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I know two of my clients know each other, after having messaged each other about me. From what I know they have become occasional FBs with each other. There have been some efforts to set up a 3-way with all three of us but so far the stars have not aligned for that.

The vast majority of my clients are in their 50s and 60s, followed by a few in their 70s and 80s. None under 40, and maybe only one or two under 50.

I've been watching that show too (DTF St Louis) and took note of that line - particularly because print media was always my favorite form of porn, and in a way it still is. I think most guys prefer video or cam, but I still like the still images. When I was a teenager, and into my college years, I rented a post office box so I could subscribe to Playgirl and receive my issues there. This became more comical once I lived alone, but I was still afraid to have the issues arrive at my apartment. What if someone saw my mail?!? Now it all seems so ridiculous, but that was me then. There was a thrill to visiting the post office box in those days. I'd open up the little door, and my heart would beat with excitement if I saw the magazine curled up in the box (I suppose my dick beat a bit with excitement too). Now with the internet, everything is available instantly, so that anticipation and excitement just isn't there.

Count me in! I’ll send a PM as well. Thanks for considering doing this! 😎

I'm truly versatile, in that I enjoy both topping and bottoming equally. I really love flip-fucking. So for years, I'd listed Versatile in my RM profile, and made a point of mentioning that I'm truly vers and love both. However, the vast majority of clients want me to top (no complaints there!), so a year or so ago I switched to Vers/Top on my profile. This has more to do with client expectations and desires than what my real preference is, and from what I'm reading here it sounds like other guys have done similar. Comes down to finding a niche and giving the customer what they want.

RAFI! 🤣

I'd recently let my RM profile expire. In my case it was that I'm needing to focus on some other non-escort stuff so needed to take a step back from the escort work. It was just becoming a bit hard to manage everything. I have regular guys who I will continue to see regardless of whether the RM ad is active or not. Just speaking for myself, but this kind of situation might be the same with others who have let their ads expire - maybe they're focusing on other things. It could also be an indication that the guy is transitioning out of the business, or is taking some time off.

I suggest using Dayuse: https://www.dayuse.com/ You can also download an app and book through the app. You book for a block of time during the day or into the evening, but not overnight.

If he’s only showing his face pics in his private gallery, I’d suggest not posting those. He made a decision to restrict access to those, so that should be respected. But a screenshot of one of his public gallery pics would be ok.

@PetetKsfo did a great job of explaining this. There is a option to set "Availability" and "Not Available" is a setting that the guy can toggle. The default is "Not Set." Here's what it looks like: If the guy chooses "Available" or "Not Available" he then needs to specify a timeframe, anywhere from one hour to one week: So as Pete mentions, setting "Not Available" would indicate the guy is not available right this moment, but is otherwise available at other times. It's a more short-term option, compared to freezing or hiding the listing which would indicate a longer-term absence or limitation.

No, you can attend all of the festivities regardless of where you’re staying. You just can’t visit InnDulge unless visiting a guest who’s staying there. Each year a bunch of guys end up staying at InnDulge but it’s not an “official” venue for the weekend.

I’m not offended, as I’m sure others would think the same thing. But why do you consider it sad? I’ll add that I still escort because I enjoy it. It’s a choice.

As an older provider in my 50s, the majority of my new clients are very close to my age. I think that’s what they’re looking for, someone more like a peer or buddy. It’s a different dynamic than when I was younger and wet around the ears.

I’d thought of Cowboys and Angels too, but yes it’s oriented to women. Too bad, there are some hot guys there…

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