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Ok, so I'm not really a grindr user, probably only for less than a year now. I just started using it since when I moved here in the US. Finding hook ups is hard especially to an asian guy like me. And I'm the type of person who doesn't send face pic for two reasons: first, I'm paranoid about everything concerning privacy. Even if it's like an expiring photo or something. And second, I have a lot of body insecurities, from head to toe. 
So, finding somebody who would agree to meet up anonymously is like very rare. And I chatted with this one guy who seems to have a decent description in his profile and he's black. I've never had a BBC before so like my excitement is through the roof. My first rookie mistake that day was agreeing to meet up in his place and not mine. My thoughts are like, what if he's a scammer or thief that can rob me? Somethin like that. So he told me his address, and when I got there, it seems like your typical grandparent's house. When I saw him, he looks decent and like your typical bear body type. So when he saw me, he didn't say anything at all, he just signaled me to keep quiet and go straight upstairs. That means he lives in his parent's house.... And ok I entered the door, which btw is unhinged from the wall, and I saw this horrific dumpster like garbage everywhere. It seems like a college dorm room x10000 omg... He said sorry for all the mess and I was pretending to be ok. But it's like a huge turn off for me. Luckily when he undressed, that's when I saw his huge snake, like porn like dick. I'm afraid that I couldn't DT it. I'm a side btw. And it's directly posted in my profile that at most, I do everything except anal, receiving and especially giving. I discussed it with him prior, but still, black guy like him with that kind of dong, must have high hopes at the back of my mind. When I first sucked his dck, it had an unpleasant taste to it, but I kept thinking that I dreamed about trying a black dck before so I should just suck it up, literally. He said I should undress too so he could suck my dck, but I said it's really asian size, and I wasn't getting hard because of all the mess.. So when he saw it, he kinda got disappointed. My personality is, I'm a people pleaser, so when I saw his face, I just suddenly offered to do more kinky stuff like rimming him... So he turned around and he had a really huge ass, like you could really get suffocated. And yes, I tasted sh*t, and almost gagged.... Oh god, I said to him, can you maybe wash your down there for a bit.... So he went to the bathroom and when he got back and I continued rimming him, it still tastes like sht mixed with like an old spice cologne or something. Then I asked him, did you put something in there? And he said he used an old spice type of body wash..... Oh god, I just said to him, maybe you could turn around so I could continue sucking his dick.... Luckily, I think my mouth already got rid of all the musty odor and weird taste from his dck, so like back to a regular tasting dck. Yeah, then he probably got turned on by that so he started forcing me verbally to be anally fckd. It was like a good 15 mins before he gave up... I mean, even if I agree, hypothetically, to get drilled that day, a lot of messy stuff had already been done that was kinda of a turn off for me. So I went back to sucking his dck and him watching a porn in his phone, when all of a sudden, his phone rang, I think it was like the bank calling him and literally the girl on the other line said he had to pay like a negative balance or something from his credit card, which he declared missing. After the call ended, he started kissing me and asked if he could borrow some money for me... At this point I thought, I might get beaten up if I wouldn't give him any money. But I said, I just paid my bills and had sent money to my parents etc... He was asking as well if he could live in my place temporarily, which I said is impossible because I have a roommate... So he went back to concentrating on his porn and me getting him off. After that, he insisted to cuddle and started asking me again about borrowing some money, which at this point, I just made up some stories just so he could get the hint that I am not gonna lend him anything. When I went home, we just texted our good byes with each other and all that thank you stuff but like 3 days later, he texted if he could meet up again. Btch I blockd him.. I can't. We both got disappointed. 

I can think of a few bad situations. 

1. Met a super hot twunk bottom. When I went to fuck him I saw that he clearly had an open herpes sore on his asshole. Wtf? Why was he hooking up? Gently telling him that it wasn’t gonna happen did not go well.
2. Met a very masculine muscular guy who wanted to sit on my face. A couple of minutes into it I realized that I had bits of toilet paper in my mouth. 🤮 
3. Met a handsome dude who wanted to do a roleplay: straight guy getting serviced by a sub f*g. Great verbal. It was really hot, right up until the time that he slapped me in the face, and forgot to put down the poppers before doing so.  He hit bone, right in front of my temple. I literally saw stars, little flashes of light. There was swelling and a bad bruise on my face for over two weeks.  

