SouthOfTheBorder
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from BonVivant in Atlantis Cruises - your experiences?
Yes, yes, yes - absolutely yes
I’ve been on an Atlantis cruise - there’s a certain type that makes up the majority of passengers & depends a bit on which itinerary. overall, it leans heavy into the youngish American circuit crowd and I saw a lot of very bad behavior & complete lack of self-awareness/consideration of others. I went on Atlantis when I was 42 yrs old - most of the behavior was something like 25 year olds regardless of actual age. Not everyone - but vast majority for sure & it wasn’t exactly relaxing. Be ready to see lots of open drug use & people that can’t handle it..
If you’ve ever been exposed to circuit boys after 3 days of nonstop partying - you know this is something to avoid.
I’ve never even considered a second Atlantis cruise - and there’s a reason.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from BonVivant in Atlantis Cruises - your experiences?
a friend went solo on Atlantis and got put into a room with one of the major drug dealers onboard. (yes, there are multiple drug dealers onboard every Atlantis cruise)
on the plus side - the guy was never in the room and got off the ship after 3 days.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Atlantis Cruises - your experiences?
Yes, yes, yes - absolutely yes
I’ve been on an Atlantis cruise - there’s a certain type that makes up the majority of passengers & depends a bit on which itinerary. overall, it leans heavy into the youngish American circuit crowd and I saw a lot of very bad behavior & complete lack of self-awareness/consideration of others. I went on Atlantis when I was 42 yrs old - most of the behavior was something like 25 year olds regardless of actual age. Not everyone - but vast majority for sure & it wasn’t exactly relaxing. Be ready to see lots of open drug use & people that can’t handle it..
If you’ve ever been exposed to circuit boys after 3 days of nonstop partying - you know this is something to avoid.
I’ve never even considered a second Atlantis cruise - and there’s a reason.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from Jacob_b in Hiring on Instagram?
He doesn’t need to put a number on it bc it will easily be $10k+ for a week. Mykonos is one of the most expensive summer destinations in the Mediterranean. If you’re in that league, I’d go to Mykonos solo and you’ll find many IG models already on the island that can be had.
Mykonos is major summer destination for known global providers that do the NY/Miami/London circuit as well. There is no shortage of working guys there.
If you haven’t been before - it can be a nightmare. 5 cruise ships in the harbor each letting off 3000 people for a day or overnight. It’s a very small island
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from HuskyC in Lisbon
there is a luxurious gay guesthouse in Barrio Alto - The Late Birds. It’s basically a small gay design hotel. Exceptionally well done & not typical of gay guesthouses/hotels. That would be my first choice in Lisbon for sure.
https://www.thelatebirdslisbon.com/homepage
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + KinkyNEguy in Beware PR Chorizo Miguel
multiple user names & imposters are nothing new here and are to be expected in an “anonymous” forum like this
there are multiple members using different user names & sometimes talk to each other and about each other - why they play these games is beyond me
its usually obvious because the writing style eventually gives them away.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from Midtownm4m in MikeAustin in NYC
I’ve met him. Nice guy & looks like his pics. There were definitely performance issues on his end. Every one can have an off day & thsts understandable. But, I would not repeat
the thing with true XXL dicks is some of them don’t get 100% hard. there are ways to fix it , but the provider needs to be prepared for that.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from Hu.Len in Is Florida real estate bubble about to burst?
while the reasons for the Florida insurance crisis can be debated - that means nothing to Florida homeowners that are facing huge premium increases or being dropped altogether. As more insurance companies exit Florida, the problem will only get worse & more expensive. Anyone considering a move to Florida & buying a home will soon experience exactly that problem.
back to the OPs question about a Florida housing market bubble & prices: what happens when banks will no longer lend money to buy when the buyers either can’t get insurance ? or it becomes so expensive that it affects their ratios for loan approvals ?
Banks will not loan money on a property that is uninsured or underinsured. Cash buyers cannot sustain the overall market.
