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  1. way back in the day I only sought out masseurs who advertised as legit and who wore t-shirts along with shorts and sweats. One guy even wore a suit in his ad.

    I didn't want things to progress too far but I was yearning for physical touch. Invariably, guys would take it a lot further. I finally asked a provider 'I don't believe the therapists who say legit only. they're hardly ever legit!' He let out a chuckle and said, 'dude, you're kind of ...big. that's gonna happen.' 

     

  2. 4 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

    I specifically offer this as a service. I call it cuddle therapy. It’s intentionally not sex or sexual, just a calm, intimate, body to body experience for those who want that part and don’t need the sex part and don’t want to pay my escort fee. Very few people book this but some do really enjoy it. I’ve had some curious straight guys enjoy this low pressure situation, and some gentleman who didn’t want sex or massage for whatever reason but really needed the touch and intimacy. It’s a beautiful thing.

    I am one of these masseurs, and it makes a lot of sense. It’s more comfortable and the client gets the best of both. I offer a massage / sex work combo service and price it accordingly.

    Then I have my escort rates which typically do not include massage, but can at times include a massage “scene” where the client wants and understands the fantasy context and doesn’t expect a significant amount of serious massage time or high quality therapy. The focus here is arousal and basically foreplay rather than actually trying to work the muscle groups for therapeutic purposes.

    I break it all out in these ways so that clients can know and get exactly what they want and pay appropriately for each service. It’s pretty clear with me what you’re getting. That’s why I get all bothered when clients book a lower priced service and expect/demand a higher price level of service. It’s not about me being able or willing to provide. It’s about them respecting me. I want clients to value my respective services accordingly.

     

    hey Simon, if I ever make it down to San Diego (maybe Comic Con?) I may reach out for more info. 

    I've had spooning sessions before but providers have either retired or I lost touch (no pun intended) with them after covid.

    A convincing 'Everything's going to be all right' whispered into my ear at the right moment would be icing on the cake. 

    thanks

    Starman

  3. are therapists not allowed to list ht. and wt. on masseur finder? 

    It shouldn't matter. We all have types. I tend to like bigger guys but I've had some amazing massages from short wiry guys; and I've had moments of 'cripes WHAT am I doing here? I gotta get out of here now!" massages from physical types I melt for. 
     

    So while it doesn't matter really, I was just curious why we don't see ht. and wt. in MF ads. 

  4. On 10/31/2023 at 7:41 PM, marylander1940 said:

    They happen in all human activities commercial, personal, etc. but they're highly annoying when they happen to providers because they are the product. 

    1. Regret
    2. Cold feet.
    3. Got someone closer, better, cheaper?
    4. Prank
    5. The guy is a loser and can't afford hiring... 

     

    I was on my way to a massage once and got into a car accident. I called. I’m sure he thought I was lying. I saw him months later and said yeah I really was. 

  5. 2 hours ago, BriansBodywork said:

    It appears it’s just temporarily frozen, maybe he’s taking time out.

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    Hope so. He’s kind of young but would love to have him work on me with some TLC thrown in 🙏🏻

  6. can you define a "bit dominant"? 

     

    There's nothing I like more than a guy who knows his own strength and can "hold" the client in it, if you will. 

    He's in control but he's not using said strength to hurt, intimidate or otherwise make you feel uncomfortable. 

    It's a fine line and I may not be explaining this right but I knew a guy once and he knew how to make me feel like he was totally in charge but I never felt like it could go south and I'd be hurt. 

     

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