Nodalguy

The very best providers, in my experience, do not ask for any money upfront. But I am okay with that if they have some history, many reviews, and all good ratings.
Related, but if I pay up front, there will generally be no tip. If I pay afterward and I had a decent time, there will be a tip. I don't think I've ever paid in advance and then given a tip after the fact, but I suppose it could happen if it was really enjoyable.

I hired a rentboy for a bit and we became really good friends after he gave it up. I took him traveling, visiting my favorite places. I've lent him money, which he has always repaid. I used to give him cash whenever I saw him, but it's actually been a bit since we last met in person, as we both moved to different states. These days I'll send him something via app for his birthday (or half-birthday in the latest case).
We still text and talk very regularly. He called me and was close to tears years ago when I was going through a health issue and needed a couple major surgeries. He is a very genuine guy and I think consistently tries to do the right thing.
So I know in at least one case a client and provider ended up getting along and started to like each other mutually.

This is relevant. I was with a client recently who wanted me to fuck him bare as part of the massage (he’d asked when booking, and although it wasn’t something I’d promised, there was an expectation). He said he’d not done much with guys before but was exploring, and couldn’t hold back his feelings any longer.
Apparently he’d been building up the courage to book for about 2 years. I told him that I don’t usually include fucking, especially for a first time client and that he should see how things go during the session, which he was fine with.
Before we started he was very anxious but as we progressed he relaxed a bit. During the session he said again that he really wanted to try to bottom so I prepared him and then slid in. It must have only been about 10 seconds inside and he said ‘you won’t cum will you?’. I said ‘no, don’t worry’ (I’m able to control when I cum). But I think the thought of being fucked and the risk of cum inside made him think again and he asked me to pull out. I think sometimes clients get ahead of themselves and when reality hits they get anxious. Especially if they’re inexperienced. In the end he was happy with me unloading over his face as I brought him off. 

Just re-reading this now. You complain about Americans, even identifying particular geographical subsets that especially offend you, and yet dismissive arrogance and you are never far apart. You have got to be trolling 😂. Is it even possible for someone to hold these beliefs and spew such invective and yet be so unaware of himself?
I want to be clear I hold zero ill will toward you and do not mean to offend you. My point is that I think it may be a good idea to take a step back and reconsider your views and attitude.

I agree and think he is trolling. But let's just say I am a little unimpressed with his efforts thus far.

I'll take your word for it.
The moment I tag a user as a troll, I block them and ignore them. However ,  the small quoted segments I see don't indicate a mature or intelligent mind.

I hired a rentboy for a bit and we became really good friends after he gave it up. I took him traveling, visiting my favorite places. I've lent him money, which he has always repaid. I used to give him cash whenever I saw him, but it's actually been a bit since we last met in person, as we both moved to different states. These days I'll send him something via app for his birthday (or half-birthday in the latest case).
We still text and talk very regularly. He called me and was close to tears years ago when I was going through a health issue and needed a couple major surgeries. He is a very genuine guy and I think consistently tries to do the right thing.
So I know in at least one case a client and provider ended up getting along and started to like each other mutually.

I agree and think he is trolling. But let's just say I am a little unimpressed with his efforts thus far.

Well I never said he was good at it …  😝

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?
I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.
I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.
I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

It’s ok to ask directly in advance. I’ve had guys contact me to ask about BB and if it’s ok to breed or cum inside (however you want to characterize it). So no need to be shy, if it’s important to you just ask. 

Isn’t bigotedly maligning an entire swath of a country’s population totally off topic of this thread? I mean, I could be wrong, but I thought we were discussing market fluctuations and supply and demand expectations. Not engaging in malicious stereotyping 🤷🏼‍♂️ 

Just re-reading this now. You complain about Americans, even identifying particular geographical subsets that especially offend you, and yet dismissive arrogance and you are never far apart. You have got to be trolling 😂. Is it even possible for someone to hold these beliefs and spew such invective and yet be so unaware of himself?
I want to be clear I hold zero ill will toward you and do not mean to offend you. My point is that I think it may be a good idea to take a step back and reconsider your views and attitude.

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?
I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.
I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.
I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

I fixed it.

And that’s why providers who are clearly 40+ are still 29 on the site …. 
 
 

Together with “everything they told your (ie anyone older than 30) generation about condoms was a lie”
The kids today don’t appreciate the medical miracles of Prep and ART - and they also think condoms were some sort of good luck charm used in pagan worship before the arrival of true religion made people realize they were always ridiculous. 

@NyGold– we hear ad nauseam about the shitty clients. Decency goes a long way to covering a multitude of sins…If you’re a genuine person, if you do something boneheadedly rude toward someone else, another genuine person will likely forgive you or overlook it. But if you’re a jerk or only looking out for yourself, then your comeuppance will happen at some point. 

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?
I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.
I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.
I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

Have you ever met up with a guy and realized during it or shortly afterward, "Damn, this is literally a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I will never meet someone so _____ again"?
I was in another thread where I alluded a bit ago to an event that happened to me and made me think of this topic. I have a few experiences that begin to approach once-in-a-lifetime, but for me there is one clear guy in my mind who never be beaten.
I was in South Carolina for work and browsing Grindr in my hotel room at night, and I made contact with this barely-legal bi-curious guy. He wouldn't send a facepic, but the photos he did send showed he had a great body. He came over to my hotel room that night, and I just couldn't believe it. Pretty deep voice given his age, dark blond hair, really handsome face, flawless smooth tanned skin, very masculine and muscular (without being too muscular) and really lean. He had a thick, meaty cock and big balls and a really cute but beefy butt. I spent the first ninety minutes literally just massaging, rimming, sucking, and generally worshipping every millimeter of his body.
I am confident it will never happen to me again. I think I've had more actually fun sexual things happen (obviously I didn't party with the blond stud, and he wasn't experienced or very adventuresome), but I am speaking just in physical terms.

Sometimes free trials don’t show up in subscriptions (until it’s no longer free)

Ahh, I forgot about this. Yes, I remember I was stymied in sending a series of messages by OF's fascist censorship. In the one case I found and pulled up, I just asked "Do you ever visit [my city]?" And then told him that I had originally written more but OF monitors private messages and blocked it.

I'm not sure how you would locate profiles on Instagram of providers (obviously that's the hard part and I think the point of your question), but once you do there are tons of things you can say to indirectly indicate you are interested in hiring them. "Are you into generous guys?" "I'm happy to give you something for your travel expenses and time." And so on. 
In terms of actually locating guys, which I do on Twitter, I use Google searches (specifying "site:twitter.com" and including "'[my city]'") on different phrases : things like "m4m massage" "masseur" "gay escort" "gay client". I also have a number of more explicit things as well as Spanish phrases I search for, as I like Latino guys and I've noticed a number of recurring things that they say.

I'm not sure how you would locate profiles on Instagram of providers (obviously that's the hard part and I think the point of your question), but once you do there are tons of things you can say to indirectly indicate you are interested in hiring them. "Are you into generous guys?" "I'm happy to give you something for your travel expenses and time." And so on. 
In terms of actually locating guys, which I do on Twitter, I use Google searches (specifying "site:twitter.com" and including "'[my city]'") on different phrases : things like "m4m massage" "masseur" "gay escort" "gay client". I also have a number of more explicit things as well as Spanish phrases I search for, as I like Latino guys and I've noticed a number of recurring things that they say.

🤣 Good one. That is going to stick with me.