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  1. I am not a big fan of the holidays and it seems to me that escorts also have additional family obligations and friends to visit so their schedules tend to be a little tight. So while I might enjoy some time with them, they have a personal life to which they need to attend. As far as generosity at the holidays, I do try to be generous with those providers I encounter. BuffaloKyle, I lived in Buffalo for 4 years in my younger days. It seems to me those cold days are a perfect time to in a warm bed with a hot man. Don't let your libido go on vacation, enjoy it while you have it. Getting an escort to come to Buffalo in the winter may be a different issue.
  2. A PUNishing post
  3. I used to hire a couple who worked together and separately/. I had a great time with them. They hardly interacted with each other at all, which meant the focus was on me but I never asked them to interact with each other which would have given me a breather in our two to three =hour sessions, As a result, my legs were always wobbly leaving their apartment. Eventually, I came to enjoy one of them more than the other and they were reluctant to work with that and so I stopped hiring them. A threesome I had which occurred spontaneously after an escort I had hired suggested that his friend who was at a party with us, join us. That did not work out as well.
  4. I have a different take on this. I do not find it strange that actors or athletes or singers may touch a person's life in a way that is disproportionate to the actual significance the interaction. As a boy my baseball hero was Mickey Mantle which was not unusual in NYC at the time. When he died more than 30 years later I was more affected by his death than I was with the death of some family members and others with a real world connection to my life. And the impact of his death lasted for several days. But Mickey Mantle for me was, as a 9 year old, an aspiration and a real inspiration. Not the real life alcoholic, misogynist, absentee father, but the person I imagined him to be, confident, capable and heroic. I imagine many children of the 90s had a similar feeling about the cast members of Friends or perhaps other shows. The images of these characters came into your home weekly. They made you laugh and they had problems which were relatable to your life while not being alive at all. The characters were not afraid to be vulnerable, they shared their secrets with you and you knew that they would be there as scheduled each Thursday. And even now, they are there almost all day long, dancing in a fountain or hanging out endlessly at a coffee shop or dating some hot new guy or girl. Matthew Perry seems to have done some good work with overcoming addiction and helping others to do so. There are at least 10 people who come to counsel addicts at my hospital doing real work and saving real lives, but they do not come into my living room and tell me who they are dating. So in that way, the real people do not seem to be nearly as real as the characters. So those flowers are being left for the impact which that character had in their life, for the real unreal relationship that exists with the deceased and the flowers have little to do with the real person who has died. Their involvement in this way is a credit to the work Mr Perry did professionally as an actor and that work is the main reason that most who care about his involvement with helping others with their sobriety. He has succeeded in getting his message across, although for most people, that realization occurred as a result of his passing.
  5. The first time I went to a strip joint I was a 16 year old college freshman and some of the more experienced 18 year olds took me to a place in downtown Buffalo, do not recall the name. The first dancer came on and danced to the Popcorn song and I was mesmerized by the way she bounced her breasts until finally the bra she was wearing loosened and she continued to dance in rhythm with the song bouncing her breasts for the full time. I do not know if that is talent or dedication but it was amazing enough that I can still see those breasts in my mind's eye bouncing and eventually freeing themselves from the bonds of he bra more than 50 years later. the+popcorn+song - Google Search WWW.GOOGLE.COM
  6. Once you have finished the prep work, I will be trying to get on the list like Swifties on the first day of ticket availability. No ifs and or butt plugs.
  7. Ah if only you were more inclined for others to get behind you.
  8. My wife and I used to celebrate thanksgiving alone. I worked while she prepared dinner and then when I arrived at home from the office, I was ready to spend time with the person for whom I was the most thankful. We even got married on Thanksgiving weekend. Now, this time, being the 24th year since her passing, I will be having dinner at home. Usually I am alone and thankful for the solitude and for the fact that I make a great turkey dinner. I do not leave the country, rather I celebrate the concept of being thankful even if it is being thankful for what once was. Of all the holidays, I would say I am most thankful for Thanksgiving.
  9. This thread reminds me of sitting at the Thanksgiving table and having someone ask each of us at the table to say for what we are grateful. The usual responses are the food, the company, good health or gratitude for many blessings in life without specification. Soon enough, someone is stumped as to what to say or more likely how to say it and that ends the chain as the guests start to clamor to get to the food. I always felt awkward at such times and I was always most grateful if the chain did not get around to me. That was usually because I was fortunate enough to be one of those who truly have had so much for which to be grateful. I do not have an acquisitive nature. I set my expectations of my life in a way that I want for little and I get by with what I have. That has always been the case. When I was younger, I had little and got by quite contentedly with cans or tomato soup and rice. Dinner was either a can a soup, a bowl of rice or a bowl of tomato rice soup. I do recall being surprised and disheartened when the price of a can of tomato soup went from ten cents a can to eleven cents a can. I asked one of the employees of the store why that happened, and he explained to me that things change and not usually for the better, so I should get used to spending more, getting less and hoping for the best. I decided that he was probably right and that rather than wishing it was not so, I should work hard and make sure that I was prepared no matter where life would take me, I have found that this has served me well and for this lesson I am very grateful. I now am comfortable in my life. This Thanksgiving, if I should be asked for what I am grateful, I will be able to say I am grateful to be free from the fear of hunger, and lack of shelter and for the good company I have on my travels through this life. I am grateful for the great good fortune to have led a basically healthy life, In addition, rather than to be stumped there, I will also be able to say I am grateful to have led a life a compassion and service. I am grateful that I am able to help many around me who are in need and for whom a small increase in the price of every day staples is a battle rather than an inconvenience. I am grateful that I have led a life I can look back upon with minimal regret and maximum delight. I am grateful to have learned to look forward to the big picture rather than focusing on any temporary difficulty. I am grateful to recognize how lucky I have been , for how well my life has worked out and for the opportunity to express my gratitude to any and all who wish to listen. I am grateful to The Rolling Stones, who perhaps express it as well as any when they sing: If you try some time, you just might find, you get what you need.
