RyanDean

Yeah. Naked dancers, clothed patrons. You like a dancer, you ask for a dance, dance, pay for the dance. Life happily ever after. 

It's brief, engaging & very funny. There is a sex worker storyline in it as well. Ryan O'Connell stars.

It's brief, engaging & very funny. There is a sex worker storyline in it as well. Ryan O'Connell stars.

@Lucky: have you seen Ryan O'Connell's netflix series, Special?

Hi... but I don't recall ever meeting you.

I’ve met many forum members from here, well over 20. We have bonded over stories, photos, videos, escapades etc. 
I only had one bad interaction where the dude was an absolute asshole. Other than that they’ve all been amazing. 
 
By the way, if you’re reading this, 👋 hi asshole! 

For those interested in memoirs (not just novels) by providers, there's also David-SF's Every Grain of Sand, which was discussed on this Forum when it came out ... currently 4.8 (out of 5) stars based on 111 reviews on Amazon.
https://www.queerty.com/sex-worker-survived-hell-teach-us-forgiveness-20200405

@Lucky~ Conner Habib was his nom-de-porn, which he has continued to use for his post-porn career (writing, podcasting, etc). And I definitely recall him running an on/off-again ad back in the days of Rentboy.

Dunno about the legal name.

It's dark -- and intense -- and surprising, @Lucky.
But beautifully crafted.

If this forum was a reality tv show, this would be @Coolwave35's tagline:

"Encouraging hot guys to do shit for money is why I was put on earth!"

If this forum was a reality tv show, this would be @Coolwave35's tagline:

"Encouraging hot guys to do shit for money is why I was put on earth!"

Exactly. Alfie was my videographer when I did my survivor weekend. That inspired him to put together these content creator trips. They did Ibiza and Tulum already.
 
 For this one, Alfie invited me to bring a little flavor, fresh ideas for content, and cash etc. he wants to release the survivor weekend footage from my house but that wasn’t the intent it was filmed with so I keep saying no. He got permission from most of the guys and made teasers for only fans but we’re not doing it. I believe his intention for the week in colombia for having me there is to use money to push boundaries with the guys. Encouraging hot guys to do shit for money is basically why I was put on earth so it’s a good combination of our strengths lol 

Don't give @Coolwave35 any ideas, @Trick! 
We want him to celebrate and survive his 40th.

Don't give @Coolwave35 any ideas, @Trick! 
We want him to celebrate and survive his 40th.

Don't give @Coolwave35 any ideas, @Trick! 
We want him to celebrate and survive his 40th.

Don't give @Coolwave35 any ideas, @Trick! 
We want him to celebrate and survive his 40th.

I’ve never seen so many dancers in one place. Yikes. Did everyone enjoy themselves?  I met a bunch of forum guys I haven’t before and everyone was a joy. How did you all like it? It was my last nude party til May so I got a lot out of my system. Including watching Max jizz on Timothy Champagne. A sweet man came up to me after that public show and said “oh my god, how did you get them to do that?”  My answer was simple. “Money” lol 

I recently started reading Hawk Mountain by Conner Habib and I'm really enjoying the way Habib depicts the complicated emotional/sexual dynamics among men. So it got me to wondering...

Are there other notable novels by gents who've spent time as sex workers? 
I've read John Rechy and have read novels, short stories and plays "about" hustlers, gigolos and rentboys. But if any of you have leads on others write BY (but not necessarily ABOUT) male sex workers, I'd love to have the suggestions.

Christopher Daniel's wrote a memoir of "Money's on the dresser" it's been a while since I read it.  Covers the escort life in Vegas in the early 2000s-2010s.  It was an easy enjoyable read, but I can't remember any deep insights from it.  

100%.
And thank you to everyone who has provided feedback on those you have found to be particularly kind!  

In any customer service, I think of kindness as among the things that can distinguish "merely good/fine" from "truly excellent/memorable" so I don't think it's irrelevant (or entirely mercenary). 
And it is a feature I notice and value when hiring.
Some gents whose kindness has impressed me include:
Tristan Baldwin
James DuMont
Ryan Chambers
AlexanderMullerr
RomanLA

 

In any customer service, I think of kindness as among the things that can distinguish "merely good/fine" from "truly excellent/memorable" so I don't think it's irrelevant (or entirely mercenary). 
And it is a feature I notice and value when hiring.
Some gents whose kindness has impressed me include:
Tristan Baldwin
James DuMont
Ryan Chambers
AlexanderMullerr
RomanLA

 

Way back in the 90s, the term often served as something of a catchall to describe kinks or fetishes that weren't necessarily part of a BDSM roleplay or top/bottom scene. It worked as a simple shorthand not only for "raunch" (which could include any and all bodily fluids and -- ahem -- other excretions) while also gesturing toward a broad array of body fetishes -- including extreme nipple play, penis pumping and, perhaps especially, buttplay (ie big dildo or f*sting). 

My sense is it's gotten less specific over the last couple decades but it does seem to cue an enthusiastic willingness to get down and get dirty. But, yes, not "vanilla"...

Way back in the 90s, the term often served as something of a catchall to describe kinks or fetishes that weren't necessarily part of a BDSM roleplay or top/bottom scene. It worked as a simple shorthand not only for "raunch" (which could include any and all bodily fluids and -- ahem -- other excretions) while also gesturing toward a broad array of body fetishes -- including extreme nipple play, penis pumping and, perhaps especially, buttplay (ie big dildo or f*sting). 

My sense is it's gotten less specific over the last couple decades but it does seem to cue an enthusiastic willingness to get down and get dirty. But, yes, not "vanilla"...

I’ve always had fun at BJs while I happened to be in ATL.