Tactile Daddy

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TORY WORK EAST MEN ONLY ONe week , each day had more three guest reback book for  he , i want know is he cut or massge skill , or his  eguipment  bigger than  normal eouropeans 

TLIT! Totally Lost in Translation.

Hysterical
Seems like Tory needs a better translation tool.

Just an additional comment - this issue isn’t just about providers
I can think of at least 5-6 people I know in my geography who declare they are negative on prep in their online dating ads - but I know (because they have told me) they are positive. 
whatever reasoning they may have and however naive it may be for someone to rely just on that statement we need to wisen up and manage our own care. 
having experienced (as I’m sure many have) providers and Hookups trying unsuccessfully to get me to change my mind about how I wanted to play “in the heat of the moment” - I’ll add that split-second wavering is less likely if you have a firm belief based on knowledge and your situation internalized. 

YOU are responsible for YOUR own health.  
My hope is that those who lie about their status are also on daily meds that keep them undetectable.  U=U.
Since that's impossible to know for sure, if you're going to tread amongst male escorts and the sex trade, it's your responsibility to protect yourself.
Unregulated industries have their downsides.   This is one of them.

I just remind myself that every provider may very well be positive and have STIs and, in response, religiously take my daily PReP and get tested regularly. 

I feel a tad strange weighing in because I've never been a client of "Darius"-- nor will I ever be. Because I know him personally and it would just be too weird for me. And he doesn't have any clue I've even seen his ads and I don't know how he'd feel about knowing I had. And I'm not going to bring it up with him. But that noted, seeing the hubbub above, I feel compelled to sort of stick up for him. I've spent many hours (in totally professional, platonic situations) with him in close quarters. The pix are very much solid representations of what he looks like. The guy above who says he doesn't look like a Ring photo or that he's "mixed" and somehow doesn't look like the pix… I have to tell you, he looks like his RM pix.

Knowing "Darius" as I do, I'd be very surprised to hear about any fights which someone else mentioned. He's a gentle dude, and a sweetheart of a guy. I think he's handsome, and again, if you like his pix,then you'll like him in person. I've also been in a sauna with him (again, in a totally platonic situation), and those pix are what his body looks like. For whatever it's worth. I can't speak to the private dick pic-- haven't seen that in person. But face and body-- the pix are spot-on.

There's a lot of hearsay here in this topic and while I can't speak to the experience of being his client or if his pricing is weird, etc., I can tell you the photos are completely accurate. And I know "Darius" to be a very decent human, at least "IRL." Maybe the pro "Darius" who I don't have experience of is a jerk? I don't know, but I really doubt it. Feel free to DM me if you like.

And before the sewing circle here with its many weird hypotheses decides to wonder if I am Darius posting on his behalf, check out all my other posts. I'm just a guy who uses this forum. And as random fate would have it, I happen to know the provider IRL and can speak with authority to some of the nonsense spouted above. Scout's honor.

An admirable salami like that deserves The Deli.

But his ad or information got your attention didn't it?     For me,  size is only one part of the whole package.   If he was 8 inches,  I wouldn't care if he was good otherwise and was accurate with his photos and description.     

Wow, he’s spectacular but at that rate the session needs to be extra deep

Best in class and a class act.

I had the great pleasure of meeting Mark when I was working on the Central Coast and he had traveled up to Monterey. I had an early evening appointment was was pleasantly surprised when I got to his hotel room… it was dusk and the room was lit with several candles burning and the massage table was set up at the foot of the bed… and let’s say when Mark opened the door., I knew I wouldn’t be disappointed! Needless to say I had a very memorable session… technically the massage was terrific, not to mention lots of fun! 

Just had to add my praise to the throng. I had my first session with Mark a couple weeks back and it was truly amazing. 

By the way, his current RM profile is now: 
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I wouldn’t quibble on the cock front, assuming he’s real. There’s always a risk of getting stiffed.

I'm confused. A fireman from Oklahoma was with Mark Dalton in 2014? Or a gymnast? Or did the gymnast become a fireman? And did he do any porn with Mark Dalton?  If he looks like the pics I've been with much worse and paid more. 

Ah. I remember that from dating

There is great value in occasional spontaneity, and the provider may often ask himself the same question.
Strangers, mutually in the moment is an engine start for some. If you are feeling coerced into something, then stop and leave. 

But…having your planned, consensual interpersonal communication be essentially through pleasurable physical contact, and quickly develop into semi-explosive chemistry that is brief but memorable, and no more? The very point of hiring massage, for me.
Even with repeats, it’s about finding brief sexual chemistry where I get to have fun after body work. I hire combos from escorts who massage, when I know damn well what I want. 😂

Got to go on my last trip to LA. Was a great experience. And yes - right next door to the very popular restaurant, Jitlada. Highly recommend and will be going back when I’m next in town. 