Ok, so I'm not really a grindr user, probably only for less than a year now. I just started using it since when I moved here in the US. Finding hook ups is hard especially to an asian guy like me. And I'm the type of person who doesn't send face pic for two reasons: first, I'm paranoid about everything concerning privacy. Even if it's like an expiring photo or something. And second, I have a lot of body insecurities, from head to toe. 
So, finding somebody who would agree to meet up anonymously is like very rare. And I chatted with this one guy who seems to have a decent description in his profile and he's black. I've never had a BBC before so like my excitement is through the roof. My first rookie mistake that day was agreeing to meet up in his place and not mine. My thoughts are like, what if he's a scammer or thief that can rob me? Somethin like that. So he told me his address, and when I got there, it seems like your typical grandparent's house. When I saw him, he looks decent and like your typical bear body type. So when he saw me, he didn't say anything at all, he just signaled me to keep quiet and go straight upstairs. That means he lives in his parent's house.... And ok I entered the door, which btw is unhinged from the wall, and I saw this horrific dumpster like garbage everywhere. It seems like a college dorm room x10000 omg... He said sorry for all the mess and I was pretending to be ok. But it's like a huge turn off for me. Luckily when he undressed, that's when I saw his huge snake, like porn like dick. I'm afraid that I couldn't DT it. I'm a side btw. And it's directly posted in my profile that at most, I do everything except anal, receiving and especially giving. I discussed it with him prior, but still, black guy like him with that kind of dong, must have high hopes at the back of my mind. When I first sucked his dck, it had an unpleasant taste to it, but I kept thinking that I dreamed about trying a black dck before so I should just suck it up, literally. He said I should undress too so he could suck my dck, but I said it's really asian size, and I wasn't getting hard because of all the mess.. So when he saw it, he kinda got disappointed. My personality is, I'm a people pleaser, so when I saw his face, I just suddenly offered to do more kinky stuff like rimming him... So he turned around and he had a really huge ass, like you could really get suffocated. And yes, I tasted sh*t, and almost gagged.... Oh god, I said to him, can you maybe wash your down there for a bit.... So he went to the bathroom and when he got back and I continued rimming him, it still tastes like sht mixed with like an old spice cologne or something. Then I asked him, did you put something in there? And he said he used an old spice type of body wash..... Oh god, I just said to him, maybe you could turn around so I could continue sucking his dick.... Luckily, I think my mouth already got rid of all the musty odor and weird taste from his dck, so like back to a regular tasting dck. Yeah, then he probably got turned on by that so he started forcing me verbally to be anally fckd. It was like a good 15 mins before he gave up... I mean, even if I agree, hypothetically, to get drilled that day, a lot of messy stuff had already been done that was kinda of a turn off for me. So I went back to sucking his dck and him watching a porn in his phone, when all of a sudden, his phone rang, I think it was like the bank calling him and literally the girl on the other line said he had to pay like a negative balance or something from his credit card, which he declared missing. After the call ended, he started kissing me and asked if he could borrow some money for me... At this point I thought, I might get beaten up if I wouldn't give him any money. But I said, I just paid my bills and had sent money to my parents etc... He was asking as well if he could live in my place temporarily, which I said is impossible because I have a roommate... So he went back to concentrating on his porn and me getting him off. After that, he insisted to cuddle and started asking me again about borrowing some money, which at this point, I just made up some stories just so he could get the hint that I am not gonna lend him anything. When I went home, we just texted our good byes with each other and all that thank you stuff but like 3 days later, he texted if he could meet up again. Btch I blockd him.. I can't. We both got disappointed. 

Yeah sending your personal photo had something to do with it. Either he's not into you or something worse. Which shouldn't be the case because legit MTs shouldn't base accepting clients with their faces. That's what grindr is for... 🙄

