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The potty rules seem very difficult to migrate. 1) Do I clench my pearls if I think there is sex afoot? 2) Do I clench my pearls if I think a FTM is next to me? 3) Both? 4) Am I ever allowed to do my business and just leave, regardless of who is next to me, or what I think is afoot?

Did you all read the last 3 paragraphs of that article ??? Seems to me the only thing allowing these tactics to proceed is that the 2022 court case was against state actors.

EXACTLY!!! And if you read the whole story linked above it references the 2022 court settlement where the Port Authority "used discriminatory practices with plainclothes officers, falsely arresting and accusing gay, bisexual and gender nonconforming people of public lewdness and exposure in the terminal’s men’s restrooms because of their actual or perceived sexual orientation. The settlement suspended the practice, required LGBTQ+ sensitivity training and found multiple officers and the Port Authority liable for violating the Fourth and 14th Amendments."

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If you're so damn fragile that you need tranquility to take a shit, get yourself a cheap hotel room nearby, or schedule a visit with a gastroentrologist. If 600,000 people go through Penn Station each day, I can't imagine the public bathroom at Penn Station is a tranquil, relaxing, spa like experience. When a commuter needs to use a public bathroom, he is likely headed to a dirty, crowded space, with lots of people coming and going. A commuter should be entitled to decide who he exposes his naughty bits to inside a stall and not be exposed to federal authorities sneaking a peak through cracks and crevices. Let's hope these arrests result in voyeurism lawsuits and the government pays out and gets the message.

Typically when I know someone well enough to share personal details about my life, I know them well enough to ask their thoughts on what I shared. Especially if it's my BF, or if I get a response from anyone else that I didn't expect or understand.

It would be a beautiful world if my definitions of too aggressive or too timid were adopted by all. Even better if my mannerisms, expressions, and moods were universally understood. In the mean time, I'd likely have to stop the guy trying to finger bang me on the dance floor, and then create one of those mental pro/con lists to see if, or where, the interaction would go. And, because I remember the "affirmative consent" movement, I'd throw the finger banger a certain appreciation for being on that end of the spectrum. If a boy at the other end of the spectrum looked up at me doe-eyed at the end of the night and asked if he could kiss me, or hold my hand, I know there wouldn't be a snow ball's chance in hell he would get a second bite at the apple. We are clearly not a match!

I've found it to be a double edged sword. @purplekow I am by no means accusing you of this, but I think the ideal would be to find a doctor who doesn't assume my sexual orientation is the most likely cause of any complaint. If I present with stomach issues, "giardia" may belong on the possible list of causes, but it's not quite an Occam's razor simply because I am gay. I really wish the doctor's online profile told me THEIR sexual orientation. It might give me the best prediction for a doctor who is more "aware" of the possibilities, but not so prejudiced as to assume it was the root cause of every ailment.

Some of my favorite pieces have both cymbal crashes and triangle tingles. Sometimes one really makes me appreciate the other. But typically, one directs me to contemplate if the other truly is preferable.

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I am going to do the best I can to stay on the side of being transparent, while not endangering anyone's license. Beforehand we discussed attire and what I expected in a sensual or erotic massage. He agreed to both. I will not say I used the phrase MT, but it'd be impossible to accomplish what I wanted , and he agreed to, without MT.

I am not criticizing Orlando's ability to communicate clearly. I'm faulting him for his ability to to follow thru on what he communicates. If I had hired for a therapeutic massage, and if the style wasn't what worked for me and my body, I pretty much would have left the review at that. I have had plenty of those experiences, and I just continued looking for a therapist who's style did work for me. BUT, I didn't hire for a therapeutic experience, we didn't communicate about a therapeutic session, and I didn't pay the therapeutic base rate. I fully support every provider's right to their own boundaries. Unfortunately, those boundaries aren't clearly in black and white with Orlando. Even based upon your own review statement and then looking at the ad. We can debate all day about the meaning of the terms "sensual" and "erotic," and we may even be able to chalk up individual communications to misunderstandings and language barriers. However, when you say "I'd like to see him in jocks," haven't you ever asked yourself why you don't get that when the pictures in the ad clearly indicate that option is on the table? If anyone wants to see Orlando for a completely therapeutic experience, go for it! Recognize ahead of time your likely not getting more than that, and my experience is that there is far better therapeutic sessions out there for a much better price.

https://rentmasseur.com/orlandott In the top 5 for the worst massage I have ever had. Apt was clean, he was clean, and on time. That ends the positives. It was neither sensual nor erotic, and wasn't even quality therapeutic. His manipulations of the erogenous areas on the front and back were rough and uncomfortable. Fully dressed, no MT, or HE. He spent about half the session steaming or wetting towels and then using them to scrap oil off my skin. Never asked about pressure, and the motions were simply repetitive strokes.

So. . . like no stray bullets floating around in your luggage? 😉

Glad to hear that you post good comments about clients when others providers comments have been negative. I must say though, I was surprised to hear that you don't post positive comments if there is nothing about your client there already. I feel like it would be an added service I'd welcome from a provider, especially if he were a regular. More importantly, it would seem to be a plus in helping ensure sane piece of mind and safety for other providers. When a provider sees a new client, I assume there's always at least a bit of anxiety about who is showing up at their door. I also assume that the anxiety would be at least a little less if they see that 1 other provider had a safe experience with the client. Not to mention, if a provider has 2 offers for Sun afternoon. Client A has put a provider(s) at risk in the past, but has no reviews because they change their number or their previous providers didn't use MN. Client B has no reviews because they've only been a great client. Wouldn't it be prudent to write that client B was "good" in order to keep another provider from choosing client A?