Unless the insurance problem is fixed, it will inevitably lead to a correction in pricing. Very basic economics - reducing the pool of potential buyers because of insurance crisis & stricter lending requirements leads to overall less demand. Time will tell.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from Luv2play in Is the American dream dead? Have YOU achieved it?
I grew up there too, and continued to go back for my parents. after they passed, no reason to return
I had to do a drive through rural America this summer. Guns in holsters with belts full of bullets in a chain restaurant (Ruby Tuesdays) in N Carolina. No thanks
they seem to be very afraid of something - I’m just not sure what it is
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in IDIOTIC WAYS TO DIE
if you’ve been to India - you would not make that statement
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in IDIOTIC WAYS TO DIE
perfect example of a imperfect risk/reward calculation. the participants were seeking adulation in third-world relatively risky proposition. things went predictably wrong & the couple paid the price. doesn't seem worth it really - but who am I to judge ??
they aren't the first to be done in by narcissism & vanity - and they won't be the last
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from BBB in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
some Thermas tips
1. go early - before it gets crowded. Thermas is big and spread across 3 floors - it can be disorienting to arrive when filed with providers & clients. Plus - it’s competitive & the locals/regulars will always go for their favorites who are usually the most in-demand. Arriving when it’s crowded puts you at a disadvantage. I like to arrive at opening about 3p and watch as providers/ clients arrive.
2. get familiar with the layout - because it is confusing. I’d recommend a complete walk-through of the entire place at least once to take note of spa facilities & bar (first floor), all showers (first & second floors). And the one private bathroom on first floor with a douche - the key to that bathroom is at reception and depending on the attendant, they may require you buy an attachment or if you have your own, then a tip to get the key. Return the key asap as there may be others waiting.
3. there will always be guys hanging around the reception area & watching the clients locker room. the game is to snag clients in that area & before they can see the other providers. don’t fall for it.
4. like anywhere else - be cautious if anyone offers you anything to ingest. last time I was there, a provider offered candy between sessions - upon inspection it was potent edible marijuana. there are a couple guys there routinely selling things - I’d avoid them & whatever they have. they are obvious & likely will make an approach at some point.
5. the free cabins are fine for 30 minutes & the staff cleans continuously- but that doesn’t mean you’ll always get a fresh cabin. If you want to make sure it’s clean - then private rooms. Again - getting there early ensures access to private rooms - when it’s crowded you may wait and sometimes they don’t open up at all.
6. you dont need ID to get in - leave passports & valuables in your hotel safe. I carry a set amount of cash, one credit card & phone. I don’t leave those items in the locker - I carry them with me in a small pack at all times. you need cash for the guys - everything else can be on credit card.
7. bring your own condoms & lube. the condoms provided are the most basic & the lube is almost nonexistent. the guys appreciate good quality condoms & it makes a big difference. I like to bring my own antibacterial soap along too - just to be extra careful between sessions. availability of soap in the showers is not a sure thing.
8. if smoking bothers you - avoid the area on the second floor where smokers congregate. for people who smoke, it’s ideal place to engage the guys in a more relaxed environment.
9. don’t be afraid to say no. you will be approached many times by guys who may not be your type. there’s not pressure per se, but they are direct and don’t want to waste time. they are used to no & it’s just part of the environment. polite & firm gets the message across.
10. you will pay for everything at the end & check your final bill carefully. if buying drinks for providers, make sure you are clear at that time what you’re offering. an offer for a drink can easily turn into a full meal - and that’s fine if that is what you’re offering. if spending a few hours there, the charges can add up quickly.
11. don’t be afraid to tell the provider exactly what you want - they’re professionals and have seen it all, several times. no reason to be embarrassed. If there is a language barrier - use google translate or show them a video of the type of scene you want. a video is easiest way to get the clear message across & I’ve seen several clients do it.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Lisbon
there is a luxurious gay guesthouse in Barrio Alto - The Late Birds. It’s basically a small gay design hotel. Exceptionally well done & not typical of gay guesthouses/hotels. That would be my first choice in Lisbon for sure.
https://www.thelatebirdslisbon.com/homepage
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from peter831 in What are your red flags?
