Lotus-eater
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Lotus-eater reacted to PKS in After Appointment Texts/Calls
Recently I've had a few massages where the massage went well and then, after a few days, the provider will start regularly following up via text trying to get me to book another appointment, one even called. After saying no a few times and still continuing to get texts, I've ended up blocking numbers from providers who I likely would have ended up making a second appointment with had they not been texting a lot.
I guess it's a weird double standard that I expect them to be open to receiving my text whenever I am ready to book for another appointment but get creeped out when they're reaching out to me... but I don't like it! Has this happened to you? Thoughts?
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Lotus-eater reacted to SamMiller213 in SD_one San Diego
Yes, hard pass. Terrible with zero skill and massage was under 30mins. House has a strong scent of cat piss.
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Lotus-eater reacted to mkm556 in SD_one San Diego
Reached out to him the other day.
He quoted me 200 sensual, 250 erotic.
I asked him about the difference and he said sensual is with underwear, erotic is nude and release. It’s a pass for me.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from soloyo215 in Who let the dogs out?
The last 2 masseurs I visited had dogs and the only way to calm the dogs down was to let them in the room with us, which I did not like. I guess I'll have to inquire about pets before booking in the future.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from + Pensant in Who let the dogs out?
The last 2 masseurs I visited had dogs and the only way to calm the dogs down was to let them in the room with us, which I did not like. I guess I'll have to inquire about pets before booking in the future.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Who let the dogs out?
Thank you. Not having pets in the workspace seems to me to be a pretty reasonable expectation..
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Lotus-eater reacted to BuzzLiteQueer in Fitlux from Hawaii visiting LA
Those are escort (Rentmen) rates, not masseur rates (Rentmasseur). If you're going to hire him for thos prices, be clear about the services you will get
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Lotus-eater reacted to BuzzLiteQueer in Fitlux from Hawaii visiting LA
Hard to tell because of the angle of the pose and distance b/w model and photographer. But clearly not the same age. Looks like a trip down memory lane to me, IMHO
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Lotus-eater reacted to + nycman in Masseurs who stand you up
Wait, you still when through with it???
I’ve been ghosted a few times, and certainly had several episodes where the escort showed up late. Now, if it’s more than 15 minutes past the appointed time with no communication, I just assume it’s not gonna happen and I move on. Strangely enough the worst city for me was Toronto (Vegas is a close 2nd). Had several no shows or "I’ll be there in 15 minutes" (which was always the first communication over 1 hour after we were supposed to meet). All the late guys were pissed off when I told him I had already made other plans. I thought it was hilarious that they expected me to sit around and wait. Anyone who treats their customers that way won’t be in business long.
I’ve been hiring long enough that the first sign of shenanigans gets shown the door immediately. I’ve never regretted it.
That said, I’ve waited over two hours for a guy who seemed sincere and kept communicating the whole time. It was worth it.
For the record, the most professional/reliable city for me is London.
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Lotus-eater reacted to Silver Spring in Masseurs who stand you up
All of these stories seem like great examples of dodging a bullet. Be thankful.
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Lotus-eater reacted to jharrison10343 in Masseurs who stand you up
Only once. He was a travel-only masseur and he didn't show up for our scheduled appointment, so I texted him to ask where he was and he responded two hours later saying he had some fake-sounding pet emergency and had to rush to the vet, and gave me a spiel about how dedicated he is to his clients and almost never misses appointments. We rescheduled and he showed up that time, and he was fine. Two months later he hits me up asking if I want to rebook, and I say sure, why not. He doesn't show up for the scheduled time and I text him to ask where he is and no response. I finally hear from him months later, and he claims he couldn't pay his cell phone bill and it got cut off, and asks if I want to rebook. I feel kind of bad for him and say sure. He doesn't show up again for our appointment and I don't even bother to ask where he is. Fine, don't take my money. He disappeared from all of the masseur sites shortly after that. Hmm I wonder why.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Who let the dogs out?
The last 2 masseurs I visited had dogs and the only way to calm the dogs down was to let them in the room with us, which I did not like. I guess I'll have to inquire about pets before booking in the future.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from Wanderoz in Who let the dogs out?
Thank you. Not having pets in the workspace seems to me to be a pretty reasonable expectation..
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from relax man in Who let the dogs out?
Thank you. Not having pets in the workspace seems to me to be a pretty reasonable expectation..
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from BriansBodywork in Who let the dogs out?
Thank you. Not having pets in the workspace seems to me to be a pretty reasonable expectation..
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Lotus-eater reacted to jmichaeliii in Mark - North Hollywood
Just had a session with this guy. He is gorgeous everywhere! And a fun time.
MilitaryMuscle on RentMasseur
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Lotus-eater reacted to BriansBodywork in Who let the dogs out?
I have a dog and two cats but they are not allowed into my massage workspace when I have a client in the home.
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Lotus-eater reacted to Kevdog in NY Bearded Masseur
I love this guy. His name is Alex. He's tall, handsome and gives a great long lasting massage. I've seen him 4 times. Not a clock watcher. Super sweet and considerate. BUT and it could be a dealbreaker. He's straight as an arrow. Does not do erotic. Just sensual. He just strikes me as someone very comfortable with their body. And uses his whole perfect body too. I'm older (64) and he makes me feel young lol. I've seen other people write bad reviews for him so take that into consideration. He's kinda just a big sweet stoner who gives an amazing super long massage. Very low key. Sexy voice. Best to just call him. First time i did he was at my house in 30. Very into 420 and so am I so perfect for me. YMMV.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from BriansBodywork in Who let the dogs out?
The last 2 masseurs I visited had dogs and the only way to calm the dogs down was to let them in the room with us, which I did not like. I guess I'll have to inquire about pets before booking in the future.
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Lotus-eater got a reaction from Wanderoz in Who let the dogs out?
The last 2 masseurs I visited had dogs and the only way to calm the dogs down was to let them in the room with us, which I did not like. I guess I'll have to inquire about pets before booking in the future.
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Lotus-eater reacted to BeefyDude in Veganman in Los Angeles
He is in ATL now. Pics and bio are nice. Price.. hmmm not sure about $180. Now seeing this thread, i've decided NOT to go with him.
Btw I look at reviews too. All are erotic (which explains the price). That's fine if that is what you are looking for. Not me though.
This is why I LOVE this site. You get real and honest info on (the bad) masseurs before possibly wasting time and money. Conversely, you get confirmation on the good ones
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Lotus-eater reacted to + 7829V in Veganman in Los Angeles
C massage. MT, HE, big time cutter, no table, rudimentary English. As soon as he flips you is over. A no repeat for me.
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Lotus-eater reacted to + 7829V in VeganMan
I think rentmasseur is the new rentmen... and the bad thing is that since rentmasseur is a "massage" site, guys only go full service is they like the client. Even though we are paying escort rates already... And no way to complaint, since we paid for a "massage". And guys get away with it... and they don't have to call themselves "escorts" they say they are "masseurs".
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Lotus-eater reacted to Swazca in River_W, name changer?
Ads like this are the reason why the market is flooded with “Escort Masseurs” that think just a brief rub and tug are the basis for earning $280 an hour at less than an hour of service. Seriously, just post a Rent.men ad only!
I’ve said in other threads I hold the line at $140 for 90 mins (max) and I find legitimate masseurs that do that job well. If I want sex that’s what Grindr is for! I blame the users who love to boast in their reviews that they had a “spectacular service” from these Escorts and paid high dollar. Whoopty do!!! You spent $380 on Rentmasseur to get jacked off, let’s get you a medal.