cmennow

I think to each his own. I engage because I am looking for a certain type of man. It takes the frustration out of "searching and dating" I can skp across the madness and get right down to business. I don't have to play games with guys that are not who they say they are (aside from the catfish games that come with this). I have one confidant that I can share the ups and downs of it with and that works for me.

I think to each his own. I engage because I am looking for a certain type of man. It takes the frustration out of "searching and dating" I can skp across the madness and get right down to business. I don't have to play games with guys that are not who they say they are (aside from the catfish games that come with this). I have one confidant that I can share the ups and downs of it with and that works for me.

I don't tip (other than maybe leaving an extra $10 because I only had 20s or something). Provider rates are high enough that I assume tipping is not expected or customary.

I mean if you're paying thousands of dollars for one night then is a tip really necessary? Just hand over $3,000 lol.

I'm next!

I'm next!

A guy who can swallow down my entire load without spilling or gagging earns major respect.

If I suck I swallow

Depending on the guy, but YES!!! ?

I've known a guy for several years and have known him by the name he told me and advertises as. I've called the name out in the heat of passion on many occasions. Well with the advancement of technology, I recently paid him via CashApp instead of in cash and there was his real name. Mind you I am talking atleast 5 or more years under his pseudo name and even though I knew in my gut that wasn't his real name, I forgot about that aspect years ago. When his real name came up on the app, I showed him to confirm that I was sending money to the right person. He confirmed and then said, now you know my real name LOL. I still call him by his pseudo name during the heat of the moment cause I like that name better LMAO.

I've known a guy for several years and have known him by the name he told me and advertises as. I've called the name out in the heat of passion on many occasions. Well with the advancement of technology, I recently paid him via CashApp instead of in cash and there was his real name. Mind you I am talking atleast 5 or more years under his pseudo name and even though I knew in my gut that wasn't his real name, I forgot about that aspect years ago. When his real name came up on the app, I showed him to confirm that I was sending money to the right person. He confirmed and then said, now you know my real name LOL. I still call him by his pseudo name during the heat of the moment cause I like that name better LMAO.

several years ago during a first meet with a popular provider, I asked if he'd been tested lately because he'd done some bareback video work a couple years earlier (and there'd been some chatter around).....despite it being a first meet, he instantly pulled out a recent testing results sheet with his real full name on it and showed it to me......
 
as discussed upthread, a level of trust is established at some point......I much prefer chatty, kick-back, good-buddy meets and, once a provider realizes I'm a nice guy and not an ax-murderer, I presume they're more comfortable with opening up a bit and I'm grateful that we can hang out and chat using real names......

Getting stood up is a common occurrence, as everyone on here knows. Last year I set up a threesome in Indy and one dude had already shown up. The other dude texted me, 15 minutes before our appointment that he was "one the way." Then 5 minutes before our meeting he texted "turning onto your street." That was the last we heard from him. He contacted me a couple of weeks later wanting another chance. When I asked him what happened last time he came up with some lame excuse or another. He was hot enough to tempt me into another appointment, but nope, it's the principle of the matter.

depends on the mood....occasionally underwear, nude, pajamas

stay far away from this flake who delights in taking the term to new heights. called him up for an outcall. he said a quick shower then he'd give me his eta.
 
an hour later, says he ready and heading out but gives no eta. 25 mins later he"s trying to find viagra cuz he smoked & cant get hard. then he finds some.
 
i ask him his eta. 10 min later he says 15-20. 10 min. later apologizes for being late. 20 min after that he says he's on his way. i called him up to ask his eta (nope) so i asked where he was so i could figure out how long, he got belligerent, talking nonsense, putting on an act, said he was turing around. (it was clear to me, he was playing games from the start, enjoying it no less.)
 
i said thanks for wasting my time. later he calls me a fucking weirdo and he's gonna add my number to the blacklist.
he's just starting out.
 
i let him know i was going to post this warning & let him read it. he said he didnt care. and there you have it.
 
he, like others, just don"t care what they do, wasting people's time, people who have far less of it than they do, even enjoying it, committing crimes against others who do them no harm, no respect for others, no respect for themselves.

$400

A good escort knows how to sell the fantasy. But usually, it remains just a fantasy.

As you can tell, this is fairly common. Every hobby has a dark side and this is it for us.
1) Disengaging is important. You may feel like you are “dating” but you are not. Don’t keep texting the guy. Don’t meet with him in person to “break up”.
2) If he keeps texting you (why wouldn’t he - you are a paying client) be respectful but clear: I have other commitments and cannot see you. That is not a lie - your commitment is to yourself and your own mental wellbeing. Get your priorities straight.
3) Make it stick. It is not a negotiation. Be polite but resolute. Even if it breaks your heart and wants to make you cry.
Block his number if you have to.
4) Learn from the experience. Professionals (doctors, lawyers, auditors) all learn how to grow a thicker skin and to maintain an emotional distance. You can do that too.
 
My comments probably make me sound like a heartless person. I assure you that is not the case. I care for many of the guys I have met. Experience is the hardest teacher... Good luck! ?

Been there done that. I fell hard for him while I was married. Was ready to leave my husband. We made a move in plan. I changed my mind and decided to reconcile with my husband. 4 days later the escort died tragically. Have you ever had to mourn your lover in front of your husband? AWKWARD!!!!!

Cut bait and run.
 
This hobby can be fun, but like all fun things there is a dark side.
Keeping a healthy perspective can be difficult and kudos to you
for realizing that you may be in over your head. If he’s a true professional
he’ll understand and help you depart gracefully with your dignity intact.
 
Although I have occasionally developed strong feelings, I’ve never fallen
in love with an escort. If I ever did realize I was starting to develop deeper
feelings I would disclose that to the escort and then stop seeing them.
 
Its hard to do, but like ripping off a bandaid, it’s less painful in the long run.

No, we did this partially.
https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/saludo-del-pu%C3%B1o-41687923.jpg
 
But I was cautious too. After he left I used sanitizer.

cmen... you are right on point man! if the two guys above were from my town or stated "can you get together with me in a few hours? so far you are the only one i have scheduled today" i would have raced to the atm and flew right over! i have actually had that happen with a few "out of towners". were they telling the truth? who knows. who cares. their "performance" was spot on, my needs were totally met and if they had none or 200 clients that day after me i could care less!

After reading the full ad....I was exhausted from all the demands. When I get my strength back I will look at someone else LOL

After reading the full ad....I was exhausted from all the demands. When I get my strength back I will look at someone else LOL

After reading the full ad....I was exhausted from all the demands. When I get my strength back I will look at someone else LOL