Jump to content

Otterlybelievable

Members
  • Posts

    123
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Hide Eyes
    Otterlybelievable reacted to pubic_assistance in Michael NYC   
    Is this a trans ? Those look like small breasts.
     
  2. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + sniper in When the Masseurs notice you browsed their profile...   
    A couple have blocked me just for looking at their profiles more than once,  not even their locked pics. I generally consider it a favor because they told me all I need to know that I don't want to book them.
  3. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to foleynyc in When the Masseurs notice you browsed their profile...   
    Or simply turn off "My Visibility" on the dashboard
  4. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + dctraveler in AITA - Questioning the Price   
    Price increases to accommodate an inflationary environment in itself is not the issue, but it's how a business entity goes about properly notifying their clientele about it. The problem with many of these independent masseurs is that they are often completely clueless on how to handle business end of things, with setting proper client expectations being one of the most crucial elements. A client being told of such a price increase (with an explanation) *before* an appointment is booked makes a world of difference for a client's overall experience and so many of these masseurs just do not understand this. Most clients would accept the increase and understand the justification behind it, and some that do not wish to accept the increase can simply refuse the newly increased price. 
  5. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to Capitano in AITA - Questioning the Price   
    WOW, how unpleasant and unfair! I'd be SO done with him too.
    Today's inflationary environment can be used as a convenient excuse to confirm the masseur's "current rate" no matter how many times we have seen him. I've been doing that recently, nothing beats having their text message in defining the terms of the exchange.
  6. Eye Roll
    Otterlybelievable got a reaction from + dctraveler in AITA - Questioning the Price   
    Somewhat related experience a few weeks ago - I saw one of my favorites that I hadn’t seen in about a year due to various scheduling issues on both of our ends. I was used to paying a certain amount for a 60 minute session with him, but after the massage he said his price was $100 more than what I previously paid. I mentioned that he hadn’t said anything about that when we booked and that it’s not reflected on his ad (it used to list his rate but now says “ask me”). It was a good massage so I paid the inflated rate but no tip and I’ve got no plans to see him again in the future 
  7. Haha
    Otterlybelievable reacted to CuriousByNature in Rainer - LA_Finest   
    I have an incredibly sexy ankle.  It's just one of them that's super hot.  The other is only so-so.  Would that count?
  8. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to massagenewbie84 in Legit Massage v. Masseurfinder/RM   
    I agree in that it’s the thrill of the unknown, and the dance between me and the masseur, figuring if they’re game. Ive had luck with masseurs where the text exchange had nothing about going further at all, but the massage itself did go further. I usually respond to their initiative; them putting their clothed crotch in my hand, or brushing their bulge on my head. Or if they brush their hand in certain areas, I’ll let out a moan to show that it felt good. 
     
    Those are my most memorable masseurs, the ones I go back to. I usually don’t go back to any that present a menu of options. I like the organicness of letting the massage session unfold. 
  9. Applause
    Otterlybelievable reacted to soloyo215 in Legit Massage v. Masseurfinder/RM   
    Just my thoughts, not law: I think that for as long as we are men, especially the gay kind, we are always going to like the thrill of the unknown. I also think that in a massage setting, the masseur has the upper hand and can decide to give hints, as well as how far he's willing to go.
    Here in Spain where I'm vacationing, I scheduled a massage at the hotel where I'm staying, not a gay hotel, just a mainstream hotel that has a spa and offer massages and spa-related services. When I scheduled mine, I was asked "Chica or chico?" (girl or boy?) for the masseur. I said "Chico" because, why not? Not expecting anything other than a nice relaxing massage, as the facilities are for all kinds of hotel guests, I went to my appointment not expecting and not even having anything in my mind, other than a relaxing time at the pool, the sauna and the thermal baths. The massage time came in, they gave me this paper/disposable g-string to wear, so I wasn't "naked". A minute or two into the massage, the nice gentleman masseur pulled the paper/disposable g-string down. Half an hour into it, the masseur and I almost break the massage table having sex. The fact that it was unexpected did add to the excitement and thrill of the whole thing. However, I am 100% sure that none of that happened if it wasn't for the initiative that the masseur took. Personally I don't give hints if I don't get one first, so to me, it's up to him.
  10. Eye Roll
    Otterlybelievable reacted to pubic_assistance in My Favorite Men's Spas in Manhattan   
    ....Him make nicey nicey for cleint. You go now.  so good 👍
  11. Like
    Otterlybelievable reacted to Cooper in Alex/blessings   
    Administrator’s Message
    Gentlemen, I bet you saw this warning coming. Let’s stop the back & forth attacks and stay on topic. Our Guidelines cover personal attacks and the actions moderators will take. 
  12. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + EVdude in Alex/blessings   
    Where in the world is this coming from? @BooBear seems to be the honest and genuine one here. No provider should ever expect to be the end all and be all to every single client.
    Perhaps a Moderator needs to step in and put an end to this.
  13. Like
    Otterlybelievable reacted to FLJock in Erotic massages $260-$350 in NYC?$   
    Thanks for the Lucamassini rec, he's in SFL from time to time and I've always been apprehensive because of the higher price.  Will try next time for sure.
  14. Applause
    Otterlybelievable reacted to Medin in Erotic massages $260-$350 in NYC?$   
    Having a guy jack me off for the last 2 minutes of a mediocre massage (usually) is definitely not the same as sex and I expect the rate to reflect that.   
  15. Haha
    Otterlybelievable reacted to relax man in Scottchas   
    I assume you mean that the last review was in 2021, but the way you phrased this sounds like you're saying his clients go missing after seeing him.
  16. Haha
    Otterlybelievable reacted to FLJock in Scottchas   
    LOL, I thought the same thing.  Was about to do a Google search for masseur+clients+not so happy ending
  17. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to NYMassageAddict in 411 on Asian masseurs in NY   
    If they don’t want to share a face pic, then don’t post one. But posting someone else’s pic seems pretty shady to me. I don’t think it warrants calling someone “Karen” because it’s a dealbreaker to them. 
  18. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + sf westcoaster in “Dude Wipes” …   
    No, but I think it is an excellent idea.
  19. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to Bluefin in 411 on Asian masseurs in NY   
    Fake pics are a dealbreaker for me regardless if he looks “close enough”. I’ve seen guys who don’t post a face in their ad but will send you one when asked. There are ways to be discreet while maintaining ethical standards. 
    And yes, I am concerned with the massage and if I wasn’t I’d hire an escort.
  20. Thanks
    Otterlybelievable reacted to Alex.Blessings in Alex/blessings   
    There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
     
    I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
     
    Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
     
    In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
     
    I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
     
    Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
     
    That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
     
    Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
     
    It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
     
    I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
     
    I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
     
    I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
     
    I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
     
    To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
     
    To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
     
    I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙
  21. Haha
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + azdr0710 in Alex/blessings   
  22. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to + WestGuy in Alex/blessings   
    I have seen Alex a few times but not recently, although I would definitely go back to him. Sounds totally out of character for him based on my experience, which was excellent in every respect.
  23. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to uclablueyes in Looking for the best deep tissue NYC has to offer   
    Bar none, Blessings for me 
    https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings
  24. Haha
    Otterlybelievable reacted to pubic_assistance in THE masseru TROY NEW TO EAST MEN why so many customer back to he?   
    Hysterical
    Seems like Tory needs a better translation tool.

  25. Agree
    Otterlybelievable reacted to mkm556 in Rentmasseur; Best Private Pics   
    and Cubanbd
    Cubanbd on RentMasseur
    RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com  
×
×
  • Create New...