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Definitely not an expert in bottoming, but(t) being in the business of learning, I can recommend the book "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men". Right away, I can tell that if you don't bottom then try an oversized dildo, there might be an issue there. As for "the right one", yes, I think that's a real thing. The times I've bottomed has been because the right person has led me to it, not because I deliverately want to. Not an expert in bottoming, but an expert in learning, and as such, I'd say look for good, reliable information resources on the topic, that is in addition to info from people who are experienced.

I agree. Those details count. At the end of the day, we don't hire them for their IQ.

My experience with overpriced providers has been with younger men. I attribute it to lack of experience. However, I do know that there are some overpriced and some who might be worth the price, but I'm not willing to pay that much. I know prices go up, that's inevitable, but the prices of some providers are a little too high, unrealistic in some cases (IMO).

It's not very common for police to pose as gay masseurs. I've never heard of such thing. Always err on the side of caution and listen to your instincts. If it doesn't feel safe, pay attention to what makes you uneasy. Hopefully the masseur you chose is professional and trained, so you have a good setup and experience. Best wishes.

It's unprofessional in an escort setting. In a massage setting, I think that some providers use the massage thing as cover for escorting, hence the upselling for additional services. I have been offered additional services for additional charges, and I have said no since I am satisfied with what was agreed, and he did delivered what we agreed. I have also said yes, and got a little more escorting type of service in addition to the massage, and I have been ok. Otherwise, like Simon mentioned, not upselling some extras might be underpriced escorting. There's no absolute rule for any of this, so it's not easy to standarize the practice. However, an escort interrupting a session of what it is already expected and negotiated, to just ask for more money is not only unprofessional, but it gives the provider a bad reputation, In these times where communication is easier, reviews are available and places like this forum exist, it's just bad enterpreneurship for providers to incur in that practice.

Short answer, yes. Some clients are too sensitive. What I believe is up for discussion is the reason for it. Some people are not fully confident about hiring. Some struggle with all the feelings that come with hiring an escort. The reply from the client might have nothing to do with neither the location nor the provider. Who knows what's going on inside the head of that person. The possibilities of the feelings behind the reaction are endless.

Or else!

Personally, I can't care less about any aspect of it. She's not shocking to me, by wearing a jockstrap, I'm not shocked by people who are offended or outraged, and it's far from the gayest thing I've ever seen.

Saddest thing is that the idiot girlfriend that he's living with probably is laughing at the whole thing, not knowing that she might be next. Or she might not be aware of anything and just either looking the other way or seeing and hearing only what she likes.

His profile desription is minimal, and he lists incalls for $25,015,030. A little out of my budget.

Bump. Has anyone seen him?

Happy Valentine's day!

Because he's entitled to manage his time as he sees it fit. I am no expert in exercising, but I do know that having a steady routine for working out is best to ensure that one maintains the body properly, body that BTW is giving him his clients. Think of it as times when businesses are closed to clients for staff training or maintenance. That is his training and maintenance time. That should be respected. It's not that he's rejecting you (assuming that he's expressing availability at a different time).

At least in the late 90s and early 2000s when I lived in NYC, it was pretty much the same there. I used to call it "Bottomland" (not a critique). Same thing with me, I used to call myself an "existential top". Not that I was complaining, but the vast majority of the guys I dated or hooked up with were bottoms, some quite strict about it. Even one or two of those guys who can't shut up about being tops, I ended up shutting their "not exactly their mouths".

I took a screenshot and look in the lower right corner. Is shows "Versatile". I hope this helps. Have fun (if you decide to hire him)!

Haven't had the pleasure of meeting him, but wanted to point that his profile says that he's versatile. He might bottom for you (or me).

