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1 hour ago, cany10011 said:

Thank you for sharing. We chatted and I wanted to firm things up but he blocked me. Good to know. 

 

sounds like he has some real anger management issues, haha

16 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

This didn’t go so well. He made me touch her vagina. It was slimy. I wiped it on her thigh. She said “can you please not wipe my pussy juice on my leg.”  

it DEFINITELY does not work for everyone, as your response very well states, haha

Just now, Pensant said:

That’s one I’ve never heard of!

i would really have trouble with that one.... lots of trouble with it in fact

3 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

especially when his behavior makes us doubt about his presence on here. 

 

haha - i think we are ALL here looking for the same thing, and i btw LOVE the pics you post, so thanks for that to you and everyone else that posts similar stuff here for all of us

2 minutes ago, BnaC said:

You know for sure that those are not the posts I look at.  If you’re uncertain, ask the admins to check…but, I guess we are back to our sparring…

and how are we supposed to know that "for sure"?

i was asked to impersonate a bike messenger - that was OK

i was asked to be a food delivery guy - that was OK

I was asked to be an "illegal immigrant" - NOT OK

any bisex fantasies? MMW situation??

On 5/17/2022 at 10:51 PM, Drew Collins said:

Blocked for texting a short and sweet hello....and inquiring as to his availability over a period of a few days.  Oh well.

Never ever encourage an asshole - you dodged a bullet, man!

2 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Yes this. Mindless fucks may be had on hook up apps but someone professional who is focused on your enjoyment and who understands male arousal (or female arousal for that matter) is usually more often found via providers. I think the biggest sex organ is the brain, start there and work down 😉. 

wow.... and this 100 times over!!

interesting discussion here, thanks everyone

the ONLY difference between the 2 RMs I see at this point, is that on rentMasseur I can find some guys who honestly are into the true spiritual science of bodyworking (licensed or not) while on rentMen such a conversation would just feel totally out of place

i am always on the hunt for guys who do introduce a kind of mindfulness into their sexual work and even though i wish there were sites that were more specifically into that, for now rentMasseur is as close as i can ever get.

agreed?

4 minutes ago, twinkboylover28 said:

Hotel St. Denis was the "most affordable" hotel I've stayed at for "no thrills."

The prices have likely skyrocketed there as well.

no thrills?

The RM ad seems kinda "low effort" though - my first response is that he has a good attitude and could be fun.

But I want to know more before committing to anything, right?

2 minutes ago, The Big Guy said:

Interesting topic.  I have a regular I have been seeing for about 3 months.  About 6 weeks ago, I had the opportunity to host which usually does not happen. We usually meet at his place.  We went out for a nice dinner, and returned to my place for some fun and some wine.  At the end of the night, in spite of my pushing, he refused any payment.  I just figured, he was being nice since I paid for dinner and wine.   Last week, he texted me and said he wanted to meet outside our usual paid arrangement.   Flattering but I am not sure where to go with this next.  One of the best regulars I have had.   I am significantly older so I am not sure if he just wants to meet as friends or if their is an attraction.  I am very interested but also don’t want to be a fool.   In any event, it seems like a good problem for now.  

I offer a ton of advice to you that is all contained in ONE word:"Boundaries"

Have that difficult conversation sooner rather than later - you will thank me later on. I promise. Take it from one who knows.

Given the choice, I prefer to HOST... better for me and I think better for the client because I can control the "ambience" of the situation -- they get to indulge in a more total experience in my own setting, instead of a hotel (last choice for me.... never totally comfortable) or their home (I don't know what to expect).

There is one downside to my hosting - I hate having the client have to now deal with public transportation (NYC) or a drive home.

For me the answer is easy...

Due to my particular "niche" I will not ever do more than one a day, unless one of the requests is specifically for a therapeutic/sensual massage, and expectations are made clear.

Trying to do more than one a day is not good for my health and is unfair to my guest.

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

There was an escort in this site who bragged about "on average having 5 guys per day" EVERYTIME he travels...

I'm sure 5 guys a day do happen but not every day on average meaning some days he has 7 and others he has 3 guys a day.

Back to your question a person can't be in two places at the same time, if someone wants to see him at 9 and he has someone 8-10 PM... unless the client is more flexible it might be impossible. 

 

5 times a day? 7? 3?

Sounds like a great reason to pass him by, but of course no companion is going to ever say to a prospective client that he could only slot him in between guest #5 and guest #6, of course, so one has to follow one's hunches and make smart choices.

Back to the question....

46 minutes ago, samhexum said:

 

 

The Ukrainian band which took home the top prize at the Eurovision Song Contest has sold its trophy for $900,000 in order to buy drones to help their native country fight off the Russian invasion.

(I know this is political, but posted it here for continuity.)

it is not political... and thanks for sharing...

the question of the day also is where will Eurovision 2023 take place:

https://eurovisionworld.com/eurovision/2023/event

11 minutes ago, nycman said:

One should always politely decline. 

