helpful in aborting my second one. I was a bit early (20 minutes, traveling there from far away), but he was in a business meeting I wasn't aware I was interrupting with my text. He lived in a gated community, and I just wanted to be able to get in to wait until our time was to start. His meeting ran late by a touch, so he was apologetic and told me he'd add 15 minutes of time due to the inconvenience (he was only 3 minutes late). I had the best 75 minute massage (and lots, lots more) from any Las Vegas area based masseur, ever. 
In my circumstance, the massage started on the bed next to the massage table, but never made it to the massage table. I was VERY okay with that. This in my vast array of massages in my lifetime was the first time a guy's boyfriend was in the apartment at the same time. Considering we did it all, it understandably was running in the back of my head "how is your boyfriend okay with us doing all of this stuff with him home, or at least not joining in?".
He was rather candid about his experience doing massages, and therefore I was candid about what I thought he seemed to focus too much on when my massage was done. It wasn't perfect by any means, but as gratifying as could be. I'm after this cloud nine appointment cementing this belief - Be the first person of the day of the man you choose to see. The energy level difference seeing guys at the end of a day compared to the beginning is understandably night and day. 

A solid physique will put you in the top 50% of viewers. You're competing against a large swath of guys. Think of something unique that isn't being done by everybody else, which is easier typed than done. Something I thought up was to be tipped 2 tokens to throw away a piece of trash. This way, they're seeing my body in motion, and I'm at least getting a mini-fraction of revenue (in addition to a cleaner area)!
Truthfully, with a man it's all about the cock. Average-sized or small ones aren't going to make squat. The only exception is duo male cam dudes, but for whatever reason Colombia seems to have a Walmart sized niche on that for the time being. I'm wondering what makes more revenue in their country nowadays, coffee or naked guys. 

Maybe in the case of the disappointing encounter the ass wasn't fuzzy.

There aren't all that many men on here who have nothing but gushing raves that are consistent. The first one I attempted to see who fell in that category had a genuine medical episode and was forced to cancel, unable to re-schedule due to his hospital stay. I'm rather certain that I would've likely had just as good a time as everyone else had, but now he is retired, so I will not ever know. He most recently went by "Nacio", but was "ERICforHIRE" in the time frame of my try.
The second guy who has deserved gushing praise is "Zan" aka "ZRush". He's in his late 20s, and has been doing massage since his early twenties. Having personally had only one meet-up with a twenty-something guy ever prior to Zan, and had one of the worst experiences of my life, I vowed to never hire anyone with that much of an age gap, but broke my rule with Zan, and was so glad I did. He's highly busy with clients and travels constantly, which is why his donation keeps going up with time, but is so quietly connecting and down-to-Earth, which is an insanely rare quality to find in a younger muscular man. 
Yesterday I saw a guy who was actually a third choice. Many of you were highly helpful in aborting my second one. I was a bit early (20 minutes, traveling there from far away), but he was in a business meeting I wasn't aware I was interrupting with my text. He lived in a gated community, and I just wanted to be able to get in to wait until our time was to start. His meeting ran late by a touch, so he was apologetic and told me he'd add 15 minutes of time due to the inconvenience (he was only 3 minutes late). I had the best 75 minute massage (and lots, lots more) from any Las Vegas area based masseur, ever. 
In my circumstance, the massage started on the bed next to the massage table, but never made it to the massage table. I was VERY okay with that. This in my vast array of massages in my lifetime was the first time a guy's boyfriend was in the apartment at the same time. Considering we did it all, it understandably was running in the back of my head "how is your boyfriend okay with us doing all of this stuff with him home, or at least not joining in?".
He was rather candid about his experience doing massages, and therefore I was candid about what I thought he seemed to focus too much on when my massage was done. It wasn't perfect by any means, but as gratifying as could be. I'm after this cloud nine appointment cementing this belief - Be the first person of the day of the man you choose to see. The energy level difference seeing guys at the end of a day compared to the beginning is understandably night and day. 

