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Just stay away. You should avoid creating trouble or causing issues in places that are important to you, such as your workplace. It's about maintaining boundaries and respecting the environments where you work to avoid potential conflicts and negative consequences. In other words, keep your professional and personal spaces separate and free of unnecessary drama or complications to ensure they remain pleasant and functional.

Welcome to the forum.

I completely understand what an enema is and what a massage is. However, I’m having a hard time grasping how the two are combined. Could anyone please explain the process of integrating both?.

Pictures belong to a model by the name of Muhammed Ahmed

https://rentmasseur.com/rickmidstern

This thread is getting locked in 3, 2, 1……. LOL!!

Last year, he had an ad in Panama City, Panama. I texted him, and he mentioned he was from Colombia, so I’m not sure about the "Mex" part of his name now. His answers felt off, so I decided to move on.

The review: Disaster ripped me off for $400 and wanted to offer a non sensual massage The guys were a a crook stay away. Only gave me back half my money. Was also one hour late. Scam!!!

https://rent.men/Aianmodel

I think he is from Germany.

My advice to you is to move on, and that won’t be possible if you keep in contact with this provider. Avoid seeing or communicating with him. You don’t need to be rude, but let him know that you need time for yourself and won’t be in touch for a while. Then block him completely for at least six months to give yourself enough time to heal. A therapist or counselor can provide guidance and strategies for coping with your emotions. Focus on yourself, reconnect with activities you enjoy or try something new. Join clubs, take classes, or volunteer to meet new people and expand your social circle. Concentrate on personal and professional goals to give yourself a sense of direction and purpose. Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself during this process. Focus on the present and the future rather than dwelling on what could have been. Remember, moving on is a gradual process, but with time and self-care, you will come out stronger and more resilient.

A link to the profile is always helpful. https://rentmasseur.com/Nicola https://rent.men/Xebastian https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/148486-juan-miami/#comment-2235044 I don’t think he is from Orlando, I believe he is visiting.

Great! I'm glad I could help. It's probably called "shortcut" in all of them; I was just going by memory, which once again has proven to be not as reliable as I'd like. LOL!

I generally don't mind the music played during my massage sessions, as long as it's not loud enough to bother me. However, there was one occasion where a Latin masseur played reggaeton, which I didn't care for. I didn't mention it during the session because everything else was quite pleasant. At the end, I asked if we could have a different style of music for our next session. He seemed offended and mentioned that it was a cultural thing. Naturally, I didn't return. When he texted me about scheduling our next session, I simply chose not to respond.

I´m not sure if this is what you want but you can try it. 1.- Open your browser and go to your email account. Copy de URL at the top. 2.- Right click on your desktop, select New -->Direct access and paste the URL.--> Next 3.- Type the name you would like, something like Yahoo Mail - Done There should now be a direct access to your email on your desktop.

Any intel on this guy? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/48109/

@Simon Suraci raises an interesting point. The terms "escort" and "sex worker" are often used interchangeably, but to ME they have distinct connotations and implications. Escorts provide companionship, which can include social activities such as attending events, dinners or just spending time together. Physical intimacy may or may not be part of the services offered, depending on the escort and the agreement with the client. Escort’s clients may seek not just physical intimacy but also social companionship and a certain level of discretion. The term "sex worker" to me is broader and encompasses a wide range of activities where sexual services are exchanged for money or goods. This can include street-based sex work, brothel work, online sex work, and more. Both terms highlight different aspects and connotations of the profession.

IMO it can be attributed to several factors. The anonymity makes people feel emboldened to say things they wouldn't in face-to-face interactions because they can remain anonymous or use pseudonyms. This anonymity reduces the social consequences of rude or snarky behavior. Forums often attract like-minded individuals who reinforce each other’s opinions. This can lead to a sense of superiority and dismissiveness towards outsiders or differing viewpoints, resulting in snarky comments. Also people often use forums to vent their frustrations about various topics. This venting can come across as snarky, especially when directed at individuals or groups who hold opposing views. The lack of immediate repercussions compared to real-life interactions is also a factor. Users might not see the hurt or anger their comments cause, making it easier to be snarky. Let us not forget the desire for attention. Snarky or provocative comments often attract more attention and responses. For some users, the goal is to stir the pot and generate discussion, even if it means being rude.

He used to have a RM profile but it is no longer active.

Ad is gone.

The review also states “Thief, took whole fee and left with excuse that need to repark a car. Never came back. My number gkt booked away”

His last login was 4 months ago, which usually isn't a good sign.

WTH?

I don't feel comfortable sharing specific details of this relationship, but I’ll give some examples to illustrate the situation. The manipulation started with comments like “I don’t think of you as a client anymore,” “I have very strong feelings for you,” “I only feel safe when I'm with you.”.... And so on. Regarding the money, every time I hired him, which sometimes was multiple times a week, he was paid his standard rate plus a generous tip. He also spent time with me off the clock, during which we would go out to eat, prepare meals at home, enjoy drinks, and have long conversations. Then the “extra” money requests began. It started with statements like, “It’s been a really slow month, and I'm really worried about my rent.” After injuring his shoulder, he needed help with the deductible, and because it was difficult for him to work, he required assistance with his monthly expenses. Every month, there was a new reason for needing extra money and every time the amounts were higher. When I finally started cutting back on the money, he began mistreating me. The first time I refused a money request for a trip to see his mom, he went ballistic, stormed out of my house, and shouted all kinds of insults that I prefer not to remember. And that, folks, is all she wrote. I remember my mother telling me that the problem with helping people is that the first time you do it, you generate gratitude. Then you create anticipation and expectation, which turns into entitlement and dependency. Finally, when you stop helping, you receive hatred and resentment. This situation perfectly illustrated her point.

I think most of us have fallen for a provider at some point or at least I like to think so to feel better about myself, LOL!. In my case, it happened after a particularly hard breakup from an almost 10 year relationship. I was in a really bad place emotionally and returned to hiring as a coping mechanism to fill that void. Not the smartest decision I've ever made. This particular provider pushed all the right buttons and really made me feel good. In my defense, he was excellent at manipulating me and played me like a master, but I don't place the blame on him since I should have known better. This went on for a little over a year. Deep down, I knew he was just playing me for money, but I chose to ignore the signs. As expected, I ended up paying for my mistake both financially and emotionally. The financial loss was significant, but the emotional devastation was even harder to deal with. It took quite some time and professional help to recover but I learned my lesson.