TorontoDrew

As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens.  Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges

My local selection, although large, is full of rather unappealing providers these days. I can enjoy a vivid Jack-off session before falling into a deep sleep for free.

I have tried Seeking before, and it seems many supposed providers on there are scammers. I've had some success with Hunqz before, but honestly, RM seems like it has been my best bet for finding a good crop of providers.

God I don't hear that nearly enough.   LOL

anyone with recent experience...if he's been on/off working for 15years then the profile age of 28 is quite a bit off lol

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An old joke was "What's a West Hollywood Top? A bottom who hold his own legs up.

"Bottom " means total bottom. 
"Vers/Bottom" means total bottom. 
"Vers" means total bottom. 
"Vers/Top" means total bottom who doesn't want to always go through the effort of cleaning out.
"Top" means top...unless the other person has a bigger dick and then he becomes a bottom.

Always best to ask them if you have a definite preference. 
I describe my role as vers top. It’s because I usually top. It’s assumed I top because I’m hung (that assumption is a whole different subject!) but I’m happy to bottom if asked. 

I will also add that sometimes a provider listing as versatile/top may say versatile, but they don’t necessarily mean that they will bottom. You have to talk with them to be sure. Because some will do something typically associated with versatility, like mutual kissing, or mutual oral or mutual rimming, but won’t bottom.
Otherwise, I’m in total agreement with what @DMonDude posted.

I once had a very hot personal trainer. I had many fantasies about him. He was a nice guy and knew I was gay, but he was painfully straight.

Funny you mention this fantasy. Over the years I’ve had providers do curls or kettlebell squats wearing only a jock strap. I love massaging their muscles with jojoba oil while they work up a sweat. It’s one of my favorite forms of foreplay!

I must admit, it’s really hot when I’m out cruising and a guy turns his baseball cap around and drops to his knees.

Most of us have experienced similar disappointments with a much desired provider. You handled it perfectly. Don’t let it discourage you from future hiring. The guys on this forum are a great resource for finding a new provider. Good luck! 

Darling, you’ve probably just dodged a bullet. I understand the disappointment; it’s happened to many of us. Consider yourself lucky. Give yourself a day or two and then start planning your next encounter. Thank you, also, for telling the community about your experience. 

Hey all! I have an upcoming cruise and was wondering how other providers go about letting people know they’re/you’re available to hire? I can set RM travel location to Miami or Fort Lauderdale before and after the trip, but how can I signal that I’ll be on the actual cruise? I know some clients often do want to hire during these, but I don’t necessarily want to broadcast to the entire Atlantis Telegram or Facebook groups. On the Istanbul to Athens cruise, I had a door decoration with a left-side Kelly green hankey, but it was unfortunately too subtle, which I mostly expected. (Although it did win me a first place ribbon and a bottle of Moet!) Suggestions?
https://rentmen.re/TravisChambers

I sense you haven’t been on here long? 🫣
I agree with you on flaky clients. Many of the dilettante types are just getting off on the enquiry. Honestly the number of ‘hey are you free today / tomorrow etc’ to whom I respond but who then simply go quiet is astounding. What do they do?… Get bored? Lose their phone? Forget they asked?. Why ask me, get a reply and then ignore it? I’ll never understand that. Or the ones that message with ‘hey’ and then silence….what’s that about? Trying to see if I’m real? 
Same day requests are annoying if I can’t do them because it feels like income foregone but I’d rather they ask me because sometimes it works. This is a service business, you do need to be a bit flexible to clients requirements, within what’s reasonable for you. If you want the predictability of a 9 to 5 job….go and do a 9 to 5 job. I certainly wouldn’t do that! I love the variety of the job. 
I don’t see many scams, it’s mostly impossibly pretty females sending me direct messages on X. If only they looked at my X they’d see its full of gay porn. They’d get more chance of me falling for it if they send me some hot topless guy asking about a collab. That I’d probably reply to 😂

 

 

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

A lot of would-be working guys in Austin realized they can make more on OF than escorting.  
I know several tall, built, white guys in Austin who could make a small fortune quietly escorting, but they don't want the bother and for many of them, they're just not cut out for it.  They work better solo or with guys who are in their looks league.
 

Perhaps someone adopted him.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

https://rent.men/AdamChris
https://rent.men/Codywilliams
I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before.
They are both sexy and passionate men.  They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me.
A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.