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  1. I was living in San Diego, so I was still asleep when the first plane hit the WTC. I woke up to NPR every morning, and remember Bob Edwards saying something about a plane hitting the WTC and thought I was still sleeping and was dreaming. Upon realizing it was not a dream, I thought it was a small plane that hit. That notion was crushed in short order when the second plane hit and the third plate hit the Pentagon. Numb, I got ready for and went to work. Everyone was equally numb. We were all walking around like zombies. A former client, a Blue Cross plan, had offices in the WTC. The entire company was fixated on whether any of the people we knew were in the tower at the time. The owner gave everyone the option to go home or stay at work. Living alone, I stayed at the office with everyone else who lived alone. To say it was surreal is putting it mildly.
  2. In the days before payment CashApp and Venmo, I hired a visiting escort at his hotel in San Diego. I gave him cash (PayPal was very wonky at the time) and he asked where the nearest deposit-taking ATM was. Unfortunately, the only one from his bank was not nearby. He was ready to take a bus or an uber and I volunteered to drive him. He accepted my offer and treated me to a late dinner for driving him. Now that we have payment apps, most providers I hire prefer using the apps over using cash. They don't want to carry large sums of cash.
  3. Moderator's Note: As several members have pointed out, ONE thread about a particular topic is easier to follow and more likely to garner replies than two, let alone three of them. All three (3!!) identical topics have been combined into one. Please do not start any additional threads about this topic. Speaking of "please do not," let's stop with the sniping.
  4. @KensingtonHomo, I forgot to comment on this part of your post. This is exactly my concern when asking about body hair, or anything else for that matter. When the provider's pics are a mix of hairy/smooth I will say something along the lines of "I love the pics where you are hairy. Are you currently hairy or are you smooth? My preference is hairy, but I don't want you to change just for me."
  5. I typically ask. So far (almost 30 years) no escort has been put off. A couple of guys have mentioned they are freshly trimmed/shaved and asked if I wanted to wait until the hair has grown back to hire them.
  6. I recently hired a guy whose political beliefs, I learned, are the same as mine. However, I neither needed nor wanted to hear about them during my massage, especially after asking him to please stop talking. There is absolutely no need to discuss that during a massage!
  7. I tried this just now. Logged into rent.men as a premium member and could see explicit pictures. In this case, the guy had his legs spread and I could see his cock and balls. Logged out of rent.men and viewed the same guy's profile and could not see the explicit pictures I just saw while logged in. I remained logged out, viewed the guy's ad on rentmen.eu and could not see the explicit pictures. When I logged in I could see them. Seeing or not seeing explicit pictures is dependent on whether you are a premium member, regardless of which site you log into.
  8. Another non-sarcastic answer: It means inquire about their safer sex practices.
  9. It sounds like you and the escort aren't a match as travel companions. Time to move on,
  10. Early this year I hired an escort and had a good time. Not great, but good. Shortly thereafter I injured my knee and was laid up for several weeks. During that time my apartment was pretty neglected because I couldn't put weight on one leg. After recovering, I was faced with a monumental housecleaning task. Enter the escort. He routinely checked in on me and more than once offered help cooking and grocery shopping. So I asked if he could help me clean. He immediately replied "yes" and asked if I wanted him naked or wearing a jockstrap. Turns out, he likes doing routine household tasks naked. I hired him for 90 minutes and he was here for three hours and did a fantastic job. I'm asking him to come back soon, as it's time for fall cleaning and it will go faster if he helps me. He insisted on doing it naked this time and who am I to stop him? Will post an update after the deep cleaning is done.
  11. I used Rentmen.eu, configured to display thumbnail view, to gather the raw stats displayed below. That view displays profiles in rows of 4 and 15 rows per page. The last page will display however many rows of four plus a row containing the remaining profiles. As you can see, "Top only" comprises 29% of the total profiles, "Versatile" comprises 28%, and "Versatile/Top" comprises 22%. I was a little surprised at how few bottoms there are. Seems odd that there are only 540 escorts on Rentmen who identify as a bottom.
  12. I started taking zinc supplements a few years ago for immune system health. A welcome side effect has been a big load. One thing to note is you want to take copper and zinc together. Zinc supplements can cause a copper deficiency, hence the copper supplement. I take a supplement that combines the two in one dose.
  13. He has both. We were discussing "being someone's type" and I mentioned that as I've gotten older, there is no longer a specific "type" that interests me. I also mentioned that twenty years ago I might not have hired him because he doesn't fit what my type was back then. He said "you aren't my type, either. But I get aroused by getting you aroused. And you worship my penis like no one else has." We both laughed. We also agreed that being so comfortable with one another that we can have this conversation adds to our mutual attraction and appeal. HA! Good one. They certainly were.
  14. A long since retired, well-reviewed and revered escort had a similar setup. He was very proud of it and I just played along. It was the tackiest thing ever. I was entertaining a regular hire and had put out my nice, fluffy and thick bath towels for him to use when showering. (They are always out - I use them myself) He finishes the shower and yells out "hey, do you have different towels?". We had played with oil and he didn't want to get the nice bath towels all messy with oil. The worn Target towels did the trick.
  15. Hah! I'm the same. I don't think it odd at all. Being a good host is important!
  16. Within he framework of the MasseurFinder ad template, I'm not sure where else to list that parking is metered. I like knowing in advance if feeding a meter is required so I can plan ahead. Some meters still require coins, which I don't always have in my car.
  17. It isn't a sacred dance. It is a conversation starter, which goes like this: Advertiser: "Hi" Me: Look at provider's ad, think about whether we are a match, think about whether I want to hire. If the answer to those questions are "Yes" I reply with something like "Thanks for reaching out. Looks like we might be a match. Here are the things I like to do..." If the answer to those questions are "No," I reply with something like "Thanks for reaching out. I'm not looking right now." If I am interested but not ready to hire, I reply withe something like "Thanks for reaching out. Looks like we are a match, but I'm not looking to hire just yet. I will reach back out when I am." When I don't want providers contacting me I make my profile invisible.
  18. I don't care whether the provider finds me attractive or his type. He is there for me and my pleasure is what's important to me. That's not to say I will alienate a provider, but it is to say the session is about me.
  19. There's a very busy mall-turned-power center near me in Central Phoenix that had a struggling outparcel formerly occupied by a Pier 1 and Texas Roadhouse. IHOP moved in and that building took off. It now has a sandwich place and a fish place, in addition to IHOP, and all three are super busy. Quality wins every time.
  20. I've been eating at Chili's when I take road trips and I'm happy to say they have improved. Their recent attempt at "improving the guest experience" seems to have been sincere. They are one of the few restaurants (of any type) who can steam broccoli correctly. Hot and tender but not soggy. I could probably eat their chips and salsa with a side of broccoli and be happy.
  21. The Rentmen gods have smiled upon you. He now has two additional reviews (total of seven). One is dated August 7, 2025 and the other April 17, 2025.
  22. rvwnsd

    Ron_power

    As of 8/16, no ad. Looks like he took it down or changed his name.
  23. What neighborhood is he in?
  24. Moderator's warning: Do we really need to tell you not to troll, attack, and talk about each other in a thread called "The Mean Girl Dynamic on Company of Men?" After reading several posts, it seems we do, so here we go: Stop trolling, attacking and talking about each other, and veering off topic. Also, just in case anyone was contemplating doing so, no sniping or fighting.
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