purplekow

To me, the key item in your post was the last line: "I am extremely lonely," No job is worth being extremely lonely. That gives you two choices: Get another job. That does not seem to be something you want so that leaves #2 Find friends and lovers who accept you for who you are and do not care what you do. Fo out, meet some people and have fun. If the subject of your job comes up fine, answer honestly. IF the topic does not come up. once you see that you have met someone of interest as a regular friend or lover, have the conversation. I realize that "so what do you do?" is usually an early question in meeting people. so be prepared to answer it forthrightly and unapologetically. If you seem embarrassed or ashamed of what you do, you have to expect they will pick up on that. You might offer an anecdote at that time. i.e. "Three years ago I met an attractive older man at a bar. I decided to go home with him and afterwards, he asked me how much for my services. I realized right then, I enjoyed myself and I had the opportunity to get paid. That was the day I decided to try doing sex work for a living. I love what I do, but it does take a special guy to accept that in a friend or lover. Are you a guy who can do that?" That will not be the end of the conversation if he thinks he can and if he can't it is better to learn early.

If you were planning an immediate hook up I would call it off. If you were just in the getting to see stage, sit back and take a deep breath. You already paid for the video so, if he comes through with that, even if not on your schedule, then you can see if you like the goods and go from there. I used to be much more concerned about timeliness and "professionalism". Now, if I like what I see, I place the order and wait for delivery. I also do not exclusively set my plans around the date. I always have something else I could be doing if the provider does not show up. I find I am much more relaxed when the provider shows and a lot less disappointed if he does not. Granted I have a rather free schedule most of the time and so it may be a lot easier for me to do this than it may be for you. If that is the case, move on. This is supposed to be hot, carefree sexy fun. If you are not having fun or if you are stressing over it, it definitely is not worth it.

His presentation in pictures is impeccable. The verbal presentation is confusing. Perhaps that is a result of the head injuries. Certainly mouth watering but it looks as though that is all your mouth will get to do.

I heard that through the grapevine. Amy Grant? Did all the other christian and country artists turn the award down?

I thought this was going to be a thread about sandwiches. I would be holding out for a sub. Others would be holding out for a hoagie.

I was discussing this topic as an educational opportunity with the medical residents I supervise. I told them that my father was in the hospital and expected to be discharged that morning. I received a call from his doctor who proceeded to start to explain what was happened with my father that morning and he started describing exactly what was done. As he was talking, I did not know how this prolonged story would end. I finally blurted out anxiously "Is he dead". My mother who was listening screamed and ran from the room and the doctor finally said "Yes". I told him then, and I told my residents this morning, as they say in journalism, Do not bury the lead. ( Insert dead joke here) Start with: Your relative died this morning. All the condolences and the rest of the details will become a blur to the family, but they will know definitively what the end of the story is.

I do not presume to know your lifestyle but 72000 a year for co op fees along with whatever you can net from the sale of the co op makes it seem that you could go almost anywhere, stay ostentatious free and still live quite a nice life in retirement. While I am still working, albeit only for the next 6 months, I believe I could be very content with the funds you mentioned.

If you were interested in meeting him, then you should just have proceeded without the question as to whether or not he is a sex worker, unless there was some urgency in the contact and you wanted clarity fast. Otherwise, that aspect would eventually. become clear. If you were not interested, the question of whether or not he was looking for a job or a blow job is moot.

Weekends are crowded. It is a long walk from the parking lot to the beach so on very humid days there tends to be fewer people there. Although it is clothing optional, many people opt for clothing. It is a nice beach but it is not Fire Island crazy or Provincetown crowded. I live about 2 miles away and I go there rarely.

They are adults I assume and as such are capable of making their own decisions. I would also imagine their their fee will be a premium fee and as such economically it may be a deal with the devil they can make. As a 60 something year old man, I do not believe that most of the men I hire actually want to have sex with me, but are willing to do so because the economics is right for them. I see no difference here. As they approached you rather than the other way around, I cannot label your behavior predatory. In fact, it may be that they have heard you are well off and that is one of the reasons you were approached. So they may be the predators. Still, this is supposed to be fun and if you are going to start having regrets about the encounter before it has even happened, I see no reason to pursue it. Ultimately, this encounter would be for your enjoyment and it does not sound as though you are starting it with a sense of excitement that is part of the enjoyment. Thank the boys for their interest this time and if you regret it, it is likely they will be back.

I have known Bill Erickson for some time and have hired him about 5 times. Always fun if you are into hairy men. His partner is also available and is a very sexy South American, Argentinean I believe. Hire him when I was in Palm Springs in the morning and hired William for the afternoon. A fun time was had by all, and by all, I mean me.

As far as I have read, the only thing known about the age of the neighbor is that he is about the same age as the OP children, which could be in 20s. Second, I mentioned in my first post, and I believe I was the first to do so, is to make sure he is 18. Asking some one who is hitting on you if he is gay in a direct no seductive manner, is not anything which should horrify the neighbors.

I do not have access to private photos so I was disappointed that there was not one pic which actually highlighted the dick in the ad. Even in underwear or a speedo, did not have to give away The whole ballgame.

I am surprised as to the number of responders here who think just asking if he is gay will cause the world to collapse and for him to beached with bats and pitchforks out of the neighborhood. Simply, ask if he is gay and make no judgment about it and and offer no further comment no matter what his response. If he asks why you ask, tell him you though he might be flirting with you but you were unsure.

You just might ask him. A bit nerve wracking to be blunt, but it does get the job done. So invite him to help and then at an appropriate time just ask. Are you into guys at all? Are you interested? You could run around the edges but those are the questions you want answered, ask them. Of course, insure that he is at least 18 years old first.

I was saddened to hear of her passing though we had never met/. She brought a sensitivity and honesty to this forum with a definite feminine perspective. This forum is a lesser place with her passing.

I guess the count down is fully on as on last check there were 100 posts to go.

Since this post, I have had another positive experience with him. Hotter and easier than the first.

That video was terrific. I wish I had seen it when I first started having sex with men. It definitely was a master class in fucking ass.

For some reason an ad featuring Charles Barkley and Chris Redd as the voice in his head is amusing to me. I just enjoy the way Chris Redd does his Barkley impression. " You son't want to be a knuckle head. Are you hun gree. I am hun gree, We are hun gree".

While World seems to have faded from front page news to yesterday's news, I continue to play daily. I have recently found Octordle and find it very challenging. Anyone else playing it?

QAF to me was just a dramatic Friends where the Friends were all Gay. It was innovative for the time, but this time around I guess it will just be another gay soap opera with R rated sexual content.

So, I guess I will see you at 7 PM tomorrow then. I will be the fat guy in the cow suit. SURPRISE

Well after my encounter, I can attest that it is definitely not 4 inches. Had a fun time with this sexy Brazilian. Easy to reach. Came down to me in NJ from NYC. Was pointing to the sky hard for most of our two hour session and I sure it would have been for the whole session if I did not really work to get him to come. Sweet kisser and a very nice guy. A bit pricey but for me worth the convenience of his coming down here to me. Will answer questions if you start a conversation with me.