starman05

1 hour ago, Hey_Jay said:

I actually wonder how a masseur does that close his old profile, create a new and kept all the reviews and why does he have to do that lol 

I'm thinking more about the 'why' than the how; dude has reviews like I've never seen before but a poster here shared he seems over it

Decisions, decisions 

something else has changed, too; now it's "Anttuane" - a subtle name spelling change; all his reviews remain. 

On 3/27/2024 at 1:26 PM, MakeMeCowboy said:

To begin with, he's not nearly as fit/cut.  Still sexy... he carries the extra weight well.

And, in my opinion, he's lost his enthusiasm for the business.  He had a hint of indifference and his execution was much more mechanical (including the sensual part.). He highly controlled even the most basic extras and used that time to discuss upcharges.  My take is that he's become a little full of himself.

oh bummer. I penciled him in as a birthday treat for myself. the reviews on this stud are glowing. MakeMeCowboy, do you think he could have just been having an off night?

Tho the upcharges thing during the massage (is that what happened?) is a major turnoff. 

Anybody gave any recent experiences? 
 

tia!

I mean...sure, it might 'sound' hot. That feeling when you are totally submissive to someone who's going to ravage you and make you feel 90% safe and 10% scared at the same exact moment. I can't describe it, but I was lucky to have it once or twice in my life. It's mind-blowing. 

Then again...it could go south in a bad way really fast and you feel 100% scared and you shut down, thinking what do I need to do to survive and then later you think oh, yeah. I have to pay this guy for hurting me. 

You'd have no one to blame but yourself if things got out of hand given the provider's title. 

I've asked guys at times if they know their own strength; some understand the question, some don't. 

1 hour ago, starman05 said:

6'5"? His height in the doorway indicates shorter 🤷‍♂️🤔

Mind u I'm not saying he is or isn't - just that I can't tell 

6'5"? His height in the doorway indicates shorter 🤷‍♂️🤔

Now he’s in Atlanta - visiting or…?

Any recommendations?

I posted in deli but am mostly looking for TLC 

tia 

6 minutes ago, nycman said:

Pics or it didn’t happen…..grin

Yes, longer hairs hurt more (not that much more), but they are easier to sugar/wax.

I think trimming prior to sugaring/waxing is a bit counter productive. 

Huh?

26 minutes ago, Xavitv said:

Gavin 

Newsome? 

Can anyone recommend a Daddy type in Los Angeles? 

looking for a cerebral session not just a physical one 

tia 

Hope he's back in WeHo soon. He checks every last box.

I wish he were a little older. 

I get going off the grid for a bit but what does bring him to the other side of the world -- or wherever he is?

I can imagine guys who have tons of money flying him there but then he'd be exclusive so that might not be what's going on. 

I can handle paying up front and no chit chat after; he's beautiful and I'll end up on his table at some point. 

On 11/11/2023 at 1:12 AM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I never expect/require an escort to cum.  I don’t get the fascination with it, but I know it’s common. I assume the escorts have other clients and I wouldn’t want to impair their next appointment.  The escorts always seem to surprised that I don’t care.  Some want to cum and of course that’s great.  And I certainly wouldn’t expect a masseur to cum either.  When happy endings for me happen organically in a massage setting, then fine.  

The issue here is many guys really want a discounted rate by booking massage & then expecting escort services.  Of course, totally different if you’re going to a place or person for massage and it is known/accepted that happy endings are part of the deal.  If you’re not sure, then don’t expect it. 

It’s always a mistake to have a preconceived idea/expectation of what is going to happen in an escort/massage situation, unless you have discussed your requirements clearly and the provider has agreed.  This requires very clear communication & that seems to be difficult given the shame around sex, paying for sex and fear of judgement.  If those type conversations are uncomfortable, then it’s a very healthy exercise to work through it - expressing wants & needs clearly is empowering.  

I recently got a new massage therapist, who I see at least once a week. He was a referral from a friend and there was no expectation of any sex.  He’s super hot/sexy, gentle with a firm touch and the movements/strokes feel sensual, but not sexual or erotic. On the table, I usually get turned on and get hard at some point.  And then my mind wanders to other things.  I realized that what I really like with this new guy is the ability to feel completely vulnerable & safe and very intimate all at the same time, without it being sexual. I let him touch me in places (not sexual) that I am too sensitive with others. But, for some reason it’s ok with him.  I absolutely love sex, but sometimes it’s not about sex all the time.

This is how I feel

intimacy and feeling safe are priceless

$50 for a lousy rub and tug by someone with no training is a ripoff

$1K for an unforgettable massage by someone who treats you like you're important? Priceless. 

But there HAVE to be massage skills. That's a basic. 

I had a great guy in WeHo about a decade ago, a little more. He draped me the whole time, every time, but it felt like he was making love to me. Can't explain it. 

Bump

any new experiences, anyone?

Me three! 
 

thanks! 

Looks nice

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46195/

anyone have intel? 
 

thx! 

I've saId it before but this message board has saved me $$ and heartache and frustration. 

11 hours ago, Zimby said:

I think you may want to look for a professional Cuddler (yes.. its a thing).    There was a guy on RM that used to advertise as a cuddlist in Chicago

Cuddlist.com seems to be the most "authentic" site, but there are others you may want to try (where you are hiring a "professional" certified cuddler.)

Cuddlecomfort.com seems to be more a community to find like minded people that want to cuddle

 

Thanks

just three women in My city

well, 2 women and a “they”

I posted in deli, no luck

can anyone recommend in LA, a masseur who is cool with cuddling?

not sex just affection

Thanks in advance

how big is Dallas? The Ewings used to get into town pretty quickly from Southfork in Braddock County. 

Seriously, Brock is hot! He looks like the younger brother of Brock Hart

WEHT him? 

Sometimes I just want to be held

anyone in LA specialize in cuddling/no sex? 
 

TIA

11 hours ago, JSchorr said:

I saw him a couple of years ago in my city.  Nice guy and I probably would repeat (after having a discussion).  I'm probably old fashioned but he brought out the poppers at the end and wanted to ride me - no discussion or warning....I was put off a little bit.  I should say I am a 70 year old man and though I don't consider myself unattractive I'm hardly a model. I did touch him during the massage (he was nude) and maybe I gave him the wrong idea.

I had that happen once a long time ago. nice massage but then he took out the poppers and then jumped on top of the table. I was stomach up and pretty hard. (It happens.) It happened so fast I don't know how because he was muscular but I pushed him off and said 'no. that's not safe.' He seemed to just shrug it off. Never went back. Scary times. 

On 1/5/2024 at 2:37 AM, DukeUci said:

I met him. Pics are NOT REAL. Massage quality was poor. He rushed the massage. Rubbed me out and threw me out in under 30 minutes. There went $200. On an air mattress in cheap airbnb.

Ug sorry that happened to u