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  1. For those who think he is too young, he will get older. For those of us of a certain age, getting much older is not a guarantee. So jump of this stud, or have him jump on you but do not let preconceived notions stop you from having fun. If it turns out he is immature, well , then wait until he ripens to have a second go.
  2. As far as Joseph is concerned, I believe he packed way too many shirts for this show. One tight fitting muscle tee shirt would have been more than enough. Kyle did leave as expected and while I agree that he should have left, bringing up the possibility of a race based alliance was not out of left field after last year's alliance which was exactly that. However, with no real evidence that such an alliance existed, he should have kept his thoughts to himself. I found him annoying and self important and a user but I did not see him as a racist. It does seem that the rest of the houseguests did not see him as a racist either. His reception from the audience after he left the house was very cold and I would imagine he will face repercussions in the real world once he leaves the show. I do not think he will be returning for an All Star version. Hopefully Joseph will be.
  3. Decided since the fun sleaziness of Canyon Club was not available, decided to book at Inndulge and took the last suite. Going for a bit of Indulgence this time around. Looking forward to it. Booked from the 12 to the 17.
  4. Inndulge ?
  5. You know that was an odd occurrence. Hot young men dancing in bathing suits but definitely gave me a uncomfortable feeling checking them out.
  6. Well either I am wearing rose colored glasses or I need new glasses, in either case, there is a lot out there to delight my vision.
  7. It seems that the Canyon Club has closed down. So those planning on attending the Palm Springs Get Together, assuming it is going to happen in April, might want to consider other accommodations. I stayed there several times but the last time was going to be the last time even if it stayed open. It had gone from sexy to shady to sleazy to seedy and while that was the kind of place I was looking for during my stay in PS, it was clear that even my meager standards were not going to be met there any longer. Anyone sad to see it go?
  8. It seems to me that I have been seeing more and more very good looking men. Just yesterday for example, the new security person at my job, my waiter at lunch and several shoppers at the supermarket. all caught my eye and increased by heart rate. So is it just that as I age I appreciate men more or am I just a dirty old man. Of course those two things are not mutually exclusive.
  9. Nick Cannon is from a wealthy family apart from his limited fame as a host of game shows and talk shows. He will likely be just an absentee father for at least some of his children. I would question the monetary motivations of the mothers of these children more at least as much as the egotistical motivations of the father.
  10. I was driving to work over the weekend and I came to a red light. While I was waiting, about 8 teenage boys in bathing suits started dancing rather suggestively and holding up signs for donations for their high school football team. They asked that you Venmo the money to the account on the sign. I have seen car washes to raise money with footballers and cheer leaders in bathing suits but this was the first time I had ever seen just dancing. By the way, some of them had very high lap dance potential and surprisingly no board shorts, only rather snug bathing suits. While I believe I know which way this is going to go, do you think this is an appropriate way to raise money for the team? Probably should mention that this corner was along a very popular road to the beach which was about 4 blocks down.
  11. Lanternflies are not native to this area they are an Asian based insect. The are destroyers of crops and have already done serious damage to the NY apple and the NJ tomato crops. They do have some predators here in the US but they are becoming more and more common and killing them before they multiply and doing so without pesticides seems preferable to the chemical alternative. It is surprising that a vegan would not be on the side of fruits and vegetables. I am fairly sure that if he were growing his own produce, the killing of these invaders would not offend his delicate sensibilities quite so much. I usually do not kill insects in my home, rather I capture and release but these insects seem to be quite a hazard to the production of food. Reportedly they are pretty difficult to kill as they are quick and elusive.
  12. I find the best way to get what you want is to ask directly without hesitation. "Hey, when we get together I love a sweaty man smelling man with a clean edible ass. And while we are together, I like verbal degradation. I do not mind being called a faggot or a cocksucker or a pussy boy and a low life scum sucking piece of shit. The fouler the better. Can you do that?" Some may opt out but I am sure there are plenty of guys who could call you things you can't imagine while their manly sweaty body dominates you/. Ask and you shall receive.
