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He changed his name from "rwfh" to the current HarlanFH a couple of years ago. Here's a link to a Forum post about him.

I'm not usually one to jump to conclusions about legitimacy, but when I see the following in a profile I classify the guy as "fake:" New boy in town for a good time "Hey ! I am new in town and super horny. Very discret [sic] athletic boy, bi and very open. This wording seems to be used by every questionable escort who lands in a city. They never say "I am new to Los Angeles" (for example). It's always "in town" or "in the city." They also never say "I am new..." it's always "New boy..." I used to joke about "I sportif and give good sexi" when "Russian models" would visit (they always used "sportif" or "sporty") Now, it's "New boy in the city..." Every time I see that, Lea Thompson and her show Caroline in the City comes to mind. I hope I am wrong, but not so sure that I am.

Under "Spoken Languages," English, Espanol, and Portugues are all stated and have been stated since at least June 2023 when I first added them to my buddylist and database of buddies.

Here's another question: Can't one not click on the "article" and move on?

The forum rules about no reviews have been relaxed to allow members to provide brief commentary about providers. Except for mentioning his name and providing a link to his RM ad, you have done that. There's nothing wrong with providing his name and profile link. Since you are asking a question about hiring, this thread should ( and will )be moved to "Questions About Hiring." There are a couple of things you can do: Reply to a thread about the escort and state what you did here. This is a fairly common practice in the Forum. Start a thread in the Deli about the escort. Most members prefer that you reply to an existing thread so as to keep all of the feedback in one place. It also makes life easier for us moderators who have to locate and merge the multiple threads about the same provider.

The best way to find the answer is to ask one of the providers whose ad mentions "special services."

They are doing it for two reasons: stopping sex trafficking (RM seems to be an unlikely source, IMO) and stopping people from working in the country while entering on a tourist visa. While I think there are better and more important uses of DHS's and IBP's time and resources, I do not believe it has anything to do with homophobia. We don't know whether female sex workers are also being detained. I'm going to guess they are.

Thanks. Initial texts are always tough because one never knows where a guy might be when the text arrives. I always joke that I'd hate to send a raunchy message to a guy while he is having lunch with his aunt, Sister Modesta Chastity.

Some of my least enjoyable experiences have been with well-reviewed. highly touted providers, while some of my best experiences have been with new guys and guys who are not often talked about. I've found that some providers are highly touted because they are. It seems like no one wants to say "I had a "meh" time with Provider X" when everyone else raves about them. I have a pretty easy way of determining whether a provider is a good fit for me: If something seems "off," the ad is off-putting/rude/self aggrandizing, or if it seems sketchy, I move on. No matter how handsome, worked out, or well hung he is, if something doesn't seem right, I do not pursue a meet-up. Period. Obviously old pics, especially when they are recently uploaded, are a no-go. There was an escort who had mirror selfies (so far so good) and one of them showed his phone (also fine). It was a Blackberry smart phone that was exclusive to Sprint and has been out of production since the 2010's. All of his pics were from the same time period. Pics that are also used in someone else's ad are a no-go. There was an LA-based escort who used a cropped version of a pic that a Palm Springs/Phoenix based masseur also uses. The masseur used them first. I took a pass on the LA-based escort. In my first communication I state what I am looking for and ask what he thinks about it. If a guy replies with "yeah, sure" or "'sup" or "what do you get into" or some such, I see that as a sign he isn't paying attention. If he isn't paying attention to what he has read, I can't see him paying attention in person. To me, this warrants a pass. In fairness, most guys reply with an enthusiastic "yes," or state they do some but not all that I am into, or state they are not a match. Note that when I am texting a provider I always start with "Hi, I am [my name] and I saw your ad on [the website I saw it on]. Let me know when is a good time to discuss a potential meet-up." In this case, a reply of "what's up," "hi," or "what do you get into " is appropriate because I haven't told him what I get into. Once I have his attention and I know he can text I describe what I am looking for. Like his ad, if his responses seem off, I move on.

FWIW, his profile started displaying in Phoenix over the weekend, despite his ad starting in June and him having a 602 area code (602 is the original Arizona A/C). Wondering if he is from Phoenix and is back home visiting or has recently relocated.

That looks to be an iPhone 6, which was released in 2014. So, yes, old pics.

Another "new boy in the city." Ugh Our linguistic friend might want to study his capitalization and punctuation. It's pretty bad.

A favorite, long-retired escort once said "If you want to play in the back yard you will see some dirt."

A "massage only" advertiser and I are not a match. Whenever I see an ad like that I simply move on. It is that easy.

BTW - the ad is down. EDIT: It went back up sometime between 11/8 and 12/30

"MerryMichael" has a Connecticut phone number while Ian has a Los Angeles phone number. Also, Ian is 5'10 and 170 and has been advertising since 2016. As we know, MerryMichael is 5'11 and 130 and has been advertising since November 3. I'm calling BS on this guy. Anything and anyone who advertises as "high class" and "exclusive" typically is neither. UPDATE: Reported MerryMichael to RM.

Moderator's Warning: Enough with the insults and sniping back and forth. Stay on the topic (Dustin in NYC) or don't post.

Moderator here. Actually, it is the correct forum. The Deli is the forum where members can discuss escorts and escort experiences. Given the member is requesting information about whether a dancer also escorts, this is the place to ask that question.

He and a few other escorts appear to travel as a pack. https://rent.men/GayEscorts also advertises as XXX on Friendboy. "GayEscorts" and "XXX" are new names, but I can't remember his old name. The other escorts are: ERO: https://friendboy.pro/boys/ERO who used the same name on Rentmen, but that profile is now blank. His prior FB names are MrBlueEyes, Summertimer, Summer_timer, and Summersfun. DOM: https://friendboy.pro/boys/DOM. He seems to have used the name consistently since May 2022 READit: https://friendboy.pro/boys/READit who used the names MuscleWorshipAndFootFetish and READ

Moderator's note: We had four (4) threads about the same provider, all of which have now been combined into one. [Getting down on my knees, this might take a minute. OK, there] 👉Please search for prior threads before posting a new one.🙏

I sent him a message earlier this year when he was in Phoenix and he never replied.

His Rentmen profile is https://rent.men/JUANLATINSTUD Hmm...out getting dinner when he should have been prepping for and conducting the first half of your appointment.

Why, yes. It does. Unless it's an elongated/blobbish seat.

Is it just me or does the wrist in the pic where he is holding his cock look different than in the other pics? It looks smaller to me.

I just tried the link you posted above and it worked.