aiseeya
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aiseeya reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Condom and bareback discrepancy
He may have been on Prep to stop HIV, but wanted to limit his chances of catching gonorrhea in his penis from the bacteria in a man's ass. Catching gonorrhea in the ass or throat is often asymptomatic, but it is painful to catch in the penis.
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aiseeya got a reaction from rentier in 411 Jasooon and Italian_Brothers
Any recent info please, thanks.
They seem to be couple.
https://rent.men/Jasooon
https://rent.men/ITALIAN_BROTHERS
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aiseeya got a reaction from Fridolf in Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?
Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after.
There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies. This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy.
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aiseeya reacted to maninsoma in Debating whether to ask provider
So you want for free what he gave you in the context of a paid session? Sure, you can ask, but maybe the answer will be no and the guy will be so put off that you won't be able to hire him again, either.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in OnlyFans Question
Text with OF (web): 99.99% bot/ handler
Text with provider (mobile): 99.99% provider himself
Both: 99.99% marketing sweet talk to fish more $$$ out of you. They be talking to more than 5 'you' at the same time. As one provider said in front of me once (about one of his clients who text him daily outside of business hours talking bout mundane stuff): 'i am working 24/7 even when i not with him (client)' - whilst responding to his text and complaining at the same time.
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aiseeya got a reaction from Cbilly17 in OnlyFans Question
Text with OF (web): 99.99% bot/ handler
Text with provider (mobile): 99.99% provider himself
Both: 99.99% marketing sweet talk to fish more $$$ out of you. They be talking to more than 5 'you' at the same time. As one provider said in front of me once (about one of his clients who text him daily outside of business hours talking bout mundane stuff): 'i am working 24/7 even when i not with him (client)' - whilst responding to his text and complaining at the same time.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in harassment or curiosity? Wanting a traveler to return.
They either geniunely not interested to return (for whatsoever reasons) or they be playing marketing game to get you fly them out. Its business on its core. Its all depends on $$$ you can offer. None of them willing to spend time with clients for nothing. Offer to fly them out, see how easily you can get them muscular sexy guys coming to you.
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aiseeya got a reaction from rvwnsd in Charging for escorts
Had my fair share of 3s. There are numerous ways to go about this but in principle both providers will be compensated. How tht go about, all depends on the arrangement. I havent personally seen provider charging each other for 3s though. Its more of whether they are a good fit or not.
Beware, IMO, 3s is often better in your imagination.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Charging for escorts
Had my fair share of 3s. There are numerous ways to go about this but in principle both providers will be compensated. How tht go about, all depends on the arrangement. I havent personally seen provider charging each other for 3s though. Its more of whether they are a good fit or not.
Beware, IMO, 3s is often better in your imagination.
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aiseeya reacted to + JamesB in Charging for escorts
Well, if you don’t care for a thread, feel free to skip it. As far as I know, there’s no rule saying you have to read every thread.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in 411 on Luan Bellini
Met him for a 3s, nonetheless, echoing above.
He was quick to text my regular (after the 3s session) seeking 'help with accomodation' LOL
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aiseeya got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in 411 on Luan Bellini
Met him in Melb. Stunning to look at but I personally wouldnt see him again.
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aiseeya got a reaction from JB_Studio38 in Providers blocking clients
Anyone calling calling himself 'LUXURY' escort is .........
One can market his rate as premium or higher end of the market. But 'LUXURY'..... I can feel their diva energy radiating from afar. I am probably too dirt poor to pay anw.
That said, never been blocked by a provider just bcs 'its tacky to ask for a price/rate'. Its a business transaction, everyone asks. The actual $$$ itself might affect ppl differently, but one would surely ask someway or another.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Providers blocking clients
Anyone calling calling himself 'LUXURY' escort is .........
One can market his rate as premium or higher end of the market. But 'LUXURY'..... I can feel their diva energy radiating from afar. I am probably too dirt poor to pay anw.
That said, never been blocked by a provider just bcs 'its tacky to ask for a price/rate'. Its a business transaction, everyone asks. The actual $$$ itself might affect ppl differently, but one would surely ask someway or another.
