Keenan

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

Just remember that you’re selling a fantasy.  You may want to monetize your sex life, which is fine, but your clients want to feel that you’re also there for them.  The best providers I’ve been to are client-focused first, self-focused second.  If you plan to advertise on RMass and MF, you’ll also need some training on how to give a massage.  Clients who hire from there have a right to expect a decent massage if that’s what you claim to provide.  

Thank you for saying this.  Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid.  Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

Thank you for saying this.  Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid.  Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

Thank you for saying this.  Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid.  Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

Can I ask genuinely what you guys are referring to when you claim we have a monopoly over the industry? The industry being our time and bodies why should we not have autonomy and full control over those things? I understand being frustrated over poor service providers but you sound jaded. And also at the end of day this is an illegal business it’s not held to the same standard as papa John’s. You’re gonna get bad eggs just like we get bad clients. But genuinely curiosity as to what ya’ll mean when referring to us having a monopoly on the industry.

Exactly, as a client we are paying the escort (service provider) to serve us.  Being an escort definitely isn't for everyone so these service providers should consider before advertising if this is something for them.  Beyond having the ability to service anyone who hires you (some that might not be as attractive as you'd like), they also need to be comfortable being a basically being a sex object.  

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like.  With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

It depends on the provider.  Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym.  Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients.  Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

It depends on the provider.  Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym.  Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients.  Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like.  With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like.  With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC.  It's sort of fallen apart.  It would be great to do that again.
Keenan

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like.  With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

It's not what you have in a profile.  
It's how you compose the private message.
Be clear.  Be direct.  Be kind.  

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC.  It's sort of fallen apart.  It would be great to do that again.
Keenan

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC.  It's sort of fallen apart.  It would be great to do that again.
Keenan

There is Kew Motor Inn which is hourly.  I've met clients there before, the themed rooms help add to the experience.
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Some of the trending posts lead me to reading in the Deli. @CuriousByNature and @Keenan, your posts on this thread are eye openers. On second thought, I couldn't do the job. The scrutiny that guys endure here would kill me. I wonder who among us customers could tolerate being publicly naked and so openly judged? It was difficult enough dealing with criticism in the workplace, which was mostly kept private. I've never had to endure a customer rant on the internet, let alone a vile pile-on.

Many of the things you mentioned held true in my younger years as an escort.  Being naive I didn't properly screen and didn't take proper precautions.  I dealt with everything from aggressive clients who had weapons or were on drugs to being raped to being held against my will.  Also not using PrEP in my younger years and taking clients bare I did deal with some STDs, luckily nothing that couldn't be resolved.  This work is definitely physically, emotionally and mentally draining.  Luckily after my family found out I was doing adult work, also stripping and adult videos, they have been supportive, even somewhat protective.  

Many of the things you mentioned held true in my younger years as an escort.  Being naive I didn't properly screen and didn't take proper precautions.  I dealt with everything from aggressive clients who had weapons or were on drugs to being raped to being held against my will.  Also not using PrEP in my younger years and taking clients bare I did deal with some STDs, luckily nothing that couldn't be resolved.  This work is definitely physically, emotionally and mentally draining.  Luckily after my family found out I was doing adult work, also stripping and adult videos, they have been supportive, even somewhat protective.