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I’ve posted a lot on this topic so won’t beat a dead horse, but this is a point that I don’t believe I’ve hit before because it should be obvious: 
Generally speaking, it is a provider’s job to play with anyone willing to pay.  This “anyone willing to pay” may not be truthful about having an STI, may not know if he has an STI, and may not necessarily even be asked by the provider if he has an STI.  When you are playing with a provider, you are also playing with all of these men he has played with.  While the provider can do everything in his power to protect himself, nothing is 100% effective.

I’m not ashamed to say that as a 100% gay man, I am incredibly envious of bi guys!

I’ve been thinking about this a lot today as I brace myself for several hours of returning calls today that my boss forwarded to me this morning.  I genuinely don’t understand why anyone (with the exception of someone who is not up to date technologically, which describes none of the people who called) would make a phone call for a basic inquiry or to schedule, when an email is infinitely more efficient for both sides.
A couple months ago, I got a phone call from a potential client (one who I had already spoken to, so she had my cell number) to schedule a visit.  Almost an hour on the phone was spent of her talking to the person she was in the room with to work out what time worked for them when I just kept saying “any time in that window works!”  So that was almost an hour wasted of my workday that could have been a 2-sentence email, which I then had to confirm via email anyway!

Me too.  

Same!  Almost every guy I have ever hooked up with has initiated rimming me without my asking him to.

Same here

I wouldn’t even consider paying with anything other than cash!  I’m actually shocked to see a lot of these responses.

I’m not ashamed to say that as a 100% gay man, I am incredibly envious of bi guys!

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The only people with whom I share my history of hiring is the people I have met from this site. I can't remember anyone else ever having asked if I have hired. It's not a subject that usually comes up in social conversation.

My love of opera came from quite a selfish place to begin. As a young, junior high choir and church choir tenor, I began taking solo singing lessons from my school choir director in 7th grade. I enjoyed learning about singing technique, though I was gifted with only a light tenor voice.
My dad loved to play (self-taught) guitar and sing, mainly old country music like Hank Williams, my mom enjoyed singing hymns in our church congregation, so neither liked opera. My dad got so tired when I was listening to opera once that he yelled into my room, “Isn’t she (the soprano) dead, yet?”
Anyway,  neither of my parents ever cared for opera at all. As a young singer of about 12 or 13, I decided opera had to be the ultimate “highest of the higher arts!” Really a pretty selfish reason to begin listening to the art form, for some sort of perceived or hoped for, increased social status.
 I began listening to a local college radio show which had a weekly music broadcast which played excerpts from Italian, French and German operas, one opera each week. Around the same time, my parents gave me a birthday present of a reel to reel tape recorder, so I could record these programs, and listen repeatedly to “educate” myself.
What happened, though, was that I began to love opera and certain operatic singers, especially sopranos at first. Two of those radio broadcasts especially enlightened me: excerpts from Faust, with de los Angeles, Gedda and Christoff, and excerpts from Boheme, with de los Angeles, Bjorling and Merrill.
A year or so later, I discovered the Saturday afternoon MET broadcasts, and I became a true “opera lover.” After that, there was no going back. Although I realized opera per se was not a ladder to social status, I became a lifelong follower of the art form!
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My story is somewhat similar- my parents were not at all interested in opera, but my father loved musical theatre and my mother enjoys it.  When I started studying singing (with a goal of pursuing musical theatre), I was inherently exposed to opera and fell in love! 

This is the kind of “catalogue model” he looks like to me (except not wearing a suit lol).

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I wouldn’t even consider paying with anything other than cash!  I’m actually shocked to see a lot of these responses.

I wouldn’t even consider paying with anything other than cash!  I’m actually shocked to see a lot of these responses.

I wouldn’t even consider paying with anything other than cash!  I’m actually shocked to see a lot of these responses.

I wouldn’t even consider paying with anything other than cash!  I’m actually shocked to see a lot of these responses.