JamesB

I’m 55 - in shape and willing to travel.  Woo me. 

Bisexual men understand this dance. I was always taught to be a gentlemen with the ladies and never push myself on them. Same goes for erotic massage. Make your desire known but allow your provider to make the moves.

If you go too far he will signal that to you, perhaps by moving your hand or by moving himself away from your hands. When I give massages I welcome clients touching me back, it’s great feedback. But sometimes they go too far too fast. If he’s touching me too much I might move towards his feet or out of reach so that I can slow things down a little. Touch as much as you like but be prepared for him to take charge on how much of it you can do. 

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Let’s just say if the day has a “D” in it, I’m in the mood for hiring.

Tricky. On one hand, it's business, so one can think about it as finding or trying a different subscription service. On the other hand, many times the reason why regulars become regulars is that there's good chemistry, connection, availability, reliability or at least affordability.
In my experience when I've had to say no, I actually give a reason, not a lie. I don't necessarily give the main reason, but I prefer not to lie. No one likes rejection for another "better" provider no matter how emotionally intelligent the provider is, but I don't give excuses, I give real reasons even if what I say is not the main reason.

Yes. Several times.
It's a hit or miss.
All depends on the providers. I've had some really boring experiences and I've had some really great erotic moments.
There is definitely potential for maximum excitement. But finding a couple that is both skilled at massage AND good at erotic build-ups is challenging.

Dow above 50,000!

Dear Penthouse Forum,

I guess I’m the odd duck in this pond. For me, it’s automatic, I get out of the shower, put on deodorant, and a bit of cologne. If a date specifically asks me not to wear deodorant, I’m fine with that. When I’m hiring, wearing deodorant and cologne is what makes me feel most comfortable, so that’s how I show up. For what it’s worth, I’ve also asked a couple of providers to take a quick shower before we start playing.

I'm not sure this is the right question to ask. Yes, there is a possibility that you could be scammed on either an in- or out-call. Perhaps a more appropriate question is to ask how likely it is that you will be scammed in an escort interaction. If the answer is 'not very likely', then the question of whether it is more likely when you host or when they do, becomes less pressing. 
It's probably more productive to try to understand what things you should look for to assess whether a scam is likely or not. What the yellow and red flags are, how to evaluate their behaviour. Then, when to give the benefit of the doubt and when to withhold it. This would not be the first thread in which this issue had been discussed.

I’m only counting the ones  that offer some entertainment value. For instance, on this one, the OP marks one of his own posts as the solution to his own thread. LOL!

I’m only counting the ones  that offer some entertainment value. For instance, on this one, the OP marks one of his own posts as the solution to his own thread. LOL!

I’m only counting the ones  that offer some entertainment value. For instance, on this one, the OP marks one of his own posts as the solution to his own thread. LOL!

I’m only counting the ones  that offer some entertainment value. For instance, on this one, the OP marks one of his own posts as the solution to his own thread. LOL!