Ok, so I'm not really a grindr user, probably only for less than a year now. I just started using it since when I moved here in the US. Finding hook ups is hard especially to an asian guy like me. And I'm the type of person who doesn't send face pic for two reasons: first, I'm paranoid about everything concerning privacy. Even if it's like an expiring photo or something. And second, I have a lot of body insecurities, from head to toe. 
So, finding somebody who would agree to meet up anonymously is like very rare. And I chatted with this one guy who seems to have a decent description in his profile and he's black. I've never had a BBC before so like my excitement is through the roof. My first rookie mistake that day was agreeing to meet up in his place and not mine. My thoughts are like, what if he's a scammer or thief that can rob me? Somethin like that. So he told me his address, and when I got there, it seems like your typical grandparent's house. When I saw him, he looks decent and like your typical bear body type. So when he saw me, he didn't say anything at all, he just signaled me to keep quiet and go straight upstairs. That means he lives in his parent's house.... And ok I entered the door, which btw is unhinged from the wall, and I saw this horrific dumpster like garbage everywhere. It seems like a college dorm room x10000 omg... He said sorry for all the mess and I was pretending to be ok. But it's like a huge turn off for me. Luckily when he undressed, that's when I saw his huge snake, like porn like dick. I'm afraid that I couldn't DT it. I'm a side btw. And it's directly posted in my profile that at most, I do everything except anal, receiving and especially giving. I discussed it with him prior, but still, black guy like him with that kind of dong, must have high hopes at the back of my mind. When I first sucked his dck, it had an unpleasant taste to it, but I kept thinking that I dreamed about trying a black dck before so I should just suck it up, literally. He said I should undress too so he could suck my dck, but I said it's really asian size, and I wasn't getting hard because of all the mess.. So when he saw it, he kinda got disappointed. My personality is, I'm a people pleaser, so when I saw his face, I just suddenly offered to do more kinky stuff like rimming him... So he turned around and he had a really huge ass, like you could really get suffocated. And yes, I tasted sh*t, and almost gagged.... Oh god, I said to him, can you maybe wash your down there for a bit.... So he went to the bathroom and when he got back and I continued rimming him, it still tastes like sht mixed with like an old spice cologne or something. Then I asked him, did you put something in there? And he said he used an old spice type of body wash..... Oh god, I just said to him, maybe you could turn around so I could continue sucking his dick.... Luckily, I think my mouth already got rid of all the musty odor and weird taste from his dck, so like back to a regular tasting dck. Yeah, then he probably got turned on by that so he started forcing me verbally to be anally fckd. It was like a good 15 mins before he gave up... I mean, even if I agree, hypothetically, to get drilled that day, a lot of messy stuff had already been done that was kinda of a turn off for me. So I went back to sucking his dck and him watching a porn in his phone, when all of a sudden, his phone rang, I think it was like the bank calling him and literally the girl on the other line said he had to pay like a negative balance or something from his credit card, which he declared missing. After the call ended, he started kissing me and asked if he could borrow some money for me... At this point I thought, I might get beaten up if I wouldn't give him any money. But I said, I just paid my bills and had sent money to my parents etc... He was asking as well if he could live in my place temporarily, which I said is impossible because I have a roommate... So he went back to concentrating on his porn and me getting him off. After that, he insisted to cuddle and started asking me again about borrowing some money, which at this point, I just made up some stories just so he could get the hint that I am not gonna lend him anything. When I went home, we just texted our good byes with each other and all that thank you stuff but like 3 days later, he texted if he could meet up again. Btch I blockd him.. I can't. We both got disappointed. 

It's a frequent theme, but many of us have had an appointment "cancel" due to the person we were to see deciding they liked someone they saw on Grindr more to their liking. It's a horror story that will only have an ending when Grindr ceases to exist. 
Oh, and about guys who ask to "borrow money", why don't they just ask to have some extra cash because they're running short? All in the approach. Answer is no, but it's all in the approach. 

Why is it always the least exceptional looking masseurs who are the ones screening clients for looks? If looks were important, I doubt he would accept himself as a client. To each their own, I suppose, but I find it ironic that the beautiful guys are accepting and these average looking providers have a laundry list of requirements.

Yeah sending your personal photo had something to do with it. Either he's not into you or something worse. Which shouldn't be the case because legit MTs shouldn't base accepting clients with their faces. That's what grindr is for... 🙄

Why is it so hard to find providers or masseurs or gay spas in NJ? I always end up travelling to manhattan just to find some male providers. Especially of you want to find something during night time. The closest open spas you can find are infested by female masseurs which are sketchy and at the same time, it feels like the police would stop by anytime for a raid 😂
 

Interesting think just happened. Caveat: I am admittedly not young nor a looker. However, I just checked into a hotel here in the middle of nowhere Ohio. Guy who checked me in was very nice and welcoming. He wrote his name on the envelope with my room card and told me to call him directly if I had any issues with my room or during my stay. I called the front desk to inquire about where the ice machine was located. He volunteered to bring me some to my room. I had just changed into my PJ's and had taken a much needed and raging piss when he knocks at the door. I go to answer, and have a noticeable wet stain that garners his attention. He brought in the ice and a couple bottles of water. I thanked him and turned to pull a couple bucks from my wallet for a tip. When I turn back around, he drops to his knees, pulls out my cock, and nose dives all the way to my pubes. He had serious skills and I didn't last long. After taking my load in short order, he stands, says have a good evening, and walks out the door. Great end to the day!

