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Most guys I've talked to charge $300/hour. Giving a $50/hour discount for booking multiple hours would be a smart move, as at least one hour would be split between chit-chat, getting ready to leave, and saying "goodbye, thanks for a great time, etc." It also saves the guy the time and frustration of winnowing through twelve inquiries to book four bona fide one-hour appointments.

As we used to say in the men's coming out group I co-facilitated, the only person you need to come out to is yourself. Everyone else is optional. We also used to say that you need to protect and provide for yourself. If being out would jeopardize your safety, living situation, or livelihood, then don't come out until you are in a better situation. That said, when being closeted starts gnawing at a person and they feel like they are "living a lie" or "not being genuine," it's time to think about what one is getting from being closeted vs the hesitation to be out. To answer your question, everyone has a different feeling about men who are not out. Additionally, there are as many definitions of "being out" as there are people. I consider myself to be an out gay man. I have no qualms discussing dating men vs women, I have no qualms about joining LGBT groups at work, and I don't hide who I am. However, I don't declare to everyone I meet that I am gay. I did that 25 years ago and there's no reason to keep doing it. If someone doesn't understand what it means when I discuss a boyfriend, or joining an LGBT employee resource group, or any other myriad things gay men do, then that's on them. I'm a terrible artist and can't draw them a picture.

The poor dear must have had a reaction to the treatment she received when she was gravely ill a couple of months ago.

Take a gander at the signature line in his post.

It happens. My guess is it has very little to do with you. FWIW, typically, I send a note describing what I am looking for and ask if the provider thinks we are a match. If so, I inquire about his rate and decide whether or not to schedule an appointment. I don't include my budget when inquiring because it really doesn't matter to the escort what I am willing to spend. When he states his rate, I can make that determination. Glad to hear it! Like I said, it's them not you. Jope you have/had a great time.

The pictures he is using now (12/28/2023) are different than the ones he used when you made the original post in November. His RM pics were posted 12/10 and 12/11 2023. The current array of pics looks to be of two, possibly three, different guys.

🎄🌴🌵Merry Christmas!!🌵🌴🎄

Moderator's Warning: Enough with the sniping and trolling. Stick to the topic (hiring at the last minute...). The thread has served its purpose and is now locked. Do not take your arguments to other threads.

Moderator's Warning: Enough with the sniping and trolling. Stick to the topic (hiring at the last minute...). The thread has served its purpose and is now locked. Do not take your arguments to other threads.

You might want to take a peek at this thread, which was started when he advertised under SexyMuscleTop. I've hired him and would be happy to share my experience via direct message.

He has logged into his Friendboy ad this month. It says he is in Sydney.

Somehow, I missed the news that giant pandas might return to the San Diego Zoo after being repatriated in 2019. Here's the story from the San Diego Union-Tribune.

On RentMasseur he uses a different screen name and his ad states he does therapeutic and sensual massage. "Erotic" is greyed out. My guess is he tries to separate his massage and escort businesses.

And for those who would like a working link to his ad, here you go: https://rent.men/John_Bronco

At $35 per month, his OnlyFans ought to be a hologram that projects into my living room. If he did meet clients, one has to wonder what his rate would be. Sarcasm aside, if he is using an RM ad as a means to drive traffic to his OF (as he seems to be doing) paying for both Platinum status and being a supporter seems to be an expensive way to do so. Maybe that's why he charges $35/month.

In pic #5 he is holding an iPhone with a triple camera. The first one to have this feature was the 11 Pro, which was released in 2019. So, at least that one was taken between 2019 and now.

Seems like no one has. If I lived in SoCal I'd take one for the team.

I haven't received very many massages in 2023, but the best one of the year was by far Jake Hunter in Phoenix. My massage was strictly therapeutic, but man-o-man was it therapeutic! An old back injury came back to haunt me, and he fixed me right up. No pain afterwards.

Same thing happened to me. The above displays results for "Adamadonis" (no space between the names). Prior threads referenced "Adamadonis" and "AdamAdonis," so they displayed in the search results. When I searched for "Adam Adonis" (space between the names) I did not see the same results. Invision Community (the software that makes the forum go) is not quite as fuzzy as Google or Bing.

Moderator's Note: One thread about this guy is sufficient. Threads have been combined.

It really was fun. Circling back to the topic of "gifting," the bride and groom at this wedding stated that they did not expect gifts, but if anyone DID give a gift they would prefer money to contribute toward their honeymoon or a donation to the local arts center, where the bride works with children.

Hmm...parents budgeted $10K. How much did the bride budget? Oh, ha ha, my mistake - she expected mom and dad to pay for the entire thing and didn't want to contribute a dime. I "get" registries, when they are reasonable. For example, a friend was in his late 40's when he married a woman who is around his same age. They both have classic, simple tastes and prefer modest over ostentatious. They live in NYC, his family lives in Chicago, California, Argentina, and France and hers lives in Vancouver BC and Hong Kong, so they registered at Crate and Barrel and Macy's for things they needed. Their dishes from Crate and Barrel were the basic white dishes they have sold for decades. I think each dinner plate was $10 or something. Their wine glasses were the basic ones from Macy's as was the cookware (I think they wanted a stock pot and chef's pan - they had everything else and didn't have those items). They weren't going to register, but her sister received all manner of expensive, ostentatious, over the-top crap and they decided that a registry would encourage thrift and moderation. It worked! @Rudynate, I'm guessing this is a registry you could support. That's a good one. Same here, but I made an exception recently for an extended family member. She and her now-husband are mid-40's (her second marriage and his first) and are not at all materialistic. They rented a space at a local country park (they live in Watsonville, CA and the park is in Aptos), invited only very close friends and family, and had the wedding catered by a local taco truck. The wine and beer came from Costco and the cake came from a local bakery. Her dress was on clearance at David's Bridal and the bridesmaids wore regular dresses - no coordinated dresses in bizarre theme colors. It was an absolutely lovely ceremony.

One of the articles about her life stated she withdrew from public life in (I think) 2018. While very sad that she succumbed to Alzheimer's, at least she had 88 good years.

With a few exceptions, I would rather not receive a gift. I am nearly 60 years old and have accumulated so much stuff that I'm donating and selling stuff. When my dad (an artist) passed away, I acquired my favorite pieces, so I don't need any more artwork. One of my close friends is a potter, so I'm all good on home decor. Many flowers and plants are toxic to cats, and I have two of them. And, frankly, I am at a place where I can buy whatever I want. The exceptions to my "no gift" rule are art pieces made by friends, food (preferably made by a friend or friend's friend), and candy. "Art pieces" includes pillow covers, quilts, and such. My potter friend is a talented quilter who makes some very quirky quilts and, thanks to her great eye for fabric, has made some beautiful pillowcases, potholders, and even a briefcase. My sister-in-law is very crafty as well and has made me some very nice pieces over the years. I can always find room for that stuff.

He changed his name from "rwfh" to the current HarlanFH a couple of years ago. Here's a link to a Forum post about him.