Keenan

I'm absolutely more likely to engage a provider 40+ 
If desperate, 35 is the absolute youngest. I like men, not boys. There are any number of reasons - the same that I do not seek social relationships with young gay men. Communication styles demand a learning curve from both of us. 
I loved having a long career working alongside performers (and other artists) aged 14- 90, and will gladly hang out with my niece and nephews 20-30's.
On my dime, it's adults only. 
 
 
 

It depends on the provider.  Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym.  Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients.  Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

It depends on the provider.  Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym.  Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients.  Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

If it's a mutual like then the provider might see it differently but at times the like is more "one-sided".  By that I mean the client feels something while the provider doesn't.  It's part of the job of the provider to make each client feel special.  If it's something that you'd expect that the provider doesn't charge their regular rate then before arranging something make sure you talk with the provider and make that known.  The provider could be fine with it or want to keep it strictly business, meaning they still charge the rate for their time.  It shouldn't be off-putting rather it gives you the answer you are looking for, move onto the next provider.

I would offer this counter point - your time is most valuable when it it fully booked.
if you’re fully booked to the capacity you want to make available, then the math validates what you’ve said…you’re at maximum capacity and you should even consider raising your prices   
but, if your time is not fully booked, then the question is a) do you want to make $x/hr or b) do you want to make more money?     If you have available time, you make MORE money by discounting unbooked time and making something rather than nothing.   It doesn’t cheapen the value of your time, it maximizes your income as long as it doesn’t take you away from something else.
Social time is not exhausting like physical activities and can be fun too.   I have one provider who charges social time at half the normal rate and it works great for both of us. 

If it's a mutual like then the provider might see it differently but at times the like is more "one-sided".  By that I mean the client feels something while the provider doesn't.  It's part of the job of the provider to make each client feel special.  If it's something that you'd expect that the provider doesn't charge their regular rate then before arranging something make sure you talk with the provider and make that known.  The provider could be fine with it or want to keep it strictly business, meaning they still charge the rate for their time.  It shouldn't be off-putting rather it gives you the answer you are looking for, move onto the next provider.

As a provider I'm being paid for my time whether it's going to get dinner with the client or spend time in the bedroom.  As a result I would charge my regular rate either way.  If it's a regular customer and depending on how frequently there might be times when I give a discount here and there but in general I charge for my time and whatever happens during that time.

As a client, I always expect to pay the provider’s asked rate, whether we are going out to dinner or just cuddling or fucking. I cover all expenses for the time also. 
 
As a consultant, I charge by the hour, no matter if I’m just sitting in a meeting or building an app. I’m getting paid for my time and my expertise. I see no difference between my situation and providers. 
 
 

For me typically anything past midnight is a "no-go" unless it was pre-arranged.  Most who call at the last minute are either high or drunk and I want to make sure I protect myself from any situations that could arise.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

For me typically anything past midnight is a "no-go" unless it was pre-arranged.  Most who call at the last minute are either high or drunk and I want to make sure I protect myself from any situations that could arise.

For me typically anything past midnight is a "no-go" unless it was pre-arranged.  Most who call at the last minute are either high or drunk and I want to make sure I protect myself from any situations that could arise.

For me typically anything past midnight is a "no-go" unless it was pre-arranged.  Most who call at the last minute are either high or drunk and I want to make sure I protect myself from any situations that could arise.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I messaged you elsewhere 😉on it lol but here’s my list of red flags. 100% guaranteed! 

🚩 Pic collectors (more than 1 pic requested). If my website/X profile/OnlyFans isn’t enough then that’s too bad. 
🚩Endless chat before booking. Including phrases like ‘I’ll be a regular’, ‘I’m a virgin / I’m really tight etc’, ‘what will you do to me?’ etc. And of course discount requesters ‘I’m a student / unemployed etc’ : NEVER discount. Those guys are 99% definite flakes.
🚩Pic senders (more than 1 pic sent). These guys never become clients. Waste of time. 
🚩’Hey’ as an opening message. He’s not serious. It won’t happen. Don’t respond. 
Those are the big 4. If somehow someone displaying one or more of those indicators actually makes a booking I seek a confirmation message (via WhatsApp or Signal etc or text) on the day before the booking and on the day of the booking if possible/necessary. If either of those messages are ignored I cancel the session. I tell them this when they book: no pre meet confirmation…no booking. I don’t travel / prepare or keep the time free if it isn’t confirmed. It saves a lot of grief.
Sorry you had a bad run 😕