dealbreakers from client perspective,
any reference to PNP in the ad
any visual clues re: PNP - there’s a look
any visual clues to a disorganized environment
any mention of “anything goes” or similar risky behavior
no reviews or unacceptable ratio of neg reviews (more than 10% NO)
more than 4-6 hours time to respond to inquiry
pressure to book immediately
deposits
younger than 26
hubris
providers soliciting on hookup apps - not professional
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + Charlie in Are you "gay"? Are you "queer"? What the hell are you?!
learning to walk-away from stupid people or situations is worthwhile
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Are you "gay"? Are you "queer"? What the hell are you?!
learning to walk-away from stupid people or situations is worthwhile
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from hungry4darkmeat in Assuming escorts are always hosting…
I would never assume a provider is hosting - unless it's clearly stated in profile & confirmed while making appointment.
It's a plus if they do, but not an absolute requirement
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from BananaBagel in first time experience disappointment - looking for honest feedback
chalk it up as a learning experience & do not contact the provider
next time you want to spend $3k+ on an extended date, go to Barcelona for a long weekend (it’s doable) and you’ll have your pick of handsome providers from around the world. There’s no place else that offers relative security/safety and has the variety of providers at reasonable rates.
as a US domestic alternative- hourly only & anywhere but New York City
I wouldn’t do anything with a provider before sex that may impair his performance - no food, alcohol or anything else. I save the small-talk for after, even if I know him. In multi-hour appointments, I look for fireworks in Hour 1. I don’t like overnights, so 3 hours is my max. I wouldn’t ever travel for a specific provider bc it’s too much expectation tied up in one person - I’d suggest selecting a destination based on volume of providers & ease of hiring for better opportunities.
get back in the saddle asap !
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
You are the OP. And you did ask for thoughts. He gave you his thoughts & maybe it’s as simple as that.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
totally normal - nothing to see here
I wonder how the paparazzi manages to photograph their every move ? It’s almost as if someone is providing places & times
and you can bet they employ several stylists to get that look
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
I’m retired and spend at least 6 months of every year traveling the world. Once you get out of the US & stop buying the propaganda that everything American is the best - you will quickly see many other countries are superior in many ways. Actually in almost every way.
The US is a nation in decline. It wasn’t inevitable, but it was predictable because empires always collapse throughout history. You just happen to be witnessing the American Empire collapse in real time. Just like the Roman, Spanish, Portuguese & Soviet empires before it. I’d give it less than 10 years.
Since you’re the OP & since you asked the question - I felt it was ok to answer. Even tho you took the topic sideways. Maybe you should start a new thread ?
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
typical American viewpoint. Money = success/happiness. Boring & cliche. Next
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
So, you start a thread specifically asking for thoughts - then when you get the thoughts & different opinions than your own, that becomes its own separate thing.
interesting- seems to be creation of conflict by design. because then you go after why you think someone feels a certain way about a subjective question you’ve put out there. When actually, you have no idea what forms the opinion.
These type threads are like an unprepared client going to see a provider. Full of shit, messy & it stinks.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from + glutes in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
Correct in most cases, just not this one.
Bezos & Sanchez are actively pursuing publicity/press coverage in attempt to shape public opinion. This appears to be Ms Sanchez doing as it was never a thing for Bezos previously.
In doing so, they open themselves up to all kinds of criticism that wouldn’t be an issue otherwise. They invited the scorn, criticism & ridicule. And it was predictable.
It’s not enough for these people to just be insanely rich, they want more attention and to be more famous - and the Vogue article & pictures are tone-deaf and in poor taste considering much of the American public struggles financially.
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SouthOfTheBorder got a reaction from caliguy in Laureen Sánchez & Jeff Bezos saucy picture! Your thoughts!
it’s kind of pathetic - one of richest men in the world & he could do so many good & necessary things w the vast wealth.
Instead, he marries someone that looks like a Real Housewife and they’re just chasing publicity to be even more famous. the paid Vogue article & pictures look more than a little desperate. She’s got no style or class, whatsoever.
That picture is so re-touched and filtered - she must be a trainwreck in person. She looks demonic