Keenan

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect.  Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment.  Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider.  Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

I messaged you elsewhere 😉on it lol but here’s my list of red flags. 100% guaranteed! 

🚩 Pic collectors (more than 1 pic requested). If my website/X profile/OnlyFans isn’t enough then that’s too bad. 
🚩Endless chat before booking. Including phrases like ‘I’ll be a regular’, ‘I’m a virgin / I’m really tight etc’, ‘what will you do to me?’ etc. And of course discount requesters ‘I’m a student / unemployed etc’ : NEVER discount. Those guys are 99% definite flakes.
🚩Pic senders (more than 1 pic sent). These guys never become clients. Waste of time. 
🚩’Hey’ as an opening message. He’s not serious. It won’t happen. Don’t respond. 
Those are the big 4. If somehow someone displaying one or more of those indicators actually makes a booking I seek a confirmation message (via WhatsApp or Signal etc or text) on the day before the booking and on the day of the booking if possible/necessary. If either of those messages are ignored I cancel the session. I tell them this when they book: no pre meet confirmation…no booking. I don’t travel / prepare or keep the time free if it isn’t confirmed. It saves a lot of grief.
Sorry you had a bad run 😕
 

Say where you found him.  Mention when you are looking for and if you are looking for him to come to you or you go to him.  Mention how much time you are looking for and mention what you enjoy.  This should limit numerous texts back and forth and gets right to the point.  Be aware that he might not be available at the time you are requesting.  If so have some alternative times.  Also be aware that if you are trying to do a same day booking that it might not happen based on his availability.  You might want to ask his rates also.

Say where you found him.  Mention when you are looking for and if you are looking for him to come to you or you go to him.  Mention how much time you are looking for and mention what you enjoy.  This should limit numerous texts back and forth and gets right to the point.  Be aware that he might not be available at the time you are requesting.  If so have some alternative times.  Also be aware that if you are trying to do a same day booking that it might not happen based on his availability.  You might want to ask his rates also.

Say where you found him.  Mention when you are looking for and if you are looking for him to come to you or you go to him.  Mention how much time you are looking for and mention what you enjoy.  This should limit numerous texts back and forth and gets right to the point.  Be aware that he might not be available at the time you are requesting.  If so have some alternative times.  Also be aware that if you are trying to do a same day booking that it might not happen based on his availability.  You might want to ask his rates also.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man.  Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards.  I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them.  My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man.  Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards.  I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them.  My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man.  Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards.  I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them.  My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man.  Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards.  I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them.  My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man.  Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards.  I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them.  My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

Sex work is work. If you want their time, pay them. Coming up with some sort of scheme so you can play on the cheap with the promise of reviews is…cheap. 

I’m always surprised when the client wants to top me bare and he asks if I’m on prep. I am of course, and I’m fine to get fucked bare, but me being on prep should be of no interest to the client. I tell him, it’s protecting me, the important question is are you on prep. Amazingly some aren’t on prep yet they’re happy to bareback. What they should ask is how frequently I get tested. 

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like.  With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

As far as identity if you aren't using face pictures it will help with identity issues.  At the same time clients can and will ask for a face picture before meeting.  While you can let them know not to share it once you share the picture with them you have no control over where that picture shows up.  As far as career opportunities just be smart, don't attach your real name to any photos, etc...  

There are many other risks beyond those that come with escorting such as keeping yourself protected from potential STD and meeting with clients who could potentially be crazy and try to harm you.  Make sure you screen and get an idea so you know who you are meeting with.

As far as identity if you aren't using face pictures it will help with identity issues.  At the same time clients can and will ask for a face picture before meeting.  While you can let them know not to share it once you share the picture with them you have no control over where that picture shows up.  As far as career opportunities just be smart, don't attach your real name to any photos, etc...  

There are many other risks beyond those that come with escorting such as keeping yourself protected from potential STD and meeting with clients who could potentially be crazy and try to harm you.  Make sure you screen and get an idea so you know who you are meeting with.

Falling in love with someone isn't an "accident". We don't schedule and plan love. It just finds its way into our consciousness. But falling "in love" with an escort is typically a false love produced by an infatuation. The physical attention you get, paired with a physical attraction are triggers for relationship material. Unfortunately when you are PAYING, its all performance, not passion. So your "love" is no more real than their acting. You feel it. Its there..but its not genuine, because true love requires a circle, not a wallet. 

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.