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I was messing around with a guy one time and I didn’t think I wanted to get fucked but I felt so safe and was so turned on and I trusted him and I said ok I’m ready! 

he chuckled, kissed me on the forehead, and said, ‘oh baby I’m not going to fuck you.’

looking back, he didn’t say why but I got the impression it was because he felt I couldn’t handle his size - huge! 

I let out a ‘oh, thank God!’ and we sent back to making out.

A masseur sent me a GIF of roses 🌹 on feb 14 once which was sweet 

another provider I saw on my birthday; he bought dinner and gave me flowers and bought me a gift. I wasn’t expecting any of that

we’ve shared a few holiday texts

its not real in the way I’d like it to be but it is what it is

someone famous told me once that every relationship is transactional 

thats true, I suppose

looks like a nice, legit guy; might try him for a stretching session. 

That seems to be the big focus these days, being limber and be able to move. 

On 2/1/2023 at 10:49 PM, Yoyohey said:

Seemed TGTBT

the more I look at his pix and read the description...I have to agree. 

that third pic -- showing his massive chest -- makes me weak in the knees. I'd pay for an hour just to rest my head on it. 

But I'd need to see some positive reviews for a bit before taking a plunge. 

On 2/8/2023 at 9:20 PM, DWnyc said:

Reminded me of a bizarre experience: 

As a provider takes me up to his hotel room he asks “do you like groups?” And while opening door the I see he has a friend there … I say I’m not donating more than agreed and I’m told the other guy is free as they’re sharing a room and it’s late and he has nowhere else to go. I ran out claiming I felt ill and it was nothing to do with them (my gut said this was weird and scary so get out without angering them). I got abusive texts the whole night saying I owed him double the amount discussed (for 2 people).

 

 

listening to your gut might have saved your life that night. 

how unnerving; you clearly did the right thing. stay safe. 

Valentines Day is coming up

any recommendations for masseurs in L.A. who lean into TLC and/or BFE?

tia

Feb 14 is just another day but it reminds me of not having romance in my life

I used to get down on myself for seeking out comfort, really hating that I could not find someone for ‘real’ — whatever that means 

then covid hit

ha! 

life is short. I just want to feel something

does anyone have any BFE recommendations in LA?

seeking someone who can give the BFE

TIA

means 

6'3" 250 lbs? 

THAT is a daddy! 

second link is stinky linky; love this forum for keeping us all safer from scam artists. 

I hire for massage but even then it's hard to find someone real. 

lots of moisturizer.

I love dogs but dogs and masseurs have never worked for me.

On 1/21/2023 at 1:39 AM, Redwine56 said:

No. Don't think so.  With him, it's quantity, not quality.  He's not warm and fuzzy.  He travels into town to make as much $$$$$ as he can to pay for his medical schooling. Not my style. 

sadly, I think you're right. I recall him being a bit rushed at the beginning like he was trying to hurry up and that feeling never went away throughout. I guess more time would be more of the same feeling. 

8 hours ago, Curio said:

Is everyone asked to wear underwear during massage at this place ?

you mean clients or providers?

looking back, my only gripe was feeling a bit rushed at the end and the disconnect.

I wonder if booking 90 minutes or 2 hours might make he slow down a bit. 

he seems like a big teddy bear; massage technique is great and all but there's something about an added nurturing element that really allows me to zone out and relax

anyone have ht. and wt. on this guy? 

I can't imagine having Geffen's kind of money; on one hand, I wouldn't give a hoot what anyone thought of me; on the other, I'd probably keep things private anyway b/c it's nobody's beeswax 

I concur with ruminant.  I had a great massage from Brad (Mr. Reset); straight, surfer dude vibe; incredibly skillful massage therapist. Draped the whole time. He hit spots I didn't know I needed fixing. He found at least one problem area I had forgotten to mention to him and he went to work on it. and it feels so much better. 

I will definitely see him again. 

On 6/12/2022 at 12:54 PM, ruminant said:

I have hired Brad (Mr  Reset) a few times for therapeutic massage. Very good at deep tissue. Skilled and serious about his work. Draped. No sexual vibes. He's straight. Kind of a long-haired surfer look nowadays. He wears a black spa shirt with his logo when he comes to your house and stays fully dressed. I recommend for therapeutic massage. 

sounds like exactly what I'm looking for. A great massage is much preferred over a shitty one with a half-assed hand job. 

geez, if I won the lottery, I'd see this guy 5 x a week for training, once for massage and on the 7th day I'd rest. 

On 3/26/2022 at 7:38 PM, BuzzLiteQueer said:

Saw him recently.  Very good masseur in terms of technique but failed to deliver on his promises (explicit and implicit) to introduce sensual and erotic elements throughout  the massage.  I think he was going to keep me on my stomach until I said I wanted to turn over.  Seemed to go out of his way not to look at me.  That did not make me feel good.  When he finally became more sensual/erotic, he was totally mechanical and clearly annoyed I didn't immediately respond the way he wanted.  At several points before and after the massage, he said in a tone bordering on angry: "I'm not an escort."  I get it but his tone was off putting.  I think if you are young and in shape you get one experience;  the rest of us get another experience.  Would not repeat or recommend. And was pricey on top of it.

yikes; Buzz, sounds unpleasant. I think I'll pass. Hope you have better luck next time. 

I would have loved to have treated myself as I was alone this year. 

One regular is out of the biz and I'm erring on the side of caution given COVID. 

My big fear would be to meet someone who'd kill me and then, it'd be in the papers -- Man Dies by Killer Masseur During Lonely Christmas Eve Massage 

Nice guy. I should have told him during massage he was too strong. He said he could do less. My bad for not asking him to go lighter.

Haven't been back to him due to COVID. 

Is he in Los Angeles or San Jose? Those aren't exactly close, are they?

or is he traveling? 

Yikes yikes YIKES; this guy is a few miles from me and I don't feel safe! So grateful for this site to warn me of bad eggs. 

Geez. he looks like a Hallmark leading man.