  13. Just to be clear. Libido is sexual desire and Viagra and those typer of drugs have little if any effect on libido. Erectile dysfunction rather than libido is the loss of the ability to obtain an erection and those same medications are sometimes helpful if you have blood flow issues which are remediable. Loss of libido has many causes. Depression is certainly a prime mover in this regard. Sadly, antidepressants and other medications are a frequent cause of not only loss of libido but also a decrease in function. Antihypertensives also have the ability to decreased function and desire. Beta blockers such as propranolol, metoprolol, and cardiac beta blockers which are used for heart failure and coronary artery disease or for atrial fibrillation, such as carvedilol are frequent culprits. If you should develop either loss of libido or ED after starting a new medication or even after a prolonged time on a medication known to cause it, contact you doctor and see if another medication can be used. Sometimes a medication in the same class will cause less of a problem. Carrying excess weight has the ability to increase levels of male estrogen and decrease the level of testosterone, so losing weight is a great way to slightly increase testosterone and of course the improvement in your appearance can also get the juices flowing a bit more gingerly. So. Diet and weight loss Exercise. Review of medications. Appropriate medications to help with diseases which may be underlying the decrease in sexual desire and function. Are good places to start. And while stimulation such as porn can help in the short run, sometimes that may actually dull your response and lead to your needing more or more intense kinds of stimulation. So be judicious in your porn use as an alternative. Best advice I have for this, talk to a doctor. Find one who is willing to speak frankly about such issues rather than throw medication such as Viagra at you when that is not the issue. Do not hesitate to be frank with your doctor. Lots of men have told me after finally broaching the subject, that they had been in for several visits, or had seen several doctors, before bringing up the subject of bringing it up. Aging will definitely play a role, but I recall very well a patient of my who at 86 years of age, Brought up the subject and with some minor adjustments and in his medications, he was able to resume satisfying sexual function several times a week.. This did have a down side for me as his physician however, as he was so pleased with his new found ability and prowess that he would often start a visit with something along the lines of "Doc, I want to thank you again. I was able to have sex four times this week and I came all over my wife's tits like I did when I was 25". I was happy for him but could not get that image out of my head for the rest of the day. Shortly thereafter during his wife's visit, I was requested to try and dial back the effectiveness of my treatment for him. I proposed that instead we work on trying to have her have a better experience. But that is a different topic and led to an equally unnerving mind's eye picture.
  14. Sets my heart aflame not to mention the groin.
  15. + Kind of like a way off Broadway Hamilton.
  16. The west coast event started out as a small party with the focus on thanking the escorts and having an opportunity to mingle in a relatively stress free environment with fellow posters and with escorts. Over the years, the careful guidance of Oliver and the deviled eggs of Epigonos have made this an event I try to circle as a cure for the winter blues. Each time I have gone, it has been a different type of experience with the basics being the same but with an influx of new people and an eye for spontaneity at the scheduled events. That being said, an east coast event would be fun but it should start with an identity of its own and with an overseer who will foster its growth as Oliver has done lo these many years. So count me in if you care to start such a project. A word of advice, the most successful version of this event on the east coast has been in DC and centered around IML. It has been fun but January in the NE is not ideal and the IML was the draw but also a distraction for the attendees. A SE venue with a gay friendly vibe in the late summer early fall probably has the best chance for success. Please keep us informed if the idea becomes a reality.
  17. You might feel differently if you lived in Iowa and this is a rare opportunity to see a Major League Game live. It does not hurt anyone and the novelty may bring a few more eyeballs to the TV.
  18. I found myself in a similar situation as a young man and when the driver who had picked me up while I was hitchhiking offered cash to allow him to blow me, I took the cash and the hummer. I got out of the car and then returned to the life I had been living and I did not have sex with a man for more than three decades. So, your life may have been unrecognizably changed or, you may merely have gotten a blow job and moved on with an extra fifty in your pocket.
  19. Apples and oranges. That you chose to offer sick days to someone who cleans your home is nice but not necessary. Paying someone for services not rendered, which is probably 40 to 50 times that amount you pay your house cleaner is worthy of a discussion at the least. It seems like that if your house keeper is "like family" she probably offered regrets about not not working and thanks for the payment. Neither of these things were reported to be done by the escort.
  20. Well as the escort had food poisoning, my guess is they spent quite a bit of time apart. I believe that escorts are not paid for their time but rather for their company and it seems like in this case the company went down the toilet.
  21. Basically, he took two sick days from work. He did not need to apologize for being sick, but he did need to express condolences about your time together being interrupted At the least, after he was well again, a compensatory offer should have been made. It would have been awkward for you to bring it up, but as he did not, you should have done so. Something along the lines of: I know you feel bad about not being at your best for our weened together, but I am confident you will make up for that the next time we get together. would be a way to initiate such a conversation. If he gives no indication of any type of remorse for the interrupted weekend and does not see fit to try and make up for it, I believe you should consider it a Lost Weekend and him a Lost Companion.
  22. I have no first hand knowledge but wow. Please let us know if you take a trip down that particular road.
  23. I might consider buying them if he wore as a cock warmer and the LV was because it was Very Large. Otherwise give him a gift card and left him buy his own ugly socks.
  24. I do not know why one would assume this story is apocryphal. I know at least two providers who are lawyers and one who is a doctor and another who is an accountant and another a civil engineer. Some people can multi task and if he has the skills, why not.
  25. Emphasizing what is going to keep the piston pumping? After all it is not so much the lump in the pants as the pump with the ass.
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