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aiseeya got a reaction from ericwinters in Providers blocking clients
Anyone calling calling himself 'LUXURY' escort is .........
One can market his rate as premium or higher end of the market. But 'LUXURY'..... I can feel their diva energy radiating from afar. I am probably too dirt poor to pay anw.
That said, never been blocked by a provider just bcs 'its tacky to ask for a price/rate'. Its a business transaction, everyone asks. The actual $$$ itself might affect ppl differently, but one would surely ask someway or another.
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aiseeya reacted to pubic_assistance in Providers blocking clients
I work in a luxury industry with very wealthy people.
The first thing they ask after you show them something they want is - HOW MUCH ?
One of my clients is a high end private jeweler. He shows a customer a piece of jewelry, describes it's provenance, and construction and the client asks HOW MUCH ?
You're not living in rhe real world if you think asking the price is "tacky".
The only time wealthy people don't ask is when they know the price is so inconsequential that they don't need to ask. (How much more is the burger if I get it with cheese )?
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aiseeya got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Overnight with an escort
Overnight with my regular always mean start from early evening till next morning after breakfast. But ultimately i reckon practice differs each provider. And also what $$ they charge.
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aiseeya reacted to wanderlust307 in So I was fired as a client today
I think you overthink 😅
By the way, for your pain, go see an orthopedic surgeon or a physiotherapist. Not a masseur/escort who can potentially do more harm than good.
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aiseeya got a reaction from Greg_blond in Hiring in UAE — Dubai and Abu Dhabi
Funny how this post went from 'how to' straight to 'try me!'.
Fact is many many providers visit Dubai to make $$$$. Spoke to some travelling providers i met on this topic, they all agree Dubai is the place to make big bucks - high hourly rate, rich clients (though not the easiest bunch to satisfy).
Echoing sentiment certain westerners seem to look at rich muslim/ asian countries from dated glasses.
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aiseeya got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Hiring in UAE — Dubai and Abu Dhabi
Funny how this post went from 'how to' straight to 'try me!'.
Fact is many many providers visit Dubai to make $$$$. Spoke to some travelling providers i met on this topic, they all agree Dubai is the place to make big bucks - high hourly rate, rich clients (though not the easiest bunch to satisfy).
Echoing sentiment certain westerners seem to look at rich muslim/ asian countries from dated glasses.
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aiseeya reacted to jackcali in Do I need to worry that cash is on it's way out?
While I realize this site is focused on escorts and masseurs, keep in mind that the cash-based market for services is huge -- think housekeepers, nannies, gardeners, laborers, etc. They are mostly paid in cash. Cash payments let undocumented immigrants stay off the grid and allows all service providers to avoid paying taxes. Also, a purchaser of services above a threshold amount from a provider ($5,000 per year this year, I think) has an obligation to make a filing with the IRS identifying the provider and disclosing the total of payments to them, so undocumented cash payments may be advantageous to the purchaser as well. So, the next time an escort asks you for payment by Venmo, tell them that's fine but you need their Social Security number and you'll withhold 20% of the fee so you can pay it to the IRS. I'm guessing the escort will suddenly realize that accepting payment in cash isn't such a burden.
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aiseeya got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Do I need to worry that cash is on it's way out?
Bank transfer for trusted regulars (especially if in substantial amounts), cash anyone else.
In some 3s occasions, my regular would front me (ie pay cash to the 3rd provider) and i pay him back (together with his portion) via bank transfer.
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aiseeya got a reaction from + Pensant in Do I need to worry that cash is on it's way out?
Bank transfer for trusted regulars (especially if in substantial amounts), cash anyone else.
In some 3s occasions, my regular would front me (ie pay cash to the 3rd provider) and i pay him back (together with his portion) via bank transfer.
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aiseeya got a reaction from Kris_Canada in first time experience disappointment - looking for honest feedback
My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted.
Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.
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aiseeya reacted to Monarchy79 in Providers blocking clients
If someone blocks you (on any site or social platform), accept that and move on. The person wants nothing to do with you and they have that right.
Just like you have the right to block people when the tables are turned.