JamesB

I’ve been seeing this more often lately. There are quite a few people using the RM site purely to funnel traffic to their OF, with zero intention of actually meeting anyone. At least in this case, he was upfront about what he is offering.

First, please stop relying on ChatGPT for legal advice. What happened to Braziliancutee was terrible, but that doesn’t automatically make it a case of sexual assault. In most major Western legal systems and many others, failing to pay after what was otherwise consensual activity is treated as a financial issue, either a civil breach of agreement or in some places, theft of services. It isn’t classified as assault under current law. The proper recourse would be through civil action or applicable financial charges, not criminal assault charges. A well known example of this legal distinction is R v. Linekar (England & Wales, 1995).

Just like terms such as sensual or erotic, each provider has their own idea of what that includes. The best approach is to ask the specific provider you’re interested in so you know exactly what they mean.

I’ve grown skeptical of reviews on RMen, and Rmass for that matter, mainly because of how negative feedback is handled. It is very hard to get a negative review published and If a provider asks for a bad review to be removed, chances are it will be taken down. That makes it hard to trust the platform since unfavorable experiences can simply disappear. When I read reviews, I look for red flags like multiple posts from the same person, accounts with only one review created right before posting, etc. Personally, I only leave negative reviews if there’s a serious issue like a scam. Many others probably do the same, so the lack of bad reviews doesn’t necessarily mean a provider is good. Here in COM, at least, you get the full picture. The good and the bad stay visible, and it’s up to each person to read through the experiences and decide what makes sense.

My preferred VPNs are Proton VPN and StrongVPN. On the rare occasions a site blocks me, switching to a different server or swapping to the other provider usually solves the issue.

As someone who frequently flies to and from Spain, I tend to prefer Iberia. On their transatlantic routes, Iberia generally offers newer aircraft, stronger connections, better food, and more comfortable lounges. They also have a good track record for punctuality. That said, customer service can be inconsistent, and Air Europe often provides better fares. In my view, Iberia’s points and miles program is superior, which adds extra value. While I wouldn’t classify Iberia as “premium” aside from the price point, it remains my airline of choice when traveling to Spain.

Isn’t there an option on RMen to pause or freeze your ad so it stays out of search results and doesn’t rack up charges while it’s inactive?

Inheritance is a miscalculation. The phrase comes from the economist Franco Modigliani, who argued that in a well planned life cycle, people intend to use their savings during their lifetime. According to his theory, individuals save money while working and then spend those savings once retired, aiming to end their lives with little left over. So when someone leaves an inheritance, Modigliani suggested it usually means they overestimated how much they needed to save, or did not spend as much as planned. In that sense, the inheritance is not the goal but rather the result of an error in predicting expenses, lifespan, or future needs.

From what I can tell, three conditions must be met for rates to appear in RMen: 1.- The provider must be located outside the United States. There might be other countries but this is the only one I know of. 2.- The client must also be outside the United States or use a VPN to simulate a non-US location. 3.- The provider must complete the “rates” fields in their profile.

In my opinion it’s a very bad idea. A 50 year mortgage may look attractive because the monthly payment is lower, but the total interest you pay becomes enormous and your equity grows at a crawl. Once you run the numbers, it becomes obvious that the small monthly savings come at the cost of paying roughly double in interest over the life of the loan.

I honestly don’t see what’s so complicated about this. If you’re no longer satisfied with his service, then stop hiring him. I get that finding a regular provider can be frustrating, believe me I know, but why continue working with someone who isn’t meeting your needs? The whole point of hiring is to get the services you actually want. You’re asking how to be gentle, but what you really need is to be honest with him and with yourself.

The pics appear to be of Dimitri Miras, a Greek fitness model and influencer. While it’s not impossible, it’s highly unlikely. Proceed with caution.

This right here. I still remember the first time I hired an Asian provider and he called me “dear” a couple of times. At first I thought, WTH? But over time, after hiring several providers from Asia, I realized it’s simply a cultural/language thing. Now it doesn’t bother me at all. In fact, one of my regular providers is Asian and uses “dear” quite often, and honestly, I’ve grown to enjoy it.

“Net worth” websites can give you a rough sense of scale like whether someone is a millionaire or a billionaire but their actual numbers are usually way off. Their biggest flaw is treating gross income as net worth. If an actor signs a $10 million deal, these sites simply add $10 million to the person’s net worth. In reality, that income gets carved up quickly. Agents 10%, managers 10–15%, lawyers around 5%, publicists, and then taxes often 50% or more in states like California or New York. That $10 million can shrink to $3 million or less. These sites also count visible assets but can’t account for hidden liabilities. If a celebrity buys a $20 million house, they add $20 million to the net worth even though the celebrity might have only put down $5 million and taken out a $15 million mortgage. The sites rarely factor in ongoing costs either like security team, staff, private travel, and the entire “celebrity lifestyle,” which can burn through millions a year.

This is a shining example of the way a genuine professional provider’s mind operates.

You’d think that if someone planned to “rob/rape/hurt a provider”, the last thing they’d do is send their real photo.

Also here for cross reference. https://rent.men/Latin_cris

For some reason, I can’t shake the feeling that “SecretProvider” and Jarrod are twin brothers who got separated at birth. LOL!

Profile is gone.

Those pictures actually trace back to a fitness model in Spain named Pedro Gonzalez.

In some cases, this kind of thing is intentional, a form of obfuscation or an anti-scraping measure that certain forums use. In this particular case, and this is just my guess, it looks more like a common symptom of forum database corruption or an issue from a failed migration. I’m sure the admin will be able to figure out what’s happening and hopefully apply a fix.

I haven’t had this procedure myself, I was just wishing you the best on yours.

To each their own. I totally agree they’re unhealthy and bad for you, basically a heart attack wrapped in paper, but to me, they’re still the best tasting ones out of the fast food options in the US. I guess my palate isn’t quite as exquisite and refined as yours. 😁