It takes less than 2 seconds.

Cut and paste a canned response, if you’re truly deluged with requests.

You never know when you’ll be in that part of the world again, or he in yours.

I would never reach out to someone a second time at any point in the future who didn’t even bother with a polite and simple "I’m sorry I’m all booked up. Hope to see you another time."  I refuse to give my business to those who can’t run theirs. 

Totally agree.... the biggest complaint I hear is when someone reaches out and gets crickets in response!

9 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

Ambience includes so many variables. The safety of the neighborhood, the overall cleanliness, the privacy (roommate/boyfriend/girlfriend?…Mom?) The room’s set-up for activity scheduled. All those good, but in very noisy building with thin walls. A lot to cram into a single response isn’t it?

Yes, you are right.

When I host (which I prefer to do) I think about that the guy is probably nervous and anything I can do to create a place that shows security and comfort is good for him. I liked the "ambience" idea but I would change the word to something that actually means something when you hear it!

Just now, marylander1940 said:

 

On the way there Point Bonita lighthouse 

 

 

 

From Baker Beach to across the Golden Gate (Marin headlands) you have plenty of bunkers from late XIX century to WW2. Does the OP like to walk? 

yes! marry me, please!😒😍

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

 

 

and if @jtwalker has time Muir woods!

Btw how old are you? are you WHP? Plenty of walks to do in San Francisco, maybe not for your average American. 

Pleasssse add Point Reyes to your suggestins!

49 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I stay away as well for the most part from guys with no reviews and especially if it's a brand new ad. Been too many times I see someone like that pop up and then a month or two later he has some negative reviews or feedback so I feel fortunate to have dodged a lot of bullets. I have only hired one guy who had a brand new ad with zero reviews. We had a longer than usual sending of messages and a facetime as well so I at least knew he was real and it actually ended up being a decent session. Not perfect though as he listed kissing on his ad and then in person said he didn't do kissing. I should have asked in my initial messages but again he had it listed on his ad so I took it for granted. That wouldn't have happened if he had reviews as I have reached out as well on RM to guys who have reviewed providers to confirm details like that.

Totally agree with you.

I have met guys with new ads and no reviews who are asking for $400.... or "how much can you pay" which is nuts-o!!!

2 minutes ago, nate_sf said:

San Francisco, as well as California, has become a convenient punching bag for the media, and it's becoming really annoying. It has its urban problems, like most big cities, and it suffered badly during the covid lockdowns, like most big cities. And yet it attracts a disproportionate amount of scorn from the media, which often has a different bone to pick and uses SF to illustrate whatever point it wants to make.

So cranky rant aside, I'm glad the OP has thought to ask, rather than just rely on what the media reports. Yes there are indeed homeless, but I've never had a problem with them and I've lived here 25 years. The Tenderloin is gritty and depressing, but also has those cool things that the rosy summary @azdr0710 cited. Great American is one of my favorite places to see shows. But also add 6th Street between Market and Howard to the list, that place is grim and is classic skid row. I used to live a half-block away from there, and though I never had any safety problems, it was a bit much to take in.

Things got quiet and miserable during the covid lockdowns, but now the city's neighborhoods have bounced back. The Castro is vibrant, and the "parklets" (sidewalk dining) that were introduced during covid have mostly remained so there are a lot of people out and about. There are still too many vacant storefonts in the Castro, but that predates the pandemic and doesn't take away from things. 

Recently I've been to a couple of restaurants on Union Street and in the Marina, and while I have tended to not considered those areas my scene, I was impressed how vibrant the areas are and how much fun it was. SF is a city of neighborhoods, but unfortunately so many of the hotels are located downtown so not everyone gets to experience that. A friend just visited and stayed at Parker Guest House, near Dolores Park, and had a great time. We went to a cafe next to Duboce Park, ate at my favorite breakfast place in Dogpatch, and had fun dancing at a club on 11th Street. 

I've lived here since 1998, and had been coming to the City for years before that. It has indeed changed, and I still think my favorite time here was the 90s. But I was younger then, and like any dynamic city things keep changing. There are things I miss from years gone by, but other cool new things appear as well. I'll admit I'm biased and like it here despite its flaws.

i was in oakland a few months ago and it was funny how my friends there warned me that my old neighborhood has become full of homeless, motorcycle gands, pot smokers, prayer circles, etc, etc.

actually, they were just wrong. my old turf was vibrant and full of energy.

when i was in SF sure the people i like to think of as living on the edge were definitely out on the streets but where else are they supposed to go? was their presence unwelcome? sure - but there were only menacing to my sense of "how could this be happening here?", not to my personal safety.

there are some areas that have not gone the way of NYC-gentrification, sure - but i am not certain that is a 100% bad thing.

12 minutes ago, LIguy said:

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