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As I see it, there are 24 hours in a day. If you have hired someone for three days, there is us together time and us separate time. Some activities are done together and some are done separate and there are activities that can go either way. Meals: almost always together time even if the escort is on a special diet and is not eating what you are eating. Attention to each other is nice but not mandatory, for example if you are eating and watching a movie. Bathroom time, separate at least for me. There are some that may want to be there as the rocket capsule splashes down or when the borrowed beer is returned to the outside world, but for me, I do not need to be there for others and would not want someone there for me. Showers, usually together but post coital showers can be separate. Hey. I am not as young as I once was and after a particularly vigorous episode, my legs are not always ready to move me out of bed. So after a bit of cuddling, if he wants to go off to shower, I may go with him or stay with the scent of him in the bed. Sleep, while I usually like to go to bed together, once I am asleep I do not much care what he is doing as long as it does not interfere with further plans we may have. After I awaken in the morning, I might wake him with coffee or a tea bag, but most of the time the escort is usually already awake. If he is not around, I would expect him to check in once I am awake to see if I am getting out of bed or if he is getting in it, A rainy Saturday morning doing a NY Times crossword while he amuses himself with another bed bound activity is fun. Together and separate at the same time. The major point here is, from my point of view, the escorts is on the clock for a 72 hour interaction and should be available for all 72 hours, but he does not have to be working actively all 72 hours. The number of hours that he is actively working varies with each escort and with each encounter is going to be different. Once again, if you are not flexible about this, you should let him know before the encounter. That goes for the client and the escort.

I recently had a conversation with an escort about this. Basically, I told him I have gone on trips with friends and with my wife. I cared deeply for these people, but I always needed a break from them during a vacation. After dinner, I might take a walk and sometimes I would ask them to join and sometimes I would suggest that I needed some time to think and would like to walk alone. As we were secure in the relationship, there was no concerns of not spending too much or too little time, but if there were, a brief conversation about it would rectify it. I believe that on an extended encounter with an escort, respect for their privacy and their respect for your privacy and a willingness to talk about expectations is all you need to keep things on an even keel. I believe it is easier for the client to do this, than it is for the escort. So as a client, be cognizant of the personal needs of the escort and inquire if he needs more personal time if he seems off his game.

I do know this much about these kind of films, if there was a significant dollar to be made from having body positivity , there would be a bunch of fat, bald, old, differently abled, facially deformed guys collecting every dollar they could from making them

Sexually, most men are visual. While it would be nice if suddenly senior, fat, bald men with an off beat sense of humor and a quick mind were suddenly the new big cock, I am not waiting for my turn at the desirability brass ring. If you want to see the male equivalent of the magazine covers above which promote body positivity, you can find that. But don't expect them to be big sellers no matter how sexy the movie turns out to be. Sure they may be an initial breakthrough movie that catches the eye of everyone, which has reached the tipping point for some reason, but beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but like porno, I cannot define beauty (though it has a lot to do with symmetry of facial features) but I know it when I see it.

Not alone, just in the distinct minority.

Sexually, most men are visual. While it would be nice if suddenly senior, fat, bald men with an off beat sense of humor and a quick mind were suddenly the new big cock, I am not waiting for my turn at the desirability brass ring. If you want to see the male equivalent of the magazine covers above which promote body positivity, you can find that. But don't expect them to be big sellers no matter how sexy the movie turns out to be. Sure they may be an initial breakthrough movie that catches the eye of everyone, which has reached the tipping point for some reason, but beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but like porno, I cannot define beauty (though it has a lot to do with symmetry of facial features) but I know it when I see it.

It is speculated that his intent was suicide but he died in an auto accident. Many auto accidents, especially one care accidents are covers for suicide attempts. In that manner family can collect insurance and they do not have to face the stigma of the suicide, A pity that at any age, but more so at the such a young age as 34, he could not find a way out of the darkness. I guess if he left a note then it is more than speculation but autoaccidnts are not a sure thing in suicides, sometimes it winds up being worse, paralysis, long term brain damage, loss of limbs etc.