  10. Well seems as though he will take it up the ass for cash (it being a dildo or strap on from a woman) and he would prefer to have sex with women when given the social opportunity.. The classic gay for pay. No pay, no way. But he does not seem to offer that.
  11. I have been asked for a deposit on one occasion. The provider was traveling an hour by train to see me and he asked for a $60 deposit by Venmo. I decided that this was reasonable in view of the time he was putting in to come to me and the risk to him of spending 2 or more hours on a wild caboose chase. He showed, we had a fun time and on future encounters, he did not ask for a deposit. I paid the deposit knowing full well that it may be money poorly spent but it seemed worth the risk and it was.
  12. I used that same costume several years back but added a tray with a masked stuffed with newspaper and some other items such asa plastic hatchet and plastic spiders in some garnish around the stuffed mask. Would walk around as a "head waiter: and ask people if they wanted some head.
  13. Bunch of assumptions there. One hour is the time spent with the client. Just like making a meal, there is the preparation and the clean up and the purchase of the necessary ingredients. That is all part of the time spent. There is keeping the body in shape and with the ability to perform 2 times a day for 5 days a week. And most of all, there is the assumption that you will find clients to fill 520 time slots a year. Travel expenses also come into play. Perhaps these things are done easily in the larger cities, but outside of them, it may not be so easy to light up the No Vacancy sign.
  14. The other day I had a guest and I invited him to join me on the bed. He came over the left side of the bed where I was resting quite contentedly and asked me to push over. I suggested that half of the bed was open and that I was quite comfortable. He responded that he always laid on the left side of the bed because he was basically a top and the right side of the bed was for bottoms. I was quite taken aback by this and told him that I had never heard such a thing but that I would gladly move over to the right but that did not mean I was ready to bottom. He stated that he did not care about that but just that he was comfortable on the left and that the left was for tops. Has any one heard of this variation on the earring position? Are you versatile in your side of the bed?
  15. As a client who is not getting any younger, I appreciate that there are providers who like to drink fine wine right from the old spigot. AS to the age differences, the old joke has the older client saying that he is not worried about death during sex, if the provider dies, he dies. I play a variation of this game while walking around in NYC. For each man that passs by me, I try to find something I find attractive about them before the next next man comes along, While some are easier than others, for most men, it is quite easy to find an alluring quality. It is just a matter of looking for what makes them perfect not imperfect.
  16. Always welcoming in the trips to Palm Springs. Not always welcoming to ideas not consistent with his own which led to some interesting and well considered debates. I recall at one of the pool parties he was in a debate with another guest, he was sitting on a couch next to an escort who he would either stop to enjoy orally when his opposing viewpoint guest was speaking or manually massaging the escort's member to emphasize his own point. It seems to me the two things he enjoyed the most were a good debate and good sex, but I know he many other passions such as cooking and traveling and history and....well the list goes on. I know he was a great friend to Oliver and to many others.
  17. So which tattoos does? the picture in your attic have?
  18. Ah so then the answer is still 4 hours when you have taken medicine to induce it. .
  19. How you remember it and the truth are not always the same thing, especially when erections are involved. actuality 🍆 vs memory 🍆
  20. Who would be nailing whom? Either way, I would but the sex tape.
  21. If indeed he is the same Dario who I met in DC about 5 years ago during one of the Forum weekends in DC, he was very nice and very sexy. He was short and muscular and handsome. After the first hour he jumped out of bed and got dressed and I said, I thought I booked two hours and he said OH and immediately stripped off the clothes jumped back into bed and was even better the second time around. I guess if love is lovelier the second time around, sex with Dario is sexier the second time around.
  22. It may be fail proof but it is not fool proof. As with any injection, you need to use sterile technique and be aware of side effects such as penile pain (usually transient), infection (from less than optimal sterile technique), bleeding, bruising and hematoma formation. If you use incorrect technique, you may not achieve an erection. Injecting into or through a vein should be avoided. In addition, priapism, a prolonged erection time when the penis can become painful and if left untreated, can result in impotence. This is also a side effect of Viagra, Levitra and Cialis. The usual length of time considered safe for a medically induced erection is three to four hours. Significant damage does not usually happen until six to eight hours. A warm bath may help the erection become soft again. Orgasm does not necessarily do so. If the erection is prolonged and painful, warm compresses and a trip to the ER where an injection can remove some of the blood from the penis, or a medication can be given to counteract the effects. Rarely, a surgical ;procedure may needed to be done if the other methods have not worked and there is a concern for long term tissue damage. Granted these side effects are rare and can also be seen with oral agents, but you should be aware of what they are and how to deal with them if they occur.
  23. But do they get knocked down and then get up again? As opposed to female excorts who can get knocked up and go down again.
  24. I went back and looked at my calculations and indeed the angles were off by a few degrees due to misreading the sine table. NYC man was way easier and more insightful and my hat is off to him.
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