Last year, I was in DC for two nights every week, and I would stay at the same hotel. I had coffee delivered from room service early every morning. After the first few weeks, I noticed that it was often the same guy bringing it — Latino, 20s, shy. He was good-looking enough, but he wasn’t drop-dead gorgeous, and I didn’t think much of him the first couple of times I saw him.
 
I often stroke and edge a little in the morning. A couple of times, he saw that I was hard in my PJ bottoms, which I wore when I answered the door. And a couple of times, he seemed to linger for just a minute longer than he needed to.
 
About a month after the first time I saw him, he brought the coffee, headed to the door to leave, and paused. I was hard, with a visible wet spot from edging, which I had held my hands over to cover. I moved my hands, and he was staring at my bulge. I grabbed my bulge and rubbed it, and that was all it took. He came back into the middle of the room, dropped to his knees, and sucked my cock. I came in his mouth. He quickly stood up, I thanked him, and he left.
 
For the next few weeks, someone else brought coffee in the morning, and I thought he was embarrassed or something — until he showed up one morning at the door. Nothing happened that first time back, but every few weeks he’d deliver a BJ with my coffee. Part of what made it hot was not knowing if he was going to deliver the coffee, or if anything would happen.

I had a spontaneous, surprise encounter which a thick dicked bellhop in Greece once. While I was waiting for my room to be ready, he led me to an empty room, where he pushed me to my knees, pulled out his fat, dark
hooded cock, that had a faint smell of "cheese" and said "SUCK IT". Since it was Dairy day.... I did as he said !

Next time you stay in a hotel order room service and answer the door naked with a hard on. You'll either have fun or end up in police custody. Either way it will be an experience you can share with your friends.

Yeah, or an actual sensual massage as well. Back in my country they do, but here in the US, I barely hear anybody who provides edging, lingam session. 

Any provider who's offering budget friendly services? We can even skip the massage part, no need for that haha! NY/NJ located here. Hopefully somebody could reply 😅

Any provider who's offering budget friendly services? We can even skip the massage part, no need for that haha! NY/NJ located here. Hopefully somebody could reply 😅

Any provider who's offering budget friendly services? We can even skip the massage part, no need for that haha! NY/NJ located here. Hopefully somebody could reply 😅

You get what you pay for and quality is remembered long after price is forgotten. Hiring a provider is not like Walmart.

Any provider who's offering budget friendly services? We can even skip the massage part, no need for that haha! NY/NJ located here. Hopefully somebody could reply 😅

Any provider who's offering budget friendly services? We can even skip the massage part, no need for that haha! NY/NJ located here. Hopefully somebody could reply 😅

When Craig's List had m4m listings I did a bunch of cmnm scenes just by posting and looking for a naked muscle sub (when I was in the mood to be clothed) and offering myself as the naked sub otherwise. When naked I only did 1-2 clothed guys and both versions were super hot. Does anyone know of massage boards or sites that would work for those kinds of listings today?

