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You don't say how old you are. You may have to adjust your expectations some. But the important thing is to stop thinking about it and get started - today. The pandemic has only been around for months, not decades. If you had a great body only a few months ago, you can have it again after a few more months.

I’m only 5”, maybe a little more since my cock is curved. I feel small, but my husband doesn’t seem to care. I actually like “small” cocks, especially with a curve. Why? Well I’ve got some prostate toys that are about that size and with the curve, make it perfect for an anal orgasm. Plus I can more easily swallow a smaller cock all the way to the pubes. My husband is larger so I can’t quite get all the way down, guesses I need to work on my gag reflex. Also I think I average distance from anus to end of rectum is about 5”.
I like to look at large cocks, but the “average “ curved ones really turn me on. Like there’s a video with coby Mitchell and nick sterling that’s totally hot, at least to me. I think it’s called dirty work. Yum.

Hmmm...I don't know. One of the escorts I hired early on was only about 5'5" but had a ginormous cock and an aloof attitude! Our time in bed was just kind of meh. He never let me forget that he was a TOP! I never hired him again. I kind of enjoyed playing with his "toy" but it was all about HIM!
 
One of my other hires looks to be only about 5 inches when fully rock hard. The first time I hired him, we hit it off, we had many mutual life experiences in common, and he made everything we did all about MY pleasure. We ended up just talking and making out for most of the scheduled session.
 
After that, he gave me an additional 2 hours and built me slowly to one of the best orgasms I've ever experienced, before or since! He has continued to be a regular hire, in fact he has since retired but still sees me on a regular basis! I wouldn't say I'm a small cock fetishist but I never judge anyone by the size of their cock!
 
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I like kissing as much as I like fucking.  It’s a deal-breaker for me, and it’s annoying that so many list it in their Inyo’s when they clearly are not.

@JoeMendoza - I'm curious why there is a choice of 5.17 to 7 inches, as this is a relatively large range and may throw off the results.   Would it be better to have the range 5.17 to less than 6 inches, and then add another line for 6 inches to less than 7?  You may find an overwhelming number of responders in the 5.17 to 7 inch range, and that is a pretty big spread compared to the other choices...
Just a thought

I have no problem if kissing is not included in the list of offerings up front, I can do without, but if it's listed, I expect it to be hot and enthusiastic.

My date tonight went very well. Arranged last week and we both kept in touch leading up to tonight, not every day but once or twice.
And then today several times to reconfirm our arrangements.  

I respect that some don't want to kiss. I won't hire them though. Kissing is an essential part of the experience for me.
 
 

I think you have a great point here, @ThroatCummer . To me, no kissing is the absolute deal breaker in hiring. Furthermore, when I sense that my partner (paid or not paid) is not really enjoying kissing me, when he is not being truly responsive to my kissing, I totally lose interest and my dick goes limp. 

Also worth mentioning I hired a provider one time who had kissing listed on their ad as an "into" but when I was with them they informed me they don't. So I always ask and bring it up as I stated above. 

I have no problem if kissing is not included in the list of offerings up front, I can do without, but if it's listed, I expect it to be hot and enthusiastic.

I love to continue to suck a semi hard cock after he's cum (waste not want not,). Anyone else,?

I agree with edibles not being a big deal on domestic flights.
Just don’t get stupid and "forget" they’re in you luggage 
when you start crossing International boundaries….
https://www.npr.org/2022/11/09/1135438575/brittney-griner-penal-colony-russia
 

Also with edibles you can easily put them in your carry-on as well if you want something with you.  I don't even try to hide it anymore I just throw them in my backpack.  They show up as just organic material or food on the TSA scanners.  I don't however get greedy and try to bring a whole truck load with me.  If you're feeling a bit skittish you can take them out of the original packaging and put them in something else.  Put gummies in a pack of gummy bears.  Cookies or brownies just put them in a plain old ziplock.  The TSA is focused on anything that can bring a plane down or that can be used a as a weapon.  They could care less about your "food".

Edibles are the easiest to transport.  Just put them in your suitcase and go. I do it all the time

Some of us here have reported Chronically late providers without naming names. why? How will they learn if their only negative reinforcement is the loss of one gig or even a client. Should  inconsiderate, unprofessional behavior be tacitly accepted by protecting the perps who are stealing the most precious resource of all. ...time?
If it's a real repeated problem  call him out.
 

I met with this young man about 6 months ago. He is as he presents himself in his profile. Nice guy, I had an interesting time. He is NOT Eastern European /  Russian. He grew up in Virginia as indicated by the area code of his phone (and told to me in person). He is straight forward and honest. You like what you see in his profile, book him. All the rest here is just uninformed speculation.  

Without going into too much detail, I have eliminated an entire department over this.
You live 30 minutes from our office but refuse to come in ever again? .. and you still want that $180k salary? Nah, it don't work that way.
Historically, Asia and India outsourcing was a fucking train wreck because quality was never there. But now there's an epic crap ton of countries and people with the same skills that will do your job for a fraction of the price. I can get someone in South Africa, Brazil, or Romania to replace you in ten seconds. Oh, and there's a hundred million of them lined up applying.
Welcome to globalization.
My highest performer (our Chief Compliance Officer) can do her job from the Lido deck of a cruise ship and never come into the office ever again, and I won't give a fuck. Because she's a master at her work and she gets shit done. 
But now, when we need a new person, our universe of hiring is the entire planet. It's going to be a really hard lesson for the tech skilled workforce in the USA to learn over the next few years. No company is going to pay $180k for a software engineer that wants to sit at home down the street from the actual office in Manhattan. I need you in the office to be creative because there's value in that. If you don't want to do that, then you're going to be replaced by someone in Lebanon or Croatia.   
WOAH. Need to put down the keyboard.
Wait, what were we talking about? Open markets and how they influence escort prices? 'Night  

I did
 Oh yes! Few times in my life. It is really amazing. Last time was two months ago with a fuck buddy I have. And there is a masseur named Carlos on Union Square NYC I experienced it 3 times with...It feels amazing, the only thing is that I always love cumming together with my top, and most of the times cumming hand free is a sudden unexpected event that the top can't "pair" with.
Not sure what anal orgasm feels like, I don't think I ever experienced it, but if it would be an addendum to cumming hand free while being fucked it must be super amazing!

Honestly, I've known a lot of women. Most of my close friends are women. Some of them are gorgeous, some are plain, etc. And if you spoke about this dislike of "smoking hot women" in front of me, I would be utterly turned off by it. Sure, some women (and hell of a lot of men) who know they are beautiful abuse it and look down on others, but I don't think it's the majority. And, assuming based on your limited experience of a subset of women, that all or ever most women considered conventionally "smoking hot" is just dressed-up misogyny. 

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and lodging rates are astronomical. Over $1000 a night in some cases There are three huge concerts in April in the area. I'm out, I'm afraid.
 

and lodging rates are astronomical. Over $1000 a night in some cases There are three huge concerts in April in the area. I'm out, I'm afraid.
 

Any pharmaceutical commercial advertising a product which may result in death.

Thanks, guys. I hear you. I dream of waking him by sucking his cock in the morning.is this too pushy? Too invasive? Do I ask for permission each time we start a new round, a ñew activity or is permission automatically granted by the agreed overnight?