Thanks for the contribution @BeefyDude. Traveling guys are all a little bit different. I agree the pricing should be as transparent as possible, but if they are at least quoting you upfront when you inquire, that should be ok.
Traveling has many costs. Fuel, transportation and accommodations are the big ones, but also the time it takes to travel between cities. For example I had a four city tour last month and was driving all day between each city, and two days for the first stretch. That’s at least 6 days for that tour and those are whole days I am spending considerable $ but not making anything.
In addition to travel costs you’re still paying for all your normal expenses at home like rent/mortgage, utilities, maintenance, etc. We have to charge what makes sense to cover ALL of that AND make a profit above and beyond what we normally make in order for it to make sense to travel. Otherwise, we’re busting our butts and going way out of our way for the same or less as we would get working out of our home cities. Has to make economic sense!
For my last trip, I tallied my total income minus expenses and it was higher than my average monthly income but not by a huge margin. It basically bought me a week off which I sorely needed after working so hard hustling for 3-4 weeks…and I used that week to move out of state to California, which was not exactly a vacation lol. Frankly I’m not surprised other guys might charge a bit more when they travel. Opportunity is high, but so are the costs.
Ads are a lot to manage when you’re going on a trip. I have at least five different ads plus my personal website. I’m not going to update rates on all of them and then change them right back 1, 2, or 4 weeks later. Meanwhile confusing my home city clients who view my ads at all times whether I am away or at home. I update my travel plans on ads that offer that feature, but not the other stuff.
I don’t change my rates when I travel. The main benefit is that I’m booked back to back every hour of every day when I am in another city. I charge the same but do more volume than I do on an average day in my home city. It’s quite exhausting working 13+ hour days one after the other after the other, but it can be great for a short stretch. Some guys change what they charge to cover travel expenses and/or adjust for a different market, whether that be higher or lower pricing.
I can’t replicate my incall experience when I travel but I get as close to it as possible. I’m in the minority in that regard. I refuse to book hotel rooms because they are so impersonal and almost always lack the space I need to set up a table and move around it freely. I refuse to give crappy bed massages. I need a table to provide a proper massage. And I’m not paying for a suite $$$.
So…I rent AirBnBs and set up in a manner as close as possible to my home setup. I bring a towel warmer, stone heater, extra large table, all my own linens, aromatherapy, products, speakers, waters, cleaning and laundry stuff, and everything you could think of. And I have access to a washer and dryer. I can’t understand how the hotel guys do it. If you’re giving multiple massages per day, that means you’re re-using dirty linens! 
If you ask me, you’re getting a killer deal considering my prices are the same and yet I’m doing a lot more and spending a lot more to make an excellent massage experience available to a client in another city.
If a masseur quotes you something a little bit more when he’s traveling, have some grace. If it’s too much, decline and move on. It shouldn’t be outrageous. A nominal upcharge is not that crazy, especially if the masseur’s regular rates are reasonable to begin with AND he delivers a high quality experience. If he’s charging 200+ for “massage only” I have no pity. If he’s charging 120-160 or possibly less (per hour), I find that pretty reasonable. 
My pair of pennies.

I stay very busy, and my costs are only going up. Taxes, general costs of living, and business expenses are all higher in California than in Texas. I will also be commuting daily from my home to a business location, about 45 mins each way (vs living on site in TX).
Nobody is happy about higher prices, no matter how slight, and I know only a percentage of the market is interested in hiring me at any price - BUT let’s say you were a client interested in hiring me. What do you think about the proposed changes below?
I’m particularly interested in your opinion if you are located in the San Diego area.
Proposed Pricing:
Massage
$80 / 30 min (vs $75) 
$150 / 60 min (vs $140)
$210 / 90 min (vs $195)
$260 / 120 min (vs $240)
^add to any massage:
  $40 / 15 min hot stones (vs $35)
 
Body Care
$50 / 30 min body scrub (vs $45)
$70 / 45 min body trimming (vs $65)
(body sculpting removed from menu)
 
Cuddle Therapy
$80 / 30 min (vs $65)
$150 / 60 min (vs $120)
 
Full Service (no change)
$300 / hr
$500 / two hours
 
Escort Service (no change)
$1,000 / five hours
$2,000 / overnight
$5,000 / weekend or (2) days
$1,000 / additional day after (2) days
$10,000 / week
 
Notes:
Escort service is all inclusive; companionship, massage/spa, and full service, any combination.
Massage pricing is consistent for therapeutic, sensual, and erotic style massages. 

Tactile Daddy is absolutely amazing (hi, Mark!). You just melt under his hands.
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Escorts are on The Deli.

Bump! Wondering if anyone has taken the plunge? He looks pretty damned hot - those lips, those eyes, those hips, those thighs . . . And all of the rest, too