My first ever "Erotic" massage was back in my country and it's so lame that it was a literal rub and tug situation. I was a late bloomer back then and still a virgin even though I was about to finish college. It was not my first sexual awakening, but I think it might be like the second time I was touched by a man so for me, it was an exciting and erotic experience. My sexual life back in high school and early years of college were only filled with gay porn and reading erotic stories/confessions and in one of those sites that I follow (almost similar format to this one) I've read about how it can be thrilling to have "happy endings" in massage parlors. Some would do the thing inside the massage place itself, some would do outcalls, but the most popular is that they would do it in some cheap motels (which can be found everywhere in my country). I tried to learn the SOPs of how can I have a successful erotic massage just from reading reviews and asking those people who have done it... In my hometown, every spa or massage parlor has masseurs or "providers" that are willing to do HE (actually in our country, it was called extra service or ES 🤣). 
So I tried my first ever massage at a place nearby and without any knowledge of who to pick but just the hopes of scoring a good one. They asked me if I'd pick a male or a female therapist and I said male.. The bombastic side eye that the receptionist made, at that time felt weird, and I didn't understand it at first but when I got used to like the massage parlor and escorting scene, I understand now how shady that means if you're reserving for a male masseur if you're a man as well (I mean at least back then in my hometown) so but I proceeded with the typical stuff. So when I was inside the room, I didn't really understand at first if I should be fully naked or keep my undies on. My virgin ass self back then kept my undies on and covered the towel in crotch area. I was laying on my back when the masseur came in and said to me I should face down and lie on my stomach. Maybe the masseur was thinking "what an amateur"... But then ok he positioned me and started doing my back. He didn't really concentrate on it that much and then he started massaging my ass cheeks down to thighs..I was so nervous that time that I think I asked him if it's necessary, but then he said "it might have oil stains" or what ever so ok I removed it like in the most virgin like manner that made him ask "is it your first time doing a massage?" so I just said yes actually.. And then he made some small talk asking where I live, or what I do etc... And then I noticed that he concentrated on doing my ass cheeks and inner thighs to almost like the most stimulating strokes that I had (at that time). His dong was definitely touching the sole of my feet which made me even horny. So I think when I laid on my back, I already have like a slight hard on as to which he was just smirking... That's when he started to position at the head of my bed with his dong positioned on top of my head. He first did the head massage and proceeded with the chest massage... It was the first nipple play or stimulation that I had... It was the first time that I had it and I almost came with that alone. But that's when the negotiation began. So idk here but in my country, some  "providers" base their rate on the "services" that they will provide. Since I'm a newbie at that time and haven't even had any "oral" experience, I settle with having a mutual HJ in which the therapists in my hometown always call "lingam" even though it wasn't legit. But after the negotiations, he did what was asked and I came with several shots fired (I always c*m a lot idk why) but at that time, it was the most stimulating and most orgasmic unloading that I had (probably because of the mood and first time doing it in a massage place) as they say, you will never forget your first time 🤣 Ironically, this massage parlor is beside a church. 
That's the first ever erotic massage that I've had that made me a massage or maybe an HE addict.... And I've had a lot of massage/spa sexual encounters that will always be memorable to me 😂 I actually wanna share some but I don't know if there is a thread for that... 

I've been eyeing this one location in downtown Manhattan for a long time as there are none closer to me. The price was great and I was told that you're guaranteed a happy ending. Online reviews showed pictures and the location didn't look too sketchy.
I finally had plans in the city and went in extra early to check this place out yesterday! It was rainy and a bit miserable, but my body was aching and I definitely could use a release. I really had to check it out for myself.
It was a small little store front by a ton of other restaurants and cafes, I almost missed it. When I entered in, it wasn't busy at all for a Friday afternoon. The greeter asked me if I had a reservation, but I had none. He quickly checked to see if there was availability and there was!
He led me through the back and down the spiral stairs. As you descend the stairs, there's a picture of a muscular torso grabbing his crotch through his underwear... what a great sign! He led me to the first room partition and told me to get undressed and lay face down. I stripped totally naked and laid face down, adjusting my cock to be sticking out underneath between my legs and waited. A few minutes later, a man came in and to my disappointment, covered my whole body with a towel and a smaller towel over my head, the lights kept on. He began massaging me through the towel which got me questioning if this would be more of the professional massage or erotic. Some good signs were that he almost straddled his crotch above my head as he massaged my upper and lower back. He wasn't hard, but I almost wanted to reach my head or hands up and feel him up.
Every time he massaged my ass area, my cock would twinge. The towel would expose a little more but he would adjust the towel to cover me up. However, about 15 minutes into the massage, he folded the towel and exposed my back and butt. Finally, he got the massage oils and lathered my whole back and buttocks, quite sensually, with it.
While he massaged my hamstrings, he stayed more towards the outside of my leg but slowly and surely, he worked his way into my buttocks. I actually needed a massage so it felt really good. But knowing that he would probably end up giving me a handjob, made my dick continue to tingle. Soon enough, he was grazing my inner thigh along my cock. I'm relatively big, so he would massage my inner thigh but also touch my perineum and my cock as it was semi-hard.
25 minutes in, right after working on my inner thighs and ass, he asked me if everything was okay and if I wanted a longer session, so I asked for the 60 min massage. Once he heard that, he actually left the room and grabbed some hot stones to massage my back.
He continued to massage me but now, he was tickling and fondling my balls gently. This made me writhe with pleasure and my cock was definitely hard. At this point, I was 100% certain that I'd get the release I needed.
Around 40-45 minutes in, he turned off the lights and told me to turn over. My cock was erect and sticking up as I turned over. He was a bald Asian man wearing a mask, so I couldn't see his face. He lathered his hand and fondled my cock gently before stroking it with one hand. I spread my legs in excitement. After a few minutes, he put both hands on and went at it. He was bent over, and almost looked like he wanted to suck my cock but couldn't because of his mask. Soon enough, I was about to erupt, and almost wanted to tell him to stop so I could last a bit longer. But he vigorously pleasured my cock and I blasted several good spurts out, shooting to my shoulder and even past my ear.
He got a warm hot towel and wiped me down and gently patted my cock off with some paper towels. He covered me with a towel so I wouldn't get cold and went on to massage my face for a bit and then my lower legs.
At the 60 minute mark, he immediately stopped and said we were finished. I got dressed, peed, paid with a 15-20% tip, and left.
tl;dr the massage was slightly above average 6-7/10 but the HE was 10/10.

