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I've contacted several guys and ended up hiring two from Mintboys. One was great and the other one seemed a bit sketchy. Both have also started advertising on RentMen. As for the guys I didn't hire, a couple just seemed interested in sending emails, and the rest either didn't reply or were no longer working. Since then, I've found that the guys I'm interested in also have RM ads so I contact them from there. Most of the guys on MB don't appeal to me.

Firstly, welcome to Company of Men. I suspect the combination of "gentleman" and "smokin' hot physique" (not the least of which is your butt) will endear you to most of our members. As a bottom who L-O-V-E-S to rim, I can tell you that bottoms will be lining up for a taste or two.

If there was a way to auto-respond to topics about overnights and multi-day sessions, this would be the auto-response.

I frequently have some back-and-forth about the session in advance of it taking place. Not cyber-sex but going over things we both like/don't like/are absolute showstoppers. However, I'm also careful to avoid turning the exchange into sex-via-text. As @pubic_assistance's post implies, there is a limit to the amount of off-the-clock time should be spent discussing specifics. Another way to approach the situation is to ask if the provider would be willing to have a 15-minute call/message exchange in return for one quarter of his hourly rate.

I live in Phoenix and before that San Diego. We know a thing or two about Southwestern food. Never, ever have I seen spicy ketchup as the default offering. That's just weird. I can see having both "regular" and "spicy," but not just spicy.

Here are links to prior discussions about him: At one time, he went by SteveL, but he changed it to his current name in late 2022.

I hate to be the bearer of this news, but women in gay strip clubs (and clubs/bars in general) is not a phenomenon of the last ten years. I saw it all the time starting in the mid-1990's when I started going out to bars. Doing the math, 2024 - 1995 = 29 years ago. It didn't seem like anything new back then, either.

Thanks for posting this, @coriolis888. He and I have chatted, and he was very, very nice. Unfortunately, our schedules did not mesh. FWIW, his profile on The Best Flex has been consistently active and it has consistently stated he is available to meet.

To you, sure. To him - who knows? He might like hairy guys. Then don't. Next time he reaches out, let him know you are back to your hairy self and ask if he likes hairy guys. Should he answer affirmatively or state he doesn't care, take his answer at face value and hire him (assuming you are in the mood to play). Should he tell you he prefers guys who are shaved smooth, then you know his preference and can decide what to do next. In my experience, providers have not reached out unless they have asked me if it OK or if I asked them to do so. However, if a provider reached out without us discussing it first, I would not be bothered. To me, it isn't a question of privacy. Keeping in touch with friends and business associates is what people do. Ask yourself: what difference does the reason he contacted you make? To me, it makes no difference why an escort contacts me. I take the outreach at face value.

I'm not a fan of massage guns, but a masseur whose pics displayed on or who asked if I want him to use one on me would not deter me from hiring him. Like anything else, I'd say "no thanks, I prefer you use your hands." For whatever reason, that approach works.

And....the pizza is here. However, those who shitposted unrelated crap and fought with one another don't get any. They get expired ketchup smeared on a stale saltine.

The negative review was written by a member whose only other review is negative. Makes me wonder what's going on there.

Interestingly, the reviewer's other review is also negative.

Can't tell whether he give good sexi but he does look sportif.

I always say Chicagoans love to eat, drink, and fuck. One of the things I miss since moving away. I wouldn't call it "wholesome," but it isn't Folsom Street. If you want that, go to IML and hang out in the hotel stairways.

You should report it as a bug. I reported a bug in the "Stay Logged In" feature. The problem? Didn't sat logged in.

Cockiness can also be a coping mechanism for anxiety and/or self-consciousness. Standoffishness, too. Speaking from personal experience.

Did you find that rates varied by season?

It has been a while since I have gone to Market Days, but like Pride there are all types of men there. Lots and lots of all types of men.

According to one of the slang dictionaries, the expression comes from "dripping with..." as in money, style, finesse, etc. You know, like totally rad. I don't get it, either.

"OC" could also be Orange County, Florida, although no one ever calls it that. It is funny to hear people say they live in "Orange County." Irvine? San Clemente? Anaheim? Fountain Valley? All wildly different places. But back to the topic. On those occasions where I take a road trip to see an escort there is always something else on the docket of things for me to do.

I tried Anal-eze and it burned like hell (I have very sensitive skin). So, there was no pain associated with the top fucking me but there was burning from the Anal-eze. And, no, it was not an STI. It started immediately upon it being applied to my anus. I had the same sensation when I later used Oragel on my gum after a toothache.

For a massage, I typically go to the masseur's place. Seems a lot easier than having him haul his table to my place, set it up, etc. For escort sessions, I typically host at my place. That said, I have travelled to another city (typically Pam Springs or LA) to see guys and will book a hotel as I will be staying at least one night. So far, no one has no-showed but if they did I would call another provider.

Ohhhhhhhh....I wonder if they have loosened the rules a bit. In the past, a post with the word "meet" in it would not be posted. Thanks.