It is funny how one can be unfamiliar with something and suddenly it is everywhere. Frette linens was unknown to me three days ago and then it was posted here by a client who went to an escorts home and enjoyed the Frette sheets. Then in was a newspaper article and a crossword puzzle and then on Tv program that is on in the middle of the night and exhibits apartments and houses around NYC. So for those in the know. Do Frette linens make a difference in any bed bound activities? I went to their web site and saw a comforter for more than $4000.00 and was thinking that the comforter ought to give all kinds of comfort for that much money. I have spent $500 for a set of bed linens that were 1400 thread count and they were soft and cool and wore very well. That one time indulgence will not be made again but I am curious as if there is a big difference and I would like to hear how the other half lives, sleeps and fucks on those sheets and beddings. Carefully one would hope. But if you can spend that much on sheets, I guess you spend that much on getting them replaced or cleaned.

Sorry Charlie the baths and showers I am speaking of have more to do with getting dirty than getting clean. And though cleanliness may be next to godliness, I prefer dirtiness that is next to Oh my God-liness.

As he was alone, I think it would have been acceptable to pass his table on the way to the men's room and nod acknowledgement or even offer some small talk, such as small world or some such. But in general, you took the safest route with discretion. He was out of line. However, it may have been that he was going to acknowledge you and he felt rebuffed and somewhat humiliated. That festered and he lashed out at you. That does not excuse his not accepting your explanation and ultimately blocking you.

I have at least 4 escorts with whom I have a friendly relationship. One left the business to become a lawyer and we still text regularly it has been about 8 years since I saw him professionally. Another is someone I actually knew casually through a mutual friend who I hired through an agency 15 or more years ago. I still hire him now and then but mostly we just go out to dinner and text or call. Another stopped the business years ago and he and I still have the occasional lunch. He broke his leg and was bed bound for a year. I called him regularly and visited him in the hospital and the rehab center. He will dog sit for me when I go away bringing his own dog to my home. Yet another calls to complain about his girlfriends and the troubles in his life. He does dog rescues and I have adopted three of his dogs along the way. We speak every two months or so. I have not hired him in 10 years though he was one of the first escorts I hired. His body is still amazing even in his 40s. There is an escort I speak or text with almost daily. I hire him several times a year but the relationship extends to personal matters and advice and general caring for one another. I have been asked to be the best man at a former escorts wedding (he and his GF broke up before the wedding) and I was also asked by his mother to speak at the funeral of an escort (same escort). Now some may look upon this as unusual, and it probably is. But all of these relationships have lasted many years, 8 to 15, and most have extended past the time of their escorting services for me and as a career for them. It seems to me it is easier to develop a friendship with an escort with whom you have had great, non loving sex than it would be to continue to have a friendship with an ex lover with the emotional baggage that goes with it.

Love foreplay or sex in a shower but in a bath I would limit it to forepla. Bathtub foreplay, either soaping up or being soaped up, can be quite sexy. But sex in a tub seems a bit too dangerous. After all, the bath is the most dangerous room in the house.

In reality PCP is way of naming a primary care provider not a medical doctor. This abbreviation, to my mind, has diminished doctor, as if they wanted to name a doctor they could have used the abbreviation PMD, Primary Medical Doctor. PCP suggests equivalency of a Medical Doctor, a Nurse Practitioner, a Physician Assistant and several other professions which have their own niche. If one chooses to use those non-physicians as a primary care provider that should be a conscious decision but by grouping all of these together it clouds the actual educational qualifications of the person you are selecting. Granted on most identifying data, a series of initials after the name will give the educational information to those in the know, However, there are certainly many who do not know the difference among MD FACP, DO, CNP, PA. Or between a resident and an intern and a fellow. Have you been to an emergency room and had the provider introduce themselves by their first name. Nowadays, it seems prudent to ask what level of practitioner you are encountering. I mean, even Dr. Pepper tries to pass himself off as a doctor saying he is a Fizz-ician,.

