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I'm with @DznNYC and @Rod Hagen on this one, I don't charge extra for couples. My fee is for my time, whether it's one, two, or more guys. In fairness, navigating a couple takes some special attention, as you don't want one to feel left out. But that's also part of the fun, making sure everyone is having a good time.

@RadioRob your efforts are heroic! Many thanks for all you do.

Gays usually call it a three-way, whereas straights call it a threesome. 😛

Welcome back to the game, and to Company of Men! I'm not aware of any escorting sites that specialize in kinky providers. There's sites and apps like Fetlife and Recon, but those are more for networking and hookups. Not sure how escorting would work there. At least in the US, Rentmen is the only real show in town. But it's totally fine to present yourself as a kinky provider. I see listings all the time where both the photos and description indicate interest and specialization in kink.

This place looks awesome. I don’t know anything about it but I want to plan a trip to check it out!

My hubby and I are wanting to go to Mexico City for the first time. Any recommendations for where to stay, as well as bars and restaurants? I read this thread from 2022 which had some good suggestions, particularly from @BenjaminNicholas. Anything new to add in 2025? And is October an OK time to visit, or would a different time of year be better?

Along with @italianboyph I'll confirm from the provider side that asking for foot play is not unusual at all. Yes it's fun! I really enjoy it and am happy whenever a guy proposes it.

The article implies that one of the intentions (or at least outcomes) of the Nordic model has been to stigmatize the purchasing of sex, so that an opinion develops that prostitution is never justifiable. So the graph is interesting because it indicates Swedish opinion becoming more critical of prostitution (consistent with the Nordic model), while other places have been going in the opposite direction. The article is skeptical of the Nordic model, however… among its observations is that the vast majority of Swedish men who do pay for sex, do it abroad.

I found the graph indicating percentage of survey respondents agreeing with the statement “prostitution is never justifiable” interesting: Though the US percentage is higher than others, it’s declined 20 points between 1998 and 2022.

Yeah, I felt dirty just looking at the pics!

Thanks for sharing. Really interesting. And the “Danny Dutch” site looks like it’s got all kinds of good stuff, especially for history buffs.

Damn, that’s some skillful copywriting! You could offer it as a side hustle of your own… 😀

Yep it’s $48 per day for either east or west USA. $12 for Canada, $10 for Mexico and Central America. The part that’s weird is the slots are almost never available. Right now west coast is booked up for the next two months, and east coast only has one slot available in July. So I’m not sure how or why the same guys keep cycling through. Maybe they know when the new slots become available and jump in. I’ve done it a few times, and the page views rise significantly during that 24-hour period. Also even though I buy the west coast slots, I get a lot of views from all over the US as well as abroad. I think this can be useful in particular for guys who travel, as it builds awareness of their profile, so that when they travel people will remember them from before. Or they may get invites to travel to a particular city. At least that’s how the thinking goes!

I found it to be an odd article, and I too found myself asking if there is an equivalent in the gay community. I don't think there is. Do guys try to present themselves as having escorted, when they haven't? Doesn't seem like it. Maybe it's different for guys who've done stripping. The only example I can think of is Channing Tatum, who has made an identity for himself based on his past experience as a stripper. But I can't think of any others.

I’m with you on this. What kind of asshole provider asks a client for a picture in the first place? I guess it’s more common than I’d thought, but seems really unprofessional. @viewing ownly I’m sorry this happened to you. I’ve met you socially and you’re a nice looking guy. The ghosting says more about the provider than it does anything about you.