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I concur without qualification.
 

Btw, I only posted te above because he just texted me to say he’s currently in Puerta Vallarta, so if you’re there check him out!

I’ve seen him many times, in nyc & Paris. He’s classically handsome, has a great body and is very sexy. Completely vers. A real gentleman.

Based on what you've written here, the date/time hasn't occurred yet. Therefore, the escort hasn't had the opportunity to either a) honor the playdate and give you a good time or b) cancel or flake on you. This might not be easy, but my suggestion is to avoid projecting the bad experience you had with a prior escort onto this escort. 

So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  

Why should it matter or concern you, as long as the provider delivers the desired experience you are looking for?

This is between a man and his own penis.  
 
Full stop.  

Would you rather have a provider show up with a limp dick? As long as it's hard that's all that matters.

Maybe OP wants to feel loved. “He can get hard with me naturally, no need for help.” 😂 
I strongly prefer that any top I’m with use ED drugs. The difference between mostly hard and 100% rock hard is like night and day, in terms of how it feels for the bottom. 

Outfit looks too "American Horror Story" to me.

ChrisOfLondon is good if you get to meet him, but difficult to make arrangements with and unreliable once they're made. Likely to cancel at the last minute, although he's good about paying back the deposit. I'd advise a backup plan if you do decide to go for it.

I don’t look at client profiles. I just don’t find it necessary because the client usually tells me what I need to know when they book. I’m not bothered by what they look like either so I don’t need a picture. 
I think that sometimes clients don’t fully understand what they like so they’re unlikely to put it in their profile (or they’ll be shy about stating it in their profile) so this is why I’m not taking much notice of profiles. 
In my experience what happens is they find out what they like through a series of sessions with you. You introduce them to things they weren’t previously aware of. Thats why they’re coming to a professional: to be taken on a journey they’d probably not take on their own. So whilst I like to know a little about my client I don’t want to know a lot. 
However, I do keep notes of what clients like so that if they come back I know what works for them and it makes a better session. That’s the best thing to do: explore with them and pay attention to what they like so you can recreate it next session, but keeping things fresh with small tweaks and surprises. I think a good mix is 80% familiar tried and tested content and 20% new or different things. 
 

I’d rather not know, tbh. I wouldn’t mention it.
At best, it’s neutral (for me it would be). At worst, you start off giving a negative impression to the provider.
A hire is a hire. Your money is as good as anyone else’s. Whether I’m someone’s first choice or their 8th, I want their business and I’m going to do my best to make their time with me worthwhile regardless.

I would say the same

Probably best to limit this to pictures on David's public profile, especially if he is sensitive about discretion and privacy.

If he can be difficult once, he can do it again to another person. 
Our time is valuable too.   
Please reconsider and name the individual.
 

This. Plain and simple. 

What's the point of this post if you're not going to name names?

Best to cancel. If you don’t feel well you won’t enjoy the massage, especially if you have a temperature. I don’t mind clients cancelling if they’re unwell. 

may have mentioned this before but I had a client turn up one time with broken ribs. How he expected me to massage him I don’t know…(he did say “can you just do my bottom half…so actually perhaps I do know what he wanted 😂). I had to send him away to come back when he’s better. Apart from anything else I don’t want to injure him or make things worse.
 

a providers personal life is private - very rude to ask questions that aren’t relevant to the appointment.  
I’d say if a client asks an out-of-bounds question, then no obligation to be truthful 

I have the opposite experience.
I have had a few hook ups with couples. In both instances I was turned OFF when they started making-out with each other.
When I hire I want to be the center of attention, not be witness to someone else's romantic connection.
 
 

I just say ‘I’m single’ if asked. I think you probably thought too much about his question. I mean isn’t a lot of what we do point a) in your post above? We create a fantasy and a fantasy is about suspending the truth or reality for a period. No harm in it. 
Perhaps by responding with “I’ll be whatever you want me to be” was a bit too much ‘letting of light in upon magic’? Maybe that’s why he got upset. I think you can be whoever he wants you to be to the limit of your willingness to do it (that is part of the job) but making it explicit like that ruins the fantasy. 

The guy who first seduced me into my first experience topping ("I need help with my computer") had Sade's Diamond Life playing when I showed up to his dorm room. I think this is an improvement from Cindi Lauper? 🤷‍♂️

I’ve had “providers” never respond. Neither on RM or by text. Makes me wonder how you’re ever supposed to make an appointment!
Gymnastkid of Long Island is especially notorious for this. 

I had a really frustrating scenario on my last trip to Vegas.  I found Casey Everett's profile and reached out a few weeks before my trip to see if something could be set up.  He was really nice and accommodating even confirming the day before our meeting.  Then on the day of, no response and he no shows me.  I sent him a short message basically saying I thought it was not cool to no show and not even let me know he could not make it.  He then blocked me.  I guess he has enough money because if we hit it off, that could have been 4 visits a year toward his income.