for providers - serious question, how do you take care of your sexual health with the current standard of unprotected sex ?  I’m not talking about hiv because that’s almost irrelevant w Prep and most positive gay men on meds.  But that leaves a lot of STIs that can still cause major problems/discomfort.
for me, condoms aren’t a moral question or decision but rather a practical one.  I just don’t want to spend unnecessary time going to the doctor, testing & then meds if I should be exposed to an sti.  
i can remember a phone call from a provider years ago saying he had an sti and I should go get tested.  I appreciated the call & sure enough - I had it too.  Ever since then it’s been condoms for me - it just seems that mixing with so many people it would be statistically difficult to manage sexual health.
Im wondering how working providers who routinely engage in unprotected sex w multiple partners can stay healthy ?   Most guys say they are tested every 2-3 months, but is that even enough ?
My understanding of DoxyPep is that it’s useful after occasional unprotected sex, but not meant as a routine - maybe I’m misinformed on that - and that really only treats Chlamydia & Syphilis, not gonorrhea and all the others.
if the providers have any tricks of the trade used to mitigate, I’d like to know that.  And is there any sort of discreet visual inspection that can be done of potential partners ?  do providers ever decline clients if something doesn’t look right ?
I don’t think anyone actually likes condoms - some people are just more risk averse than others.  And almost nobody discusses or acknowledges contracting an STI.  Honestly, this is my biggest hangup about sex.  
My sense is established professional providers are more on top of their sexual health than the average person - just another reason why I avoid the apps and prefer paid encounters.  
I’ve found almost nobody wants to discuss this subject in personal terms - it’s always in the abstract and seemingly unrealistic w very little acknowledgement of the real world. It could be my fears are unfounded - and if that’s the case, I’d like to get perspective on that too
Ive seen references in other threads about having conversations w providers about sexual health & practices - I’d like to know how that ideally goes from a providers perspective 
  And yes - I know all things carry some risk - it’s about making better choices, maybe not perfect ones.

Now explain to him what writing is.  

"I will not accept checks". I don't want to embarrass the person who put that, because he was not joking. He is of the age where once upon a time, he may have waited for someone to write down his fee from their check register before tearing it off, having put an "xoxo" in the memo space. 
Did anyone see men in the Frontiers days and pay by check? My grandmother humiliated me in the 70s by attempting to treat me to Carl's Jr., ordering then busting out her checkbook and getting into a heated argument with the manager when he told her that they were cash only. She did not get out much. Any time I would go there and see a big huge "NO CHECKS" sign, I had a hunch I knew of it's origin!

RE: 4.) It's waddle, not walk. If ducks walk by, let them run out of your right of way.

In your post, you have a negative perception of OTHER people. Who are you to judge whether someone else appears to be having fun or not? We all get older, and if you'd rather be in the company of someone being catty and negative all the damn time (guilty!) than someone pretending to enjoy themselves, take what you get - it's a far better option. Signed, almost always alone unless hiring. 

They're about as popular as pay phones. They exist, but barely. 

In your post, you have a negative perception of OTHER people. Who are you to judge whether someone else appears to be having fun or not? We all get older, and if you'd rather be in the company of someone being catty and negative all the damn time (guilty!) than someone pretending to enjoy themselves, take what you get - it's a far better option. Signed, almost always alone unless hiring. 

They're about as popular as pay phones. They exist, but barely. 

They're about as popular as pay phones. They exist, but barely. 

I love the younger of-age lot that on purpose enjoys the fun company of men much older than they are. Precious few will even spell it out in their ad that that is a turn-on for them, and even more rare, will exclusively see older guys. 
I'm glad that I didn't forever write off the 20-somethings, which I vowed to do after a disastrous hire of a 22 year old when I was in my mid-40s. The last man I saw with an age gap was 25 years my junior - I just think how hot it would be to be with him in over 10 years, since I found his maturity level to be well beyond his age.

Flimsy defense, but there are guys who have penises that look like they have a condom over them when they do not. It's that shine, baby!

Flimsy defense, but there are guys who have penises that look like they have a condom over them when they do not. It's that shine, baby!

They use a lot of mousse. 

We see it from others, and it sticks out like a sore thumb. A massage therapist who is well-liked with many reviews, but there's those one or two people who leave a nice review that slip through the cracks and don't get some love from the provider. I, for one, feel bad for those guys because that indicates to me that the feeling wasn't at all mutual. 
I have had only one review I left deleted by the moderator of the website per my request due to the masseur being (by private message) upset with me for giving something insignificant like ambiance a 4 instead of a 5 - that's far too diva to be getting on my case. 
When a provider doesn't reply or respond to any reviews left by anyone at all, or only bothers to get defensive when someone has a lousy experience to then reply, the writing is on the wall that you are leaving a review that isn't getting a response.

Of course you should provide your own condom if you're intending on topping. It is imperative to find out if whoever you would like to see is okay with you wearing protection. I see more and more providers putting "no condoms" or "bareback only" right in their ads, so don't even bother with them, as it's been spelled out. 
It's a rarity of rarities, but there are still men out there (maybe as few as two, I'm familiar with each of them) who REQUIRE a condom for an encounter. I have mad respect for them, as they each are incredibly handsome, girth-y, muscular, cut gentlemen. Both have been around for years, so business isn't suffering.