I don't know about other men's particular desires/reasons to hire, but I don't think that there is some kind of contractual obligation for people to sign to be a top, bottom or versatile. People's predilections evolve, sexuality is fluid, they are in a business where they are to make money based on what sells, I mean, the reasons for them to "become" of one role to another are endless. Yes, feeling better about their bodies, or developing bodies for the purpose of selling themselves as tops is also a good reson for them to do it. Kudos to all of them. The more they provide the more clients they can have. I also know that to many gay men, theirs and the role of the person they are with is trated like religion and politics; they are very strict about it and want nothing to do (some have actually become hostile) with people who don't meet that particular criteria. There's no right/wrong answers. However, IMO, the more narrow and specific one is, the less the possibilities of finding people who cater whatever requirements. The role that they are willing to play when I hire is what matters to me, not what they have done in the past or will do with others. Just my opinion, not law.

Now it's a priviledge having experienced that. I wish I had the opportunity.

Am I overinflating its use?

I do notice provider profiles with lots of pictures without a smile. Never took time to think about possible reasons, and honestly, that hasn't determe from reaching out. Their mouths get quite busy, so I don't pay much attention 🙂

I agree about Madrid and Barcelona being the closest to Bangkok in that respect. Never been to London. However, I've never experienced negative attitude in Bangkok, whereas in Spain I did. Had fun anyway, but some providers could do better if they lose their overinflated ego. Just my experience, my opinion, not law.

The way I see it, many young people tend to overinflate their worth. I normally dismiss that as lack of experience. That said, as good as both Cade and Nick look, I'm not sure I am willing to pay that much for an hour of their time.

My father became a born again Christian weirdo when I was 9. Every single thing that he'd say or do was around his interpretation of the bible. So, in his mind, he was a loving, responsible father providing the best advice one can give to a son. In reality he was talking to me about the threat of getting killed by "God" over adultery, fornication, prostitution, sodomy, incest, rape, homosexuality and sex before marrying a woman (highly preferred to be a virgin). He also despised second marriages and never accepted anyone's second wife as a legitimate one. As a religiously addicted/brainwashed weirdo, he was unable to talk without having his bible in his hand, as some kind of security blanket for everything, well, almost everything. Seems like he never thought of us, his children, as people with cognition and minds on our own, enough to discern the hypocrisy. In social settings, when he was angry, or in the midst of how work, you could see his real self, cursing, being violent, making dirty jokes, and expressing thrill when talking about certain sex topics. I was years ahead in school, and back in the day they had some kind of sex education, and I remember someone coming to my classroom when I was in fourth grade (although age-wise I was supposed to be in second grade, and that makes a world of difference at that stage of development) to give us a speech about sex. They showed a 8 mm film with information about sex, which I couldn't grasp or understand at all (interestingly, the only thing that I remember today about that film was seeing an erected penis). I had no clue what the whole thing was about. Later in middle school, there was another visitor who came to talk about sex, but that one was focused on STDs, showing slides with graphic pictures of infected penises and vaginas with gonorrhea. I remember that I fainted when they showed eyes infected with it, had to leave the room. I also remember being all by myself, not a single soul asked me if I was ok. Then, in the rather fucked up public education system where I grew up, I had quite a few inappropriate teachers integrating things that are not exactly appropriate for children into class. One of them was a literature teacher who had us read a prison rape scene. Another was a biology teacher making comments about how great is to fuck a pregnant woman because "she's already open". Another history teacher was telling stories about the sexual practices of the elite in ancient Rome that involved using slaves in any way they wanted, and buying children for sexual pleasure. That's the "birds and bees" I got as a child. Pretty, right?

Welcome to the forum.

I am a client, and I just accept that there are some providers who are above what I am willing to pay. Nothing wrong with them asking for what they ask, nothing wrong with me not hiring them for it. Some have been around for some time, so to me that means that they seem to be doing well with their prices. Why on Earth will they want to lower the price? Also, not to me, but I have wirnessed others mentioning that lowering the price does not leave a good impression in some clients, as they take that as them cheapening themselves, disparate, or that there has to be something wrong with them, or that they are a scam. So no, I am against lowering prices. If I cannot afford it, or if I don't find that price reasonable, I just move on. I don't think that either me or the provider loses anything for not having my business.