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  1. 1 hour ago, Pd1_jap said:

    JJock does a really good massage and offers great extras. 

     

    1 hour ago, Pd1_jap said:

    JJock does a really good massage and offers great extras. 

    Thank you. Does he have a link?

     

    🙏🏻

  2. 8 hours ago, Gingeroz said:

    I talked to him and he was way, waaaay more into sex than massage so I got lost a bit... eventually he apologized and said he mistaken me for some other client

    that's always a fantasy. Some guy ravages me and later, I say WTF, man! and he gets his phone out and shows me a text detailing a scenario and I say, 'yeah, that's not my number.' 

    A fantasy, of course. 

     

  3. I'm a sucker for a great chest. I wish he had better reviews or that my gut said yeah try him. 

     

    I'm afraid I've been guilty of being short and to the point when I inquire about hiring. Table with head rest, price, and parking at my most important q's. I never ask about extras. I'm not opposed but feels weird asking up front before we've ever met. 

    I do think it's best to use full sentences and be polite. If I get curt responses then that probably tells me what I need to know. 

  4. 1 hour ago, TennisPro35 said:

    Agree on what @starman05 said.  I actually have a short list of these masseurs now — great therapeutic massage (but with extras and more for some).  
    Though the human connection sometimes urges me to see if friendships can be made outside the massage session, I stop myself. point blank. Period.  Also had that “biggest mistake” moment since it was “friendship-ing” - on his personal time - a RMasseur masseur for a considerable lenght of time. Long story kept short.  lol.  Are we talking about the same masseur?

    I sometimes just visit the local Thai Spa aunties for a therapeutic massage instead of going searching on the many male massage sites.  

    it's possible it was the same guy; begin with T? I am officially in elder gay territory; I have a small tiny window to get out there and meet someone but I'm finding a lot of helpful advice in some Instagram accounts. No more narcissists, no more unavailable people. I express my interest and then move on. If he responds? great. If not, don't wait for the magic to happen. it won't. 

     

  5. I posted this thought on kind of a whim but my thanks to jeezifonly and tracermain for the philosophical/emotional and biological input/information. 

    One therapist in particular I met early after coming out; he was handsome and nurturing and kind. My biggest mistake was trying to forge a friendship. 

    today, I have someone who is excellent at his job and I leave satisfied. No desire to forge anything beyond the 90 minutes a few times a month. 

     

  6. 5 hours ago, FLJock said:

    When he gets on the table or bed the height becomes less important

    that's fair. I was in bed with a guy once and he was so tall the soles of my feet were on the top of his feet. I'm about 5'7" so when I'm standing up against a guy who's 6'1"+ my face usually lands in his pec.

    But technique and TLC trump any height. 

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