STorm is approaching and a bit of thunder and lightning. I am now prepared to be crushed by the shared bed with the three ladies in my life. Less than optimal comfort for me but a calm reassurance for them.

Since my wife's passing in 2000, I have had 16 dogs and 13 have passed on. Each passing was difficult but it only confirmed the wonderful relationship I had with the animal and I would not exchange that experience out of fear of sadness of their passing. I can find myself smiling many years later thinking or recalling what one of them did. Recalling how Bonehead got his name, or Holly humped my leg while my life and I tried to have some passionate time together. Deciding not to have a pet is a personal decision but I continue to adopt not because I am not afraid of the inevitable passing ( at this point it is 50 50 as to who is going first) but rather for all the joy that is added to my life. Without my dogs over these last 23 years, I do not know if I could have gotten through many of the personal difficulties and traumatic situations. They have added so much and I would have missed all that if I allowed fear of loss to be the prime mover in my relationship with pertanimals. Dogs can also be great due magnets in parks and elsewhere. So, if anyone out there is not adopting out of fear of loss, consider all there is to gain. On the other had, if you are not willing to give your whole heart and sacrifice some of your own creature comforts (just this week I lost two comforters and a two pair of socks and the rest of a well chewed slipper) then by all means, support the animals that you come across in your life from afar.

Once the question is it a scam is asked, the answer is always yes it is.

Thanks for nod Vin. For me, the Palm Springs event has become one of the highlights of my year. It is somewhere between a high school reunion and a summer camp with just enough lascivious activities to keep it rate R. Okay some of us may try for an X rating but most of that is done in privacy. So once the date is set, I encourage all of the past visitors and any new visitors who are interested to make your plans early. You will definitely not regret it. You may think this type of event is not for you, but once once you attend, I believe that you will find, as Mr. Marco did, that there is something for everyone. The eye candy alone is worth the price of admission.

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If you do not immediately recognize the Pina Colada song, chances are you may not know that personal ads in legitimate magazines was once a thing. (Is it still?)I was driving home today and this song came on the radio. Yes very old school listening to a random radio station in my car. In one lyric it mentions the singer writing a personal ad. I had a personal ad written for me by a friend once but never actually wrote one for myself. It was in the New Yorker and I received about 250 replies. I am wonder how many here have written personal ads, not for business just a random ad that appeared in print not on line. Did you get many responses? Did you get laid?

Totally lips of the heart?

Looking amazing. I think that new protocol is really adding to an already massively sexy man.

I love spanking a muscle ass barehanded. Draven Navarro does indeed enjoy a good spanking but you have to vary the tempo with him. Hard slaps with a loud sound by using a cupped hand and then when he feels comfortable, open the hand and slap so that the slap is just as hard but not as loud and because there is more area struck, it is a bit more painful. That is when you will get the best reaction, a yelp, a moan, even a sob. A kiss to the reddened area and a gentle massage will cool down the area and once he is comfortable again another extra hard slap. For me though, it is the sound of the slap that I find the most erotic, that and the sound of the moan. It is not so much a power dynamic. Also, I never do an over the lap spanking, standing bent over or lying face down are preferable for me. Allows more variation in the intensity the stroke. Spanking is never the main event, so five minutes would be a long session but there may be more than one session in an encounter. Also slapping an ass while giving oral usually leads to a jump and a particularly hard thrust which can be fun. Do not give up after one encounter, and spank when the fancy strikes you to strike him. A belt is also fun but I tend to leave that for one or two strikes as I am concerned I might really strike more than my partner enjoys. The redness after is a nice afterglow image.

You could be a model for the muscular system at a medical school anatomy class. Or maybe we can do an updated male version of this ZZ Top classic.

No the client is paying for them to hook up with him. Just because their clients fit a standard they have set does not change the fact that the client is making the initial contact.