He really is good. 
 
In the past 2 months, I’ve learned to appreciate the meaning of YMMV. As a birthday treat, I had a massage from a well-recommended masseur and it was ‘meh’ at best. 🤷‍♂️ I left feeling like I had wasted my time and money and I couldn’t put my finger on where it went wrong  
However, tonight was different with TantricShaman. There was a great connection and I left feeling amazing. You have to go in with an open mind and embrace how different the experience is. I did and it was very satisfing.
 
I will repeat.   

My first ever "Erotic" massage was back in my country and it's so lame that it was a literal rub and tug situation. I was a late bloomer back then and still a virgin even though I was about to finish college. It was not my first sexual awakening, but I think it might be like the second time I was touched by a man so for me, it was an exciting and erotic experience. My sexual life back in high school and early years of college were only filled with gay porn and reading erotic stories/confessions and in one of those sites that I follow (almost similar format to this one) I've read about how it can be thrilling to have "happy endings" in massage parlors. Some would do the thing inside the massage place itself, some would do outcalls, but the most popular is that they would do it in some cheap motels (which can be found everywhere in my country). I tried to learn the SOPs of how can I have a successful erotic massage just from reading reviews and asking those people who have done it... In my hometown, every spa or massage parlor has masseurs or "providers" that are willing to do HE (actually in our country, it was called extra service or ES 🤣). 
So I tried my first ever massage at a place nearby and without any knowledge of who to pick but just the hopes of scoring a good one. They asked me if I'd pick a male or a female therapist and I said male.. The bombastic side eye that the receptionist made, at that time felt weird, and I didn't understand it at first but when I got used to like the massage parlor and escorting scene, I understand now how shady that means if you're reserving for a male masseur if you're a man as well (I mean at least back then in my hometown) so but I proceeded with the typical stuff. So when I was inside the room, I didn't really understand at first if I should be fully naked or keep my undies on. My virgin ass self back then kept my undies on and covered the towel in crotch area. I was laying on my back when the masseur came in and said to me I should face down and lie on my stomach. Maybe the masseur was thinking "what an amateur"... But then ok he positioned me and started doing my back. He didn't really concentrate on it that much and then he started massaging my ass cheeks down to thighs..I was so nervous that time that I think I asked him if it's necessary, but then he said "it might have oil stains" or what ever so ok I removed it like in the most virgin like manner that made him ask "is it your first time doing a massage?" so I just said yes actually.. And then he made some small talk asking where I live, or what I do etc... And then I noticed that he concentrated on doing my ass cheeks and inner thighs to almost like the most stimulating strokes that I had (at that time). His dong was definitely touching the sole of my feet which made me even horny. So I think when I laid on my back, I already have like a slight hard on as to which he was just smirking... That's when he started to position at the head of my bed with his dong positioned on top of my head. He first did the head massage and proceeded with the chest massage... It was the first nipple play or stimulation that I had... It was the first time that I had it and I almost came with that alone. But that's when the negotiation began. So idk here but in my country, some  "providers" base their rate on the "services" that they will provide. Since I'm a newbie at that time and haven't even had any "oral" experience, I settle with having a mutual HJ in which the therapists in my hometown always call "lingam" even though it wasn't legit. But after the negotiations, he did what was asked and I came with several shots fired (I always c*m a lot idk why) but at that time, it was the most stimulating and most orgasmic unloading that I had (probably because of the mood and first time doing it in a massage place) as they say, you will never forget your first time 🤣 Ironically, this massage parlor is beside a church. 
That's the first ever erotic massage that I've had that made me a massage or maybe an HE addict.... And I've had a lot of massage/spa sexual encounters that will always be memorable to me 😂 I actually wanna share some